Chapter XIII
Hate, if the shock, if your scourge of the body. What is hate, if the shock? Under the pet to obtain if the shock of, if the shock of the loss, that is if the shock hate. So we have a large patient, as I thinking you have no body and I have hang? It is expensive for the body in the world, if the world can be asked to carry on; love of being in the world, if you can send the world carry on.
Chapter XIII 1 setback to war! | Tao Te Ching Text
Dear friends Hello everyone, today we went to talk about "moral", today spoke of the "moral" Chapter XIII. This chapter ages say it is somewhat complex, that is to say, hard to say this chapter in particular, inside it has some grammar, usage is very strange, we are a little bit in terms of what we see here in the end the truth Yes.
First, the first sentence I said "hate, if the shock," We heard that this does not often say, "Rain or shine" it? This speak of "hate, if the shock" to tell us of "Rain or shine" is not a level thing, is an entirely different angle. "Rain or shine," is that this person was very calm, no matter to a good thing, a bad thing as I have the same right, which is a expert. I speak of is a cultivation method, you say that this world is born with an expert who does? They say he is a cultivation process. I speak of "hate, if the shock," What does it mean? "Pet" is a word here Yidong, "for the pet to ......" means. We have talked about in the end is what pet? With shame for the pet, as is also the kind of insult you patronize, why should this happen? I explain below, I said, "What is hate, if the shock?" What is hate, if the shock of it? We do not speak the middle of the phrase "if your scourge of the body," I asked what is hate, if the shock of it? He said that "under the pet is, if it was scared, if the loss of surprise" is that patronize, you get the feeling it has scared, scared they would lose, was pleasantly surprised and lost is scared, frightened and many more. Why is this so? Because "at the pet is" you, you are at the bottom.
For example, I was an intern first came inside the unit, I feel pretty good job, suddenly one day at the conference, chairman of praise: "Ronaldinho well, do it very well, I can see through it Ronaldinho is our unit best employees! "this time what you feel? Heart jump out, I got the leadership of praise, this is not a "surprise"? It is a surprise. Then lost the leadership suddenly went below boast: "Alan is better, I think Ronaldinho good last week, this week I found Mike better ......" This is a compliment shifted. We say patronize, although the word a little awkward listening to, but also a kind of pet. Leadership attention suddenly shifted, you will feel lost, "how I do not boast, it is lost ......" This is a heart praise Li, Wang, and this heart surprised, a little alarmed.
So I said, "under the pet is," Why do you panic? Because you are in the lower position, we got the pet you feel scared, scared you will lose. I say that this disgrace is also placed in this state, you put "hate, if the shock," the shame is also used to treat this condition, such as an insult to you scared, lost and scared you. These words in the end what does that mean? "Hate, if the shock" to insult as favorite of the state to deal with, "was the surprise if, if the loss of surprise," What do you mean? They tell us, do that "pet" too seriously, this pet and shame difference is not so big, if you are able to practice as a kind of insult also like favorite of the state, then you progress, which is I required.
For example, we all want life to be praised, hate to be criticized, hated encountered setbacks, but I follow this idea, you should take setbacks as a precious thing, as a treasure, as the same kind of praise to cherish it, you will be able to progress, you will be able to have these people become, so why practice? Because of us are afraid of setbacks, we will even go dodging the setbacks, we will be dodging "disgrace" go, we think this matter can be incredible, too sad.
How to deal with this setback it? Psychologists have done a lot of research, animal how to treat it frustration? They take dogs to experiment with electric shocks to stimulate the dog, as long as it rattles a shock, a shock rattles on, the establishment of a conditioned reflex, and then put the dog inside the two-piece box, the middle of the box there is a low wall, that is, the threshold of a small dog can step across the past, then put in a shock device inside the box, the box is not the dog into the box there's an electric shock device, here a bell, and asked: that the dog would not hide step box to go over there? The results of this experiment are: dog without any escape, immediately huddled, and why? It has established a conditioned reflex, as long as it curled a rattle, dog thinks I respect so unlucky, I am squarely in the sights go, the dog quickly learned to endure setbacks.
Then people do? Our people are smarter than dogs, right? Psychologists and do the experiment, the two groups were placed in two has a very loud noise inside the room, the walls of each room there is a button, as long as a press room, the noise stopped, then loud noises for a while , and then stopped again, and then they stopped, according to another room how buttons do not work, the establishment of a conditioned reflex. Then after two groups of people to new two noisy room, the wall has a button, press the button a two-room noise would stop and ask you press the button in front of the group invalid, according to a new room it should stop the noise, whether he would press the button to make the noise stop? Actually, this is actually the person is strong than dogs, who met with frustration when the dog's attitude is not the same. The results are: do not press the button on the wall almost everyone. why? Because they have learned to face frustration and helpless, "Anyway, I was so unlucky, ah what the experiment, which according to it's useless, do not press", you see people quickly learned submissive.
There are three state who face setbacks: First, to endure, and second, more negative and the third is to see the global jump out. Most people are the first two, behind only the wise man is one of the third person can learn to see why there is frustration. So why is there setbacks? Because you certainly have a defective setbacks, there must be only short board frustration, absolutely no reason setbacks occur. For example, you say you fell out of thin air a somersault, you want to why you fell a somersault? I did not pay attention to how the eyes, or I wear shoes inappropriate, etc., must be my problem. If this somersault fall over, you sum up experience, and you will not fall below and fallen off the ditch to go inside, but if you pay attention to it, I feel all right, avoid it, the result of a plump fall into the ditch, there was a major event.
What is the conclusion? First, frustration is not for no reason that appears, you have a short board; second, if learned to elevate himself in frustration, you later have no greater frustration, and you may have escaped a major disaster. How to face setbacks, the face of insult this is a matter of attitude, I tell you what should be done? "Hate, if the shock", to be treated like the kind of praise, encourage, patronize to love it, to embrace the setbacks, do not feel the pain that something special, go to embrace it, from the inside to find his own question, you enhance it get a higher realm. So the more people embrace the setbacks, you find that he raised the faster, the higher his realm, never hiding frustration people go, uncertain which let you off the ditch and fallen inside, that unlucky bigger, so smart people will embrace setbacks .
Zeng talked about in the Confucian classics "I three times daily," many times a day to reflect on their own, although this "three" speaking behind a specific implementation, but "three" can also be used as many times mean. So I ask, many times a day is to reflect on their own merits it? Absolutely not, are looking for their own shortcomings, which place I do not good enough, so that people will continue to put small problems, small weed out a little setback, he will not have a big bad thing, and why? People put this issue has disappeared in the early stages.
It is not an enemy to frustration, frustration can embrace people who have great wisdom. Embrace setbacks person, people think that "It's fun, a challenge again," he is happy, not the kind of feel bad day, only bad luck passive in the face of setbacks, frustrations initiative to meet you Yuezhanyueyong. Came a setback, challenge, success, another challenge is successful, with almost playing video games, such a person will be able to progress, but the progress will be very fast, so people will have the last laugh micro.
So I say "hate, if the shock," "What is hate, if the shock?" What is hate, if the shock of it? They tell you: "Under the pet is, if it was scared, if the loss of surprise, is that hate, if the shock." So, "hate, if the shock" and "Rain or shine" is not a state, "hate, if the shock" is a method of cultivation, eventually enters a state "Rain or shine" in.
Today to share with you this sentence, I say "hate, if the shock," if we can use this method to practice, you will improve very quickly, your life will be elevated to a higher realm, and this is a kind of wisdom.
Today we talk to this, tomorrow we then talk talk "moral", thank you.
Chapter XIII of 2 border suffering, but also when the treasure | Tao Te Ching Text
Dear friends Hello everyone, today we talk then "moral." Yesterday we talked about pondering whether to go back? In general is Rain or shine, I step closer, is "hate, if the shock," I insulted as a pet, this is interesting, I take the initiative to find frustration, humiliation, this realm is not the same. We look at ancient Chinese culture, this one word, you go on her, there is a point. "Rain or shine" and "hate, if the shock," this difference between the two there is room for pondering.
Today, we revisit the sentence below, I of this chapter is interspersed with spoken words, I am bound by everyone concerned, we see the edge of the text we are here, we know what the arrangement method. "Hate, if the shock" immediately after the talk "if your scourge of the body", which in turn interesting. "If your body scourge" that is the scourge of big disaster, a big worry is precious, treat the body as listening to these words is also very confused. He explained, "What if your scourge of the body?" What is to such a large infestation, treat the infestation as the kind of big body to cherish it do? I said, "So I have a large patient, as I also pregnant," Why do we feel that life is always a worry, a variety of unhappy? Because we have a body, this is the case. If we have no body, I said, "and I no body, there hang?" If you are not this body, you have nothing to worry about, and why do we worry? We have this body, we eat good food, we're going to enjoy nice to have the body, the body we begin to worry, think and so on, the body of a sick, Choude incredible, it hurts me, I felt this block fast enough, dizziness, mouth pain, etc., in which a body, we feel sorrow came, all are busy rushing for the body, if not that to worry about the body. So I said, "So I have big patient", the reason I worry all day long, there is a big worry, because I have a body, "I was thinking you also." "And I no body," when I am not of the body, I have nothing to worry, I speak these words this truth right, yes.
We have repeatedly certified it because we have a body, we had to catch busy to worry about, when we do not have bodies, we worry about these things. Popular talk each of us is a bit "bitchy"? Body bring you to so many problems, we had to catch it in order to hardship, but we love the body, in order to run around a busy body, no one said I do not want a body, I am, however, and we all love the body, is body busy rushing, no regrets. Even if the body has brought us a lot of trouble, we still love it, we put the body as a very precious thing, although it is the scourge of trouble, it is brought hardship, but we still "if your scourge of the body," or think of it as a very precious thing. Although the body has brought us a lot of hardship, but we still think of it as a very precious thing, pay for it without complaint, called "scourge if your body."
We live in the face of the body such trouble, so we cherish it, but if we encounter other things, there might not think so. For example, we encounter a lot of trouble in daily life, we tend to hide it. I told our wisdom is that you should embrace it, it is possible to precisely these problems is the growth of MERITS, some of the nutrients it is growing.
For example, there are many unpleasant experiences, unhappy experience, but you just can accomplish. For example, I learned in medical reason to be so handy, I was good classical foundation, basically I see no difference with the classical look vernacular, and I like to watch classical. Small when our family is very difficult, and I did not take my sister Luo Ling to the kindergarten, the day we locked in a room inside, their parents go to work, I told Luo Ling himself alone in the room, my dad came home from work at noon to do the meal, after dinner, he locked the door again and went until the evening come back. I now know this feeling, just like raising a puppy home, to work for the dog locked in the house, like a dog can not go out to play, is the nature of children to play, do not play it in the room, he was afraid we get lost, fear of being abducted villains. We really did not see things in the room, only to see the home of the ancient books, my dad is a professor of Chinese, there are a lot of books. I'm not way home, I go to school before and Luo Ling on reading at home, I remember very clearly, I see the "Warring States", "Mandarin", "Strange" These stories, some stories are selected with comics, I remember Cheng Shifa paintings, once saw this painting, they both loved treasures at home watching these old books, this is my preschool books, I would like to recognize traditional characters, look at the classical and later scholarship simplified, this is my learning process.
Now look at feel good, there is a learning opportunity. It was really nothing to see, as a comic look at the ancient books, Tiandan fire bulls, looking back and forth. At that time many do not know the word, one to work, and my dad came back, he asked what the word is, because you understand the impact of the story, she anxiously asked. The more so the more literate, to recognize traditional characters. We Northeast dark early in winter, when the parents did not come back from work, it was already dark, and this time could not see the book, because at home we reach the light cord, can not beat lights and afraid to waste electricity, parents would not let us turn on the lights this time what I told Luo Ling play at home it? At that time few outside the car, and occasionally had a car from the road when the light would hit the wall lights, shadow window, the lights shine a bed shadow, the shadow of the window will go from here to the wall there, along the wall walk around inside the house, our house was 12 square meters is a small room, and I Luo Ling chase this shadow play, took another car, running from side to chase shadows. But now I think very bleak, was really nothing to play, just chase this shadow, until their parents came back, it was cheered, look through the pocket you have any books bring back, bring back what magazines, very happy.
Now think of very sad, really bitter at that time, it is not good to eat, nothing to play all day on reading. Do you think this is a tough life, but it is precisely this bitterness to my classical foundation to beat down, then I learn traditional Chinese medicine is particularly handy, then this is the scourge, it is not fun, but it is the future growth MERITS . So we have to, "if your scourge of the body", for this misery do not think it is so bitter, it is possible in the future to help you grow in this schedule.
As another example, such as our customers, and some very nasty customer, the customer is your god, the customer can be said that "If the body," is your life, but some very nasty customer, will bring each kinds of trouble, he's like "scourge", as like the body to bring all sorts of trouble, as you say, like him or hate him? You want to like him, because there may be such a troublesome customer, just be able to help you improve. For example, the leadership of the bank told me that he said that is the case. He was a bank of Beijing, which always come before us an old man, this old man every day to give us our pick holes, the fault-finding and training a long time we have training, training two hours, once he comes the door that says the Bank from now on sale for a financial products, today is January 30, he inscribed below it today is January 1, January 1 posted notices, today is the 30th. The old man to have a look, they come to ask the manager come over you, I ask you that from now on the Bank of today is the day? Managers will have to explain to him, which today is January 1, did not see the bottom is inscribed January 1, the old man said, why not write clearly, the Bank from January 1 to start selling this product, non-admiration today, today is January 30, and I saw the calendar, I thought that today is the January 30 issue of the beginning, why do we need to give you easy misleading way, to write to you posters, training on this matter them more than one hour.
Another time, his work, his work did not counter the problem, the results of his finishing things, the counter next to the counter and asked the lady inside salesperson, you help me find my savings account and how much money left, the salesperson to read later directly directed at the speaker shouted, you left this deposit was 10 million dollars. The old man then quit, the manager come over me ask you, how much money other people's books, it is people's privacy, you can write an article to the glass one, a Man to know, why must the hub of the horn shout , people have 10 million dollars, the bad guys, thieves have heard, which was released the privacy of people, do not, and training them for two hours. Therefore, a old man to act, they hide, terrified, this old man again, quickly hide, flash, flash lobby managers, but not always so hide, to grasp the nettle now.
That old man came, very active, you ask, you sit to one side, start by asking you a cup of tea, we chat today, the results of this talk only to find that the old man was a veteran of the financial sector in Hong Kong, in Hong Kong great financial position, act lived in Beijing for some time, he saw the bank's work program, with financial services than in Hong Kong, a level difference, he asks you to come in Hong Kong in accordance with standard financial services, continue to give you advice this is to see customers like trouble, but he just brings the chance of promotion, if all went as he says make up, and that the whole Beijing in financial services, should be a first-class, it should be your level of service and Hong Kong financial services are the same, saw that it was in trouble, but this is precisely the growing MERITS.
It gives us wisdom, "What if your scourge of the body?" Why "If your scourge of the body"? Because the body is the capital, but it gives you a lot of trouble, because we never had these problems without the love of the body, for life, too, for those coming crisis, the scourge of difficulty, do not be afraid of it, to treat Like the body to deal with it, how you treat the body how to deal with trouble, to believe that these problems are growing MERITS, is the important thing and the body, this is I give us the wisdom, the wisdom incredible. Understand this truth then, we'll see that in life these difficulties, hardship, our perspective is different, not hiding it, but want it with my body is the same, it brought me grow the MERITS, I want to embrace it, it will be transformed for the better.
I have always stressed the bad becomes good, good will deteriorate, because the two are Aioi, which is a reason Chinese classical philosophy. Lao Tzu tells us that as long as there is this point of view, life is not the same, which is today I phrase "if your scourge of the body" Tell us some inspiration, go back and think about our own is not the case, figured look at all the world, it may be completely different.
Today to talk to it, thank you.
Chapter XIII 3 I and all beings are one | Tao Te Ching Text
Dear friends Hello everybody, very happy and chatted with everyone, "moral", and you see the message behind every day, I feel very happy. We have a lot of inspiration, ideas have changed under the guidance of Lao Tzu "moral" and very happy. Today, we then talk "moral" Chapter XIII.
I spoke in front of the body has brought us a lot of trouble, but we still love the body, the body work. I say this realm called the "scourge if your body" after, "if your scourge of the body," I finished then say, "it is expensive for the body in the world, if the world is also credible; love for the world to put their lives on, if can send the world also. "these words mean something like this, I said that while the body is in trouble, brought hardship, but you love it so, if put on this momentum, this attitude is used in the world, you are a good leader. "Your body is on for the world", "body" we can explain the larger the risk, the body of this great hardship as a precious thing, "as in the world", "in" is on the meaning, not the ratio of the mean, many past the home to explain, more than anything else is wrong, is on meaning, on the world to do, to manage the world up.
I "moral" is to speak to the leader, and he often said how the world, so the world can people entrusted to him. This love, for such a large body of hardship, people can maintain this attitude of love, put this attitude into the world up, so people can send the world, and send care is a meaning. In the "Dictionary" inside, it is to send care, care that is sent. I think we will this sentence mean? Why this attitude of the body into the world? First, the first layer of meaning, not to the world as a platform to gain interest in the past in feudal society, many believe that the ruling class is its own world, I am willing to how to enjoy how to enjoy, I particularly opposed to this idea, I thought repeatedly said No, the world is in the management process will bring a lot of trouble, so it's like the body, to spare no efforts for its service, it will bring you a lot of hardship, you can only withstand these griefs, and is a good leader . I always had this idea, if you can afford these national disaster, you are the manager of the country, this is the first layer of meaning of these words.
The second meaning of these words is like you tremendous trouble to the body to give you things are great love it, paid for it a lot of effort, if the world is to be able to deal with this attitude, but for no gain spare no efforts to consider it, serve it, this talent is the real leader. Such a person we can trust him with the world.
The deeper meaning of this sentence is I, as a leader, make the world their bodies and management into one, such a thought is, how much you value your body will respect how the world is, how much you love your own how the body will love the world, the body and the world are the same, are combined into one, this idea is very critical, and I do not my distinction, but I and the world as one, this idea is very, very important. Our management company is the same today, if you're a business leader, you are aware of myself and the company is one of the, I do not think the company is a tool to make money, not you and the company are one, do not in my company, the business between you, me and not my differences aside, because you are a whole, how much you love your body on how to love company. If you reach such a state, businesses will be able to better management.
For example Laoganma sauce a day to sell 1.3 million bottles a year to income of more than 40 million business owners called the Tao Hua Bi, is an old aunt, she was not very understanding of the word, she would write the words on the three Tao Hua Bi word, do not know what management. Many scholars to manage her business to go, will be very confused, she was not so strict modern enterprise management guidance and so on, but why run so well? Not a penny of the loan, not listed, do not advertise, they rely on word of mouth, day to sell 1.3 million bottles. Because Ms. Tao Hua Bi inherently good, especially good, she do when the company put the company and myself as a whole. The company has just a few dozen people in those days, when she wants all workers to go to work, to provide all accommodation, food and accommodation to dig her, and today more than 2,000 employees, and is still free room and board. Lunch every day You know how much money? It was astronomical, free room and board, 2000 employees, which is not easy. Tao Hua Bi are very good for each employee, their business every employee travel time, as long as staff travel, the old lady will personally cook a bowl of noodles, send you to the factory gate.
There was a bit of employees, is said to be a chef, like smoking, drinking, smoking, drinking monthly wage all spent, this chef as well as brothers and sisters, his parents died home side, with a brother and sister chefs on this life, he a month that money, what to leave brothers and sisters? School how to do in the future? Tao Hua Bi know after these things, one day after work to tell the cook not go, I invite you to dinner. To come outside a hotel, told him that this evening this hotel has a total of just pumping smoke, which is what your point, all right, what wine you name it, I gave you, the casual wine to drink tonight tube enough, but after tonight, in the past, starting today not to drink and smoke, tobacco and alcohol, the money they save, not all spent, you go to school with the brothers and sisters in the future, I do not like such an illiterate, this It is not acceptable. You put that money, although I request you up, I was afraid you gave to spend, I do not worry, you later monthly wages to buckle under, give you send 200 dollars, the rest of the salary, I can help you keep, so you brothers and sisters to school, I'll send you. Chairman of a group of four billion, he was able to lower a staff, a chef, to keep his salary, she and the entire company as one of their own, she did not distinguish, but everyone is like family, like their own. This sense of unity to let employees feel, the staff are willing to follow her, so her business flourishing, we produce particularly motivated, and began to live strong and special.
This company, although she never learned particularly advanced management theory, but she has the most basic of life criteria, there is the most basic, most simple rules of this channel in the inside, that she gave her whole body and enterprise integration, love her as their own bodies, like love this business, which is "expensive for the body in the world for the love of being in the world" this realm. To this state, she must be a very distinguished, very high level managers. In this chapter I speak, speak in front of "hate, if the shock, if your scourge of the body," are paving the way, and finally I want to say is do not put in the world, the company is as a tool to fish, fish platform, this is something I can gain unlimited, no that thing, you know it will give you worry, only you endure this hardship, treat the body as the body to bring you worry, you can bear still love it, you are in the world, the company must bear hardship, know that it is suffering, bringing a variety of troubles, but you bear it. You cherish to love your body as it treats the body's own attitude, put on the administration and management company in the world, his own body and the world, as one company, the only way people are the real leaders.
We ordinary people to learn this useful if you are a teacher, you put all the students as their own bodies, as to love him, you are a good teacher; if you are a salesperson, you put all customers as their own Like the body, although it serves them trouble, but I still love them, if you have this attitude, your sales will do better. Every one of us ordinary people, if we can all around, as his body, there is no difference between me and all beings, I am beings, beings that is me, how much I love myself, how I would have I love everyone. If you have this idea of doing things in life will be completely different, and this is I want to teach us a great realm.
Today we learned this, then after, we go back and wondering what, if you feel all think so, how can there be so many contradictions, conflicts, and this is enhanced, learning the "moral" is to enhance, not take it, and It is to do. Today, listening to the "moral" future, we think everyone should come out, I and all beings no difference, we are one, you look at everybody, you will find that your attitude will be completely different of.
Today we talk to this, tomorrow we come back and then talk about "moral" Chapter XIV, also thank my friends a message, write down your thoughts, we can interact more, thank you, goodbye.