Love evaluation

Love you.

In love, consistency and combination of people because of personality, but also because of personality clashes separated, different personalities in manipulating your attitude towards love.

 Love Style:

Your gentle, willing to pay the doomed character is that you will take care of the other person in your relationship. At the same time, your thoughts and feelings of others is very sensitive, so you really know how to care for the feelings of lovers, so you can always capture the true inner thoughts of lovers, timely given the warm and considerate and caring. This capability makes it easy for the other party to leave the care of others, it is worth to rely on the image. Of course, the process of caring for others also let you enjoy them.

You are a happy person to pay for love, so you believe in love should symbolize a sense of security, responsibility, pay and so on, this is your expectations of love. But before you start a relationship, you are always cautious, you want to make sure future she is a loyal and reliable partner. If you really like to find a person, you will use your gentle and considerate in every possible way to give her love, take care of her, with her, let her feel the full security, warmth and care.

 Precautions:

More noteworthy is that, for you, some prerequisite happy romance might be your other half you enough attention and loyalty. Because once you put someone as your partner, you will remain one kind of pay and dedication to her without reservation. You do not like those conflicts and contradictions of the situation, many times you will meet each other and hide their own needs, in the long run, your heart will accumulate some pent-up emotions.

At the same time, the face of feelings, even if this feeling is very bad, you may be reluctant to give up. Sometimes, you may also be some of the shackles of traditional concepts, living in a period of bad feelings can not be pulled out, even though you know you should not hesitate to leave.

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 Ideal lover

Your ideal She is a kind, good at caring for others, brings warmth to the side of the people. Feelings, she more than the courage to express your own feelings, willing to pay for your generous and family. At the same time, she is also good at doing a lot of preparation and organization of life, at her side, you are at ease and practical.

Although the occasional conflict between you, but she is not the kind of random to end feelings of the people, she would be willing to take leave of you and your family, wholeheartedly willing to accompany you and support you, loyal and affectionate. This pursuit for life one pair of people for you, is a perfect fit.

 How to seize her heart

Encounter Location:

She is a warm and talkative, aggressive schedule to some groups activities, take care of everyone that you are looking for that type like her oh.

你可以在有精致食物、有教养的人所在的地方:餐厅、单身者美食俱乐部、单身者旋转晚会、烹饪班或婚礼上等地方,与她来场甜蜜的相遇。

约会锦囊:

在约会之初,找一个适合彼此,轻松愉悦的环境更利于你们情感的交流和加深。你可以主动约她看一场甜蜜的爱情电影,借此机会更加了解彼此。你会发现,她的内心细腻而柔软,和你一样非常渴望一段美好、真挚的感情。在这种时刻,互相表达自己对感情的看法,能让你们觉得对方是适合自己的另一半。

捕心行动:

不同性格的人会在不同的情景下心动,当你和她约会的时候一定要让那些容易捕获她芳心的情景自然地发生。

当你和她进一步约会时,你友善、体贴,非常注意关照他人情绪的特质就会进一步显现出来。很多时候,你可能会将别人的需求放在自己的之前,重视别人而忽略自己。而她也是一个内心细腻的人,并且非常乐于为他人提供帮助。当她看到你为了照顾他人而忽略自己的时候,她很可能就会被你的善良和体贴打动,对你产生一种心疼,更加想要去爱护你,照顾你。而她的这些举动也会让你内心甜甜的,感觉幸福且踏实。

另外,对于她来说,与他人保持积极的人际关系是非常重要的,周围和谐、愉悦的氛围能让她感到满足。所以在气氛正佳的时候,温柔地告诉她,和她在一起感觉很开心、很幸福,这样很能撩拨她的心,让她不自觉为你心动。

恋爱雷区:

虽然你很看重人际关系,但是你并不喜欢太热烈和频繁的社交,因为在这种聚会中往往会让你觉得耗费太多精力,感觉筋疲力尽。比起和一群人一起high,你更喜欢那种一对一或者小群体的安静的聚会。但她却和你不太一样,她比较喜欢参加聚会,喜欢享受聚会中和谐、友好的环境,并且愿意投入时间和精力去和她人保持良好的人际关系。有时候你们在这方面会产生一些矛盾或分歧,虽然你很多时候都会照顾她的需求,但是长此以往,你可能会太过压抑自己的真实需求,让你们的感情陷入一种不健康的状态中。

如何与她谈一场不分手的恋爱:

与对方协调,尊重彼此的需求并留有空间能让彼此感觉舒适。

1、知道什么时候说“不”

比如说,你的恋人想和你一起去参加某个聚会,但是你已经没有精力去参加此类活动,你可以说“抱歉,亲爱的,我现在只想在家休息一下,去参加聚会会让我感觉很累、很有压力”。

2、互相交换彼此的界限

对你来说,什么是不可以接受的行为,你不能够忍受的事情是什么?明确地向你的恋人说明,让对方明白你的底线。同时也能了解对方的底线,明白有些事情自己是不可以去触碰的。在此基础上尊重彼此,并保有舒适的交往。

3、有时候遇到一些双方不一致,但又争执不下的事情时,可以

a.学着轮流妥协

有时候你可以听她的安排来选择今天要看的电影,而你挑选今晚的用餐地点等。当双方都能照顾彼此的需求时,就像团队一样能携手合作,为彼此而努力。

b.考虑谁更在意这一点

有时候,当你们争论不下,试着想一想,这件事情对谁更重要,你将会明白自己应该如何面对这种情况。如果有一些事情对你真的很重要,那同样让你的恋人知道,她也将知道该如何做。

 

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 注意事项:

 

更加值得注意的是,对你而言,一段美满恋情的前提可能是你的另一半也对你足够的重视和忠诚。因为你一旦将一个人当成你的伴侣,你就会对她保持一种毫不保留的付出和奉献。你不喜欢那些冲突和矛盾的情境,很多时候你都会满足对方而隐藏自己的需求,长此以往,你的内心会积累一些压抑的情绪。

同时,面对感情时,即使这段感情很糟糕,你可能也不愿意放弃。有时候,你还可能会被一些传统的观念束缚,身处在一段糟糕的感情中而无法抽离,即使你知道你应该毫不犹豫的离开。

 

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