Everyone is there temperament, personality, strengths, weaknesses and problems, and when these conflicts and the way you are, you are going to become more and more others or to change themselves to adapt to others? When a leader to tell me that you do not try to change others more, you can do is become more yourself.
When I encountered difficulties, I often think of this sentence.
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