A relative died, mourning the past, but to be honest, emotional depth, that is the kind of meet once a year. It faced a problem: cry! !
According to custom, he went to the elders in the hall shouted to cry, the question is, where is said that you can cry cry out? But do not cry would not work, how to do it? Fake cry!
Before you give to other people that cry, then head down hum, murmuring, "how do you go, ah" like, look like a cry on the line, who is such a thing care about you, or who will pursue you, there is really no tears, lost a few drops, eye drops or really out?
So fake cry has become a part of the custom, it has become an unspoken etiquette! This family know? Certainly I know, so they are mourning another family; we know it? Of course you know, the heart does not want to have to ask you to cry, to frill; we know that they know? Of course I know, but given really could not shed tears, only cheek false cry over. Into fake cry, it was helped up, tell you do not be sad, Libi ......
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