Do you think life is very long and sometimes you feel lonely? I think most people will feel this way. A small number of people have clear goals and will only feel that there is not enough time, not too much time. So, what do most lonely people do when they are lonely, looking for fun? Maybe, everyone's way of entertainment is different. Don't do anything illegal and disciplined. For other things, just be happy. What do you think? When you are lonely, you always want someone to accompany you, right?
How do you define the person you are closest to?
I don’t know what everyone thinks about this issue. Who do you think is the closest person to you? Regarding this issue, my personal view is the same as how I define my significant other. Have you ever thought about what your partner is here for? Is he getting married for the sake of getting married, or because of love. My definition is that the other half is the person who has been with me the longest in my life. He will go through life step by step from youth, middle age, and old age. Either the other half goes first, or I go first. In this process of life, you and your partner will support and rely on each other and move forward together. Some people may think, what about parents? Shouldn’t parents be the closest to us? Parents are also the closest to us, but the definitions of parents and significant other are different. Parents give us life and accompany us to grow up happily. When we grow up to a certain age, we will slowly find that our parents begin to fade out of our lives, and we will also begin to leave our parents' side, move towards study and work outside, and gradually learn to be independent. But it is undeniable that our parents are still our last harbor. We are grateful to our parents for working hard for the next generation and giving everything without asking for anything in return. After talking about parents, are your brothers and sisters the people you are closest to? We grew up together, but on the road of life, we will still work hard for our own needs. They will also build their own families, have many of their own troubles, have their own helplessness, and have people who are important to them. , maybe when it reaches a certain level, it will return to the family.
friend
I don’t know how many friends you have, maybe a lot. I used to have a lot of them. Thinking about when I was in school, there were so many classmates who were good at playing, and a pair of pants could be worn by two people. Now, I don’t know. Many times, some friends slowly stop contacting them, or when they do, there is less communication. At this time, I will also reflect on myself. Is it my problem? Did I fail to do a good job? Did I fail to consider other people's feelings? Maybe, everyone is growing up, everyone is in their own circle, everyone is fighting for three meals a day, it is not easy, understand. Along the way, friends are very important and bring a lot of color to our lives. However, gradually I feel that there are really fewer friends. Maybe it’s because I don’t know how to be a good person. Now I feel like my brother is my friend, the one I talk to the most and the most closely, haha. Even now, I think about sending screenshots of blog data to Moments, but I think about it and forget it. I didn’t like going out alone before, but now I go everywhere alone and look around. Isn’t it great?
at last
In fact, it’s nothing, I just write and talk casually. The most important thing in life is to be happy, read more books, and go out for more walks. The flag I set at the end of last year has not been realized yet. Read more books and think more. Beauty is coming to you and me. Come on.