Last week, during the Dragon Boat Festival, I watched the movie "I Love You!" ", mainly tells about Uncle Chang's love life in old age. In his twilight years, his longing for life and love is rekindled.
Watching this movie is mainly to gain an experience of not getting old and thinking about being old first. One day, we will also be old. How to spend the rest of our life will require us to think about it ourselves in the future. (1) Uncle Chang, who is in his twilight years in the movie story, lives a peaceful and peaceful life. He practices whipping in the park, sometimes chooses a high spot to take pictures, or visits the zoo. He has worked in the zoo for many years
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Yes, it can be regarded as watching the zoo grow old together.
One day, there was a conflict with other people. By accident, I got to know Aunt Li, and at the same time walked into her life. It turned out that she made a living by picking up scraps. At the same time, the family also raised a flock of birds. Life in his later years was not rich, but it was still passable.
In order to express his apology, Uncle Chang helped Aunt Li pick up scraps. After a few visits in this way, he became acquainted and gradually developed a good impression. At the same time, through contact, he also added new possibilities to his life.
(1) About life-the joy in life
happened to be a while ago, I went to the house of my relatives and aunts. According to the usual practice, I have to go there once every few years. I still remember that when I was in school, I went to my aunt’s house and said to myself, Back then, I sent your brother to school in the same way. It has been so many years, and your brother never said to come and see us.
So, myself and my brother made this rule, every few years, I would go to my aunt's house to see, visit, chat about the family affairs, and at the same time, I also had the opportunity to go back to school to visit my old teachers.
This time, the old lady talked about her father, saying that he didn’t know that he was in life, so he should have some fun, because a few years ago, he had a dispute with someone on the land, and he couldn’t let go of this matter, and he always looked for life. You can't be happy if you don't do good things.
After our visit, my aunt is about to leave for a trip to other places, looking for fun in life. And I also know that my father is stubborn, and there is no way to persuade him. Different life attitudes determine a person's health status, and I can only worry about it.
Uncle Chang, who has entered the new year, knows how to use his mobile phone and learn some trendy vocabulary when he lives by himself, which shows that he has yearning for life and knows how to "have fun" by himself.
After getting to know Aunt Li, she knew how to renovate her car, collected waste products, danced and played together, which not only opened up a new life, but also added new "fun".
(2) For the children - leaving with dignity
In the early years, I still heard that several children, in order to compete for the family property left by the old man, quarreled and even fought openly and secretly. In the end, the few children tore their skins apart, and the good family fell apart. People were against each other, and they just lived their lives as a negative example.
But this should not be entirely blamed on the children. At that time, people had several children in every family, and they were not particularly rich, and they were lacking in material. In the absence of education, children's education is not valued, and children are easy to learn from others. How parents treat their elders, in the future, children will easily treat their parents in the same way when they grow up.
Like Uncle Xie’s family in this movie, they collect scraps for a living. Uncle Xie’s wife is always insane because of illness. The younger daughter also got sick when she was a child, and always feels owed. She usually earns a little money and let the younger daughter take it all. Gone, and the husband of the youngest daughter is still addicted to gambling, like a bottomless pit.
In such a difficult situation, Uncle Xie still does not need to bring up his children, and he still wants not to cause trouble for his children, and wants to make the illusion of gas poisoning, and leave quietly with his wife, so that no one will gossip about his children , and at the same time told all this to his close uncle Chang, asking him to take care of the aftermath for him.
And Uncle Chang was also very angry. At Uncle Xie's aftermath banquet, he whipped his whip again, vented his resentment, and told the truth.
When I saw this, I was really moved. The relationship between children and parents should not have come to such a situation. Parents are so considerate of their children, but children don't know it, and it shouldn't be.