【杂谈】如果你也23岁

23岁的时候，你是什么状态？

匿名用户：
23岁那年...就是去年...... 
在22岁的时候我毕业，同时第二年准备考研，结果因为压力太大，期望太高，又失利了，但是我依然满怀信心和憧憬 
在我23岁那年四月，当我深爱的女孩（在这之前我追了她四年）说她要去北京时，我在毫无准备的情况下，带了2000块钱冲到北京，那会的北京还有点冷...但是我只是想打好前站，在她来的时候能提供一点帮助，在前两周里，每天面试两家公司以上，面对拒绝我依然满怀斗志，在第三周我病倒了，在那一周里...我躺在合租的房子里，起不了床...吃不下东西，在那期间里，除了我的父母和哥哥，其他人（包括她）没有发过一条短信，打过一个电话...在第四周的第一天，她告诉我：我们根本不可能...然后我离开了，我想我得考虑生活在自己的世界...放弃了几家公司的offer...来到了上海 
在上海的第一个月...最潦倒的时候身上只有四枚硬币，还有一个是假的，地铁都坐不了...失去了精神寄托...每天就是迷糊发呆...... 
然后我找到了第一份工作...工作的一年时间里，拼命加班...让自己忙的累死累活...不断的学习，不断的提高，寻找自己的兴趣，虽然在爱情这一条上...依然没有收获...但是我每天过的很开心 
有时候你并不需要知道自己未来什么样子，甚至不需要知道自己想做什么，但是只要你怀有信心和斗志，一步一步的往前走，在路上发现自己的未来......

maggie，一个知乎有心人：
21岁大本毕业的时候，为了和男朋友的爱情能开花结果，跟着他来到了北京，举目无亲，在牡丹园的一个军队大院租了一间不足10平米的房，房东是一个革命老红军奶奶兼退休小学教员，在她的各种监视下和男朋友约会，面对各种不适应和各种苦经常痛哭流涕。 
第一份工作用Powerbuilder ，基本是当时国内最早用的那批人，单位里只有一套书，为了能快速熟悉这套语言，我自费花了300多块跑到晓通网络公司买了1、2、3册，然后下班回家苦读，记读书笔记，把函数都背下来，就这样迅速就成了一把编程好手，做了项目的主力，工资也逐渐上来了。拿到3000多块，在当时已经相当不错了。 
23岁，在北京漂的第二年，为了快速拿到北京户口，毅然决定考研，23岁考上研究生。 
24岁，回到北京在导师的游戏公司做实习，写游戏控制程序，用C++ 
25岁，研究生毕业，落户北京，结婚，在一家公司做软件，用C、C++、ISAPI 
然后十年，跟着这个公司一起成长，从程序员到高级程序员，从项目经理到部门经理，从部门经理到×经理，期间生了娃，买了房，有了车，有了各种游历。 

我的成长经历告诉我： 
做事要努力，困难面前不屈不挠； 
选择不要犹豫，下了决心就付出行动； 
放下过去的成绩，才能担当新的重任； 
工作很重要，家庭更重要； 
乐观、积极、向上的心态是幸福的源泉。


霍克明，互联网小菜：
23岁的时候毕业。大三的时候签了一家大型国企，每月工资1400元，缴了保险，社保，住房公积金乱七八糟的，还剩960块钱。这家单位叫丹东黄海，现在北京跑的N多公交车，都是我们造的，我相信，这里边肯定有我检验出厂的车。 
But the wages are too low. It was early August when we went to report. It was already very cold in the Northeast in September. After paying the rent in the first month (one deposit and three payments), there was no money left. I called my parents and talked about it for a long time before asking my mother if she could buy me a bill for two hundred yuan. long johns. My mother was crying on the other end of the phone. Gave me 700 yuan. 
During National Day, my girlfriend came to visit me from Beijing. Because I had no money, I stayed at home with my girlfriend every day, watching TV and eating instant noodles. The only time I went to the supermarket was to buy something worth 20 yuan. Later, after my girlfriend left, she sent me a text message, saying that she put 500 yuan in my wallet and asked me to eat more. 
Then I thought, is this kind of day really what I want? For a comfortable job, let my parents and girlfriend worry. Later, I took on a private job, which cost 2,000 yuan a month. Work during the day and do private work at night. At that time, I didn't have a computer, so I could only do it in Internet cafes, from 11:00 pm to 3:00 am. 
At that time, I could only sleep 5 hours a day. After get off work, I sleep for 3 hours until 11 o'clock, and in the early morning of the next day, from 5 o'clock to 7 o'clock. It's about 2 months. The only sequelae are dizziness and sleepiness. Every time I go home, I have to cross a railway, and every time I wait for the train to pass, I will be so sleepy that I will fall asleep. I was also constantly worried about passing out on the tracks and getting killed by the train. 
One night, the CEO of this company happened to be online, and we chatted on IM for half an hour. After a while, I was on my way home when his call came. In the alley where you can't see your fingers, I was shocked. Then Zhang Fan told me, come to Beijing. 
I thought, since this is the day, I cannot support myself. Might as well give up and choose a new career. So in December 2006, I quickly came to Beijing without asking about salary, work content, and knowing nothing about the Internet. 

Currently, 28 years old, married, have a daughter, everything is satisfactory. 
Thanks to the embarrassing 23 years old.
Luo Xiaoju, from today onwards, if you don’t work overtime, you will go back to


22 every day to graduate from the university and prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination. If you can’t survive the one month before the postgraduate entrance examination, you are going to give up, but in the end you are only 3 points away from going online. Knowing that "the one who travels a hundred miles is half ninety", you must stick to the things you choose. 
After failing the postgraduate entrance examination in March, I was going to repeat my studies. I had nothing to do to participate in the recruitment of a newspaper in our college, and was asked to do an internship. At that time, I was still very confident that I was a good girl. 
The newspaper is a state-owned enterprise. There are all kinds of nonsense from state-owned enterprises and all kinds of hard work from newspapers. At that time, it happened to coincide with the struggle between the airborne general manager of the newspaper office and the original operating director. At that time, I didn’t understand anything, and I chose to come out with the director to do the political struggle of the supplement. In the end, the director was “seconded” and then “transferred”, and then he left after being promoted. 
Writing manuscripts, running clients, writing graduation thesis for two degrees, and newcomers are bullied in various ways. One person once swept all the office buildings one by one in the 40-degree high temperature in Wuhan for a week-take the elevator to the top floor, and then walk down one by one and knock on the door one by one. I used to defend my graduation in the morning, and went out in the afternoon to wait for the camera to accompany someone to interview. At 7 or 8 o’clock, the camera was taken away again, so I had to call my boyfriend to ask him to bring the camera. I interviewed by myself until all the shops were closed. , my job is to interview Xiaodian), and finally took a taxi to the back gate of the school to save money, and walked back to the dormitory from the lake with no street lights for half an hour after eleven o'clock. I used to cry a lot during the topic selection meeting after working overtime because I had to miss the last dinner of the class. 
At the most difficult time, I am the most stubborn and persistent, but no one understands me the most. There are days when the whole person almost collapses. I worked overtime at the newspaper office until 11 or 12 o'clock, took a taxi to the station to send my classmates out of school, and then went back to school with other classmates, chatting all night, chatting over and over again while rushing to draft. I wasn't sleepy at all, and when I opened my eyes when it was time to go to work, my tears burst out because I had to go to work. Then I woke up crying, squeezed into the car, no one could speak to me for a whole day, and as long as I had any contact with the outside world, people would cry uncontrollably. It was almost depression, and after thinking about death, I realized that there is nothing to be afraid of in the world. At that time, it left a great hidden danger to the body. 
In October, my parents couldn't stand it any longer, and told me they could let me study abroad. So I resigned and concentrated on preparing for IELTS in the rental house. Two weeks before the IELTS test. An accident happened to the father, and the family lost everything and had a pile of foreign debts. 
At the end of 22 years old, I thought that the trough of life was just like this. Didn't expect it to be even lower. 

At the age of 23, I want to leave Wuhan, a sad place, and go north to Beijing full of hope. I found a job with a very average salary, but the leader turned out to be a vicious idiot. Then I searched for jobs in various ways, and several times I ended up in the last step for no reason.

In September, I heard that a friend had leukemia, and then I was diagnosed with a tumor. Learned something that can only be understood when death is near. 
After the operation, I started to break up with my ex, and they both loved each other too much and tortured each other. Going through doubt, entanglement, pain, regret, pushing away, redeeming, willful... Ending the first relationship in life, it is vigorous and unforgettable, and it is perfect in my heart because of its imperfection. Thank you for lighting my life brightly during my best years, thank you for everything good and bad, thank him for being in my life. 
Financial distress, unwilling to ask family for money, relying on friends to help. 
Suddenly I felt that I had reached an almost miraculous situation - nothing. 
School and work are not going well. Even the love and health that I believed in were lost. 
It feels like dying once before everything can start over. 


The 23-year-old has been looking for his own heart, hoping to continue to reflect and complete this practice.


Nobita, engineer of Xiaomi Technology, likes algorithms and background technology:
23 years old, a senior, returned to school after an internship in a well-known international IT company, guaranteed research, started a master's life, took his ex-girlfriend home, and then broke up. later? Later, I kept studying and studying, and then I went there for an internship, until I graduated, looked for a job, and changed jobs, until now. 
有个比喻很恰当，人生就像猴子爬树，上面都是后屁股，下面都是猴脑袋。在社会的金字塔里，最上面和最下面的人太少了，大多数人都是在金字塔的某一层。不能总是往上看别人的屁股，那是自己给自己找罪受。给自己找一个目标，自己的目标，去实现他，你才能幸福。找不到自己的目标，单纯把物质和虚荣当成自己的追求，你将反反复复地迷茫和失落，那种追求不会一直给你向上的动力，而往往在你最高峰和最低谷的时候给你致命一击。 
23岁的人，就应该有23岁人的位置，没有付出就没有回报，23岁的人凭什么要有46岁人的事业和爱情？别说自己处在低谷，你只是刚开始。刚升起的朝阳不是最有活力的吗？什么都没有的人不是潜力最大吗？当你玩一个游戏，玩到自己成了大boss，还有什么意义？作为一个刚步入社会的年轻人，你没有任何牵挂，只需要大步向前就行了。追求自己的目标吧！哈哈哈！ 
刚毕业的我，这也是我对自己说的话，加油吧，朋友！ 
至于爱情，命运会给你安排的，自己慎重选择就好了，不用着急，呵呵。


秦璐，品牌电脑服务工程师
去年23。 
20岁专科毕业，在济南科技市场找了个销售的工作，一年内从导购到销售再到店长，果断跟随经理去青岛开拓业务，未果，低谷期选择回家。 
22岁生日前考取了CompTIA A+认证，22岁进入售后行业。三个月后做了站端主管。再三个月做了我们这个业务团队的部门总控，然后过了23岁生日。感觉23岁就一整年都在忙，因为增加了新的业务块，上海、北京的培训、学习、拉关系。24岁生日后，老板把我加进M序列（之前是T序列），然后现在24岁半了，唯一的感觉是时间过的很快，时间就在自己每天设定的计划驱使下，一点点消逝了，对时间的回忆，就是一份份邮件、一本本笔记，还有每月的电话清单。 

在这家公司的三年，学着招聘、排班、考勤、现场、客诉、政策、流程、培训、活动筹划、经管理划等，一个人做N多个角色，学到了很多东西，但是依然觉得自己经验不足，努力学习中。 

我近期太累，超负荷，没有自己思考的时间，所以可预见的是十月份离职，离职前将自己的工作剥离成几块，提几个主管来做，之前尝试把我每天的表格汇总交给一个“小表妹”来做，三天累的去输液，人和人真的有很大的差异。 

作为不成功的反面教材，给你的三个建议： 

1.父母要记得多打电话，有条件就跟父母一起住，结婚了另算。亲情是世间什么东西都无法比拟的，过去了，就没了… 

2.选一个对象，这个对象不一定长的漂亮或者帅气，不一定能给你多少“性福”，不一定能给你多牛逼的家族背景。能对你好，能在你关键的时候给你支持或者指点迷津，能有共同的话题，就够了。在你困难的时候，爱情是卑微而高尚的，当你有话不能跟父母说的时候，可以和他/她倾诉，释放你的压力，给你前进的动力。 
3.选自己热爱的行业，做好自己的方向和目标，然后日夜兼程的赶路，浮躁的社会，只要你肯学习，愿意努力，你坚持三个月，就可以做到熟手，你坚持半年就是精英，你坚持一年就是老员工，你坚持三年就是前辈，坚持的时间再长了，我也不知道会怎样，也许是成功，也许是失败，但是人给自己的定义是不一样的。 

成功人士说自己事业刚起步的时候，都会说的很难或者怎么样，其实，成功的人很多都是时代的需要或者有其他的背景。不要幻想自己成为比尔盖茨，也不要认为自己能做巴菲特，中国也只有一个马化腾，只有一个马云。社会更需要的是一颗颗的螺丝钉，一个个踏实做事的人。


匿名用户：
This year is exactly 30 years old. The memory before the age of 10 belongs to childhood, which is basically equal to 0; the memory from the age of 10 to 20 belongs to school, which is basically equal to simplicity; I have changed too much, and I have too many memories. I graduated from college, got married and had children, lost hope and regained confidence, had joys and sorrows... The year of 

23 was almost a year of real transformation in my life, and it was also my memory. The most profound year. 

When I was 23 years old, I just finished the Spring Festival, that is, in February. I just graduated from university and worked in a factory for 8 months. I resigned, returned to the city where I was studying, and found a new job, but it was not suitable. The probationary period was only one month, and I was fired. Afterwards, he was unemployed for a month and spent all his money, relying entirely on his girlfriend to support him. Find a job and find panic, and truly experience the pain of unemployment. In desperation, I found a very small company. There were only 3 people including me. I'm really scared, no matter what kind of job, what kind of treatment I will accept. In this company, although I don't make much money, I can see how treacherous, black-hearted, and dedicated the boss is in doing business. 

重新上班不久，女朋友辞职后过来投奔我，结果发现我过的比她惨。不过，女朋友没嫌弃我，自己放下身段，在商场找了一份站柜台的工作，十分辛苦，但是嘴上从来不说，只是为了和我在一起。过了10月份，女朋友意外怀孕了，当时很无知，也不敢和家里说，结果和女朋友一起很不负责地选择了堕胎。即便这样，当时也是身无分文，手术费都没有，找同学借了500块，还给家里要了500块(这是参加工作以后，唯一的一次从家里拿钱）。等女朋友做完手术后，看到女友虚弱的身体，我追悔莫及，内心痛苦万分，伤心到几近昏厥。现在想想，这是我人生中最大的一个错误，世界上没有什么比生命更加值得珍惜。我从未对任何人提起过这件事，这永远是我心底里最痛的一个疤。女朋友身体康复后，下决心一声不响地离我而去，她出走的那一天坐车回到了乡下老家，到了家门口，可是想到我不忍心分手，没进家门又折回来了。这一年，我差点就丢了爱情。 

12月份，大学最好的同学结婚，请我吃喜酒。结果那天正好是发工资的前一天，身上只剩下了7块钱，本想去洗个澡，结果一盘算，洗完澡后，连坐公交的钱都不够了，只好自己烧了壶热水，胡乱对付着擦了一下，然后空手去参加婚礼，当天郁闷的喝了个酩酊大醉。 

过完了23岁，我重新换了工作，为了爱人，也为了自己，更努力的工作，也就开始了新的生活。 

现在，我们结婚了，而且还有了可爱的女儿。工作上也基本稳定，多少也有了些积蓄，但是依然买不起房，不过，我们还都在为了我们的梦想而努力。这几年下来，我觉得幸福就是踏踏实实过日子。轰轰烈烈是一种人生，平平淡淡也是一种人生。 

23岁是一个初涉人世的年龄，大多数人和你一样，会有低谷。不过，每个人的命运都掌握在自己手中，需要你自己去争取。热爱工作，热爱生活，选择一种积极的生活态度，幸福很快就会来敲门。 

推荐你看看这部电影《当幸福来敲门The Pursuit of Happyness》


 


夏靖龙（刻奇），迅雷实习PM，离线下载，服务科学硕士在
掐指一算，貌似我还处于23岁的阶段。22-23岁这一年：

开启研究僧生涯 
对，还是僧人模式 
从经济学背景杀入软件技术领域，很吃力，但有爱，便无所畏惧 
跑帝都生活学习了一个季度，顺便还做了几个项目 
第一次完全独立设计开发互联网产品，还在WebQQ中上架了 
第一次开发手机应用，还是和小学同学组队，很多事情确实要个缘分 
即将出版第一本封面有自己名字的书籍，竟然还是大学教材 
第一次真真正正为找工作的事情感到苦逼难耐 

回想刚22岁那会，本科毕业各种离愁别绪各种迷茫，还专门为自己写了篇博文，现在看来，各种感慨： 
说是这么说，做可能是另外一回事了。因为我自己也是这样。大二那年，在学校，酒足饭饱和海南一哥们边走边扯，就是所谓的“聊聊人生，谈谈理想”，不过我很清楚，大部分人都是没理想的。这个曾经有个调查，“美国著名的商业大学哈佛大学,在1979年对应届毕业生做了一个调查报告。在调查中,他们询问在应届毕业生中有多少人有明确的人生目标，结果只有3%的人”。

在知道了这个调查之后的若干日子，我都很骄傲，一不小心就比哈佛商学院97%的学生都有前途了。就是在那段时候的那个夜里，我和海南哥们言之凿凿地阐述了考研是何等何等无用，还有考研的人百分之90都是逃避现实的就业压力。言下之意就是，老子坚决不考研，老子要抓紧干事业赚钱，老子以后还要创业当CEO。

Later, I took the postgraduate entrance examination, and my buddy in Hainan graduated and returned to Hainan to work on his career. Of course, there is actually no connection between the two.

I don’t know if it’s because I didn’t keep my word, or I violated my “initial dream” to some extent. I feel like I’m going to get it, and I can’t keep up with the joy of staying in school during the summer vacation to earn money to buy a PSP. Now that I think about it, it’s quite a simple economic account. It’s an expense that you have to continue to pay to go to school, plus the opportunity cost of the next two years (Opportunity Cost: refers to giving up something in order to get something. the maximum value of something.).

It's not that I regret anything, I'm not such a cheap person, it's just that when we are in our 20s, we all start to think hard about life and feel pain about the uncertain future.

But the future is what it is. The more you feel good about yourself and know what it will do, the more it will rush up and slap you twice, telling you solemnly, "I am not the future, but the reality." It's like, I originally planned to open the blog and write a serious article "How T-Shaped Talents Are Made" as a book review for "Things I Wish I Knew When I was in my 20s", but when I wrote it for a moment, I felt the aura changed.

When you are in your 20s, it may not be suitable to think too much. Because, if you think too much, you may do less, and if you think too much, you may fear more.

End the hard job hunting stage. In fact, it's not that hard, it's just a habit of feeling hard about unresolved things; 
I got 3 and a half offers. The other half was missed due to pride and complacency at the last minute, but I will always be grateful for the missed half of the offer, and the director who rejected me; I finally 
chose Xunlei, the position is a dream product manager; 
and then, it is still the unresolved book Compilation of college textbooks... 
and then, giving up may be the last campus life, choosing to practice 
in advance, and then, the current state, entering the role at lightning speed, lucky to participate in the product planning work of version 1.0, just like the dream come true 
My recent experience may be somewhat idealistic and metaphysical, but it seems that life can really develop as we think, as long as you believe enough and work hard enough. 
It's the season of hard work for the completion of the project. The lesson learned is: GAP TIME can't be wasted time, it should be arranged reasonably. 

Qu Xiaobai, how far does Qu Xiaobai have to travel alone, and how much loneliness he has to endure?
Well, that was last year. I failed the network engineer test, failed the modeling test, failed the single-chip computer competition, and the second level of Japanese is three points away. The person who has liked it for six years is goodbye. I am preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination day and night. I don't know what I want. 
How many tears of my sister have been left in the pillow of the apartment in the development zone~ 

Some people say that success depends on interest, ability, and hard work. And I'm just working hard, I don't know what I want, what is the passion to fight for? 
But then everything got better, and I gradually realized that my world is too small. In this era of information explosion, we are used to comparing, learning from success, becoming impatient, and always chasing after tomorrow instead of enjoying today. 
So, now I am resolutely withdrawing from the GRE exam, forgetting about his sister's career planning, taking it easy, and simply focusing on doing one thing well. 
Living in the moment. 
Dear, are you looking for balance, or are you looking for courage~ 
Let me report on my situation of going with the flow in the past few months. I used to like career planning very much, but this year's experience has made me see myself more clearly, impetuous, and have no time to plan. It is said that people also have a kind of "entropy" power, which is unconscious depravity and laziness. Well, it seems that my strength is quite large =. = 
And when you suddenly find out, you will hate your current self. Because it's not perfect. 
The problem I encountered when I was 23 was thought to be corrected, but in fact it was just the appearance of another problem. The real question in your heart is what you want, and then work hard for it. Experience this process is the most important. Just go with the flow, live in the moment, without self-examination, it is easy to get lost when the workload is heavy and there are many plans every day. 
A few words that I like very much recently: 
1. People's bargaining chip is time, and time can be exchanged for money, feelings, and career. But the chips are certain. Knowing what you want will reduce confusion and barriers to choice. 
2. Maybe I will be a small person all my life, simple and ordinary, and I just want to be a little better than my depraved self yesterday.

Zhang Linzhi, a graduate student majoring in ancient literary theory in the Chinese Department:
I am also a fresh graduate, 22 years old. The postgraduate entrance examination went well, and school starts tomorrow. Originally determined to be an academic woman. The goal now is to continue to study hard, not to waste time, to enrich myself and lay a solid foundation. Even if I am really tired of the simple and dull life of the school for a day, I can still live up to my youth. 
I haven't experienced the hardships of finding a job, and the psychological gap that is inevitable from school to society. I only remember the days when I went to practice, crowded the bus every morning and evening, and the interpersonal relationship in the office was indifferent and alienated. I was far from the state I imagined to be financially independent, chic and fulfilling when I found a job. 
Now is a stage where I am in a better state, because I have to face a new life, it is like a piece of freshly baked cake, very tempting. At this time last year, I was struggling with the postgraduate entrance examination. I felt that I had matured a bit along the way. The ability to resist stress and mental adjustment has improved. 
Love, when I was two weeks away from the exam, I suffered the most violent blow so far. In the past six months, I finally came out. There was a time when I couldn't help but cry as soon as I touched my pillow. Although I feel that I can't be so weak, I can't control my emotions. The two days when I was most concentrated and calm were the two days of my exam. It was very cold in those two days, and it was only after the exam that I realized that my feet were almost numb. During the days when I fell into the emotional quagmire, each day was just a mechanical copy of the previous day. I was really afraid that if this continued, I would fail the exam. to any clues. In fact, the scariest thing is not being hurt, but a kind of victim's heart. I tortured myself over and over again, asking why I was hurt. It's ridiculous to think about it now, but it's time to heal yourself. 
I think there will always be a period when you feel that the sky is about to fall, but now it seems that even a slight earthquake is not counted. I can say to myself that it is because of you at that time that I have you now, and I can say to myself that you are doing really well. 
Don't be disappointed in life, don't blame yourself, it will be fine one day.

Tommy is simply pursuing the truth, but I have lost my happiness. I
am 23 years old this year, and it has been one year since I graduated and entered the society. It took half a year to adapt to the company and the surrounding environment. 
I am trying to change, I went to the gym to apply for a fitness card because I am small, and I have persisted until now, and I am still exercising. 
I am a bit introverted and very boring. I have always been single and never had a girlfriend. In the end, I went to participate in a blind date organized by the company. Although there is no right eye, it is always right to combine theory with practice. 
I spent the pocket money I earned for half a year and bought a 7000+ computer. When I was in college, the computer was not good, so I didn't play large stand-alone games, and wanted to have fun. Pre-ordered a set of genuine Battlefield 3 games. Going to have a good time. 
Set aside a certain amount of time every day to read Google Reader. 
I have been insisting on keeping a diary. Write a summary every month. I have been reflecting and introspecting. 
Trying time management and energy management. 
I also want to pursue my so-called freedom, travel alone, and learn a musical instrument. There are still many ideas that are being realized little by little. 
Everything is booming. Don't waste your time, I'm only 23, and I have a lot of time to realize my ideas.

Tang Huai, a designer who doesn’t want to be a CEO is not a good director.
At the age of 23, I worked in an animation company in Shanghai. The women who accompany me suffer. In that year, I couldn't see the future in my life, I was confused and lost. Later, I made up my mind to leave that animation company and find a new way out. I'm 26 this year, during which time my career took a double jump, now I'm working as a project manager, I'm married to the woman who accompanied me through hardships, and I plan to start my own business in 2012. Young people always have nothing, as long as you have a heart to move forward, everything will take care of you.

Anonymous User
In the third year of dropping out of school without telling my family, I should graduate and get my diploma. Afraid to go home, he ran to the ancient city which was diagonally opposite from his hometown, which was almost the farthest distance, and asked for some money to open a small shop, which was not well managed. But I met a lot of interesting people, and learned a lot of things that were impossible to learn in school or even in other cities, or had no chance to learn at all. If it is said that the loss of direction for three years after dropping out of school made me doubt my original decision, then I made up for it in the past two years when I was 23 and 24, and even got more, although I still don’t have a diploma today? Shao Chenchen

, Legally Blonde (Focus on corporate finance, investment and operations) is
23 years old, a first-year graduate student who is about to advance to a second-year one. 
Studying in Shanghai, I feel that this city is shrewd and impetuous. Before I really step into the society, I feel that I am being swept up by some torrent. Pushing forward, but I don’t know where I’m going. In the postgraduate meeting, I was tricked by seemingly friendly and even enthusiastic classmates. I began to wonder if this city is really not suitable for me to live in. It’s a hot 
July , began to prepare for the judicial examination. It was rumored that reforms would be made in the second year, so the pressure was very high. In August, my mother called me and said that she wanted a divorce. I don’t want to study hard in my heart. I am depressed but I can only suppress it desperately. I cry in the dormitory when no one is 
around. The day of the exam is approaching, and I have insomnia. In the middle of the night, I squatted in the corridor of the dormitory with my hair loose, counting my toes. I came and went again and again, and at the same time I was preparing to run for the chairman of the seminar in the next year. 
After finishing the judicial examination, I personally felt that it was extremely bad, so I had to give up the election. I stayed in the dormitory for a month, except for crying every day, just in a daze. Dad didn’t know where he was. Cut off the source of income, ready to drop out of school at any time. The school organized blood donation, and applied for the blood donation bonus, but was not selected because of the limited number of places. I felt uncomfortable because I couldn’t do the blood donation that I was most afraid of. Thinking about it, I felt very sad. At that time, I felt that life was complete 

. There was no hope. I probably shed a lot of tears. Nothing went well in school or family. Every day I felt that the sky was dark. Later, things gradually got better, so looking back, 

those days, It's not that painful, and maybe even a different way of life has been achieved. Whether it's good or bad, maybe no one knows.

左旋哥，.
23岁的我生活在各种痛苦里


压力是来自四面八方的，一狠心，离开了家，在四大直辖市来回奔波。


那一年我过着居无定所的生活，为了面子，钱花光了也不找家里要，在当时，创业对我来说，更像是一个光荣的名词，你看，我的同学们都疲于奔命的找工作，而我在创业。

那时候多么贫穷，创业与其说是目标，到不如说一根救命懒神，这根筋就这么一直紧绷着，如若断了，一切就没有了。

我开始不停的找各种创业项目

卖过珍珠奶茶，收入甚微，但刚好养活自己，后来摊点被取缔了，又和人家学做爆米花，因为爆米花流动性高，有量三轮子，找个弄堂扎进去，城管也找不到你。

但是爆米花的收入着实没珍珠奶茶高。

在房东大妈的介绍下，又兼了一份送夜奶的工作，那份工作可是真的苦，无论多么冷得天，都不能晚到，一瓶赚2毛，但往往要爬十多层没有电梯的楼。


夜里就用大学时买的那台pd电脑上网，查资料，学习，大学时不是计算机专业的，所学的专业只能应用在银行业，但我着实不想去银行工作，C是高中凭兴趣学下来的，已经很多年没碰了，当时只能用php写个hello world，买了本书，不懂就百度，最后终于有能力自己写个简单的cms了。

其实也没有多想，只是觉得php程序员应该是个冷门（在那时），而且待遇不错。如果能找份工作，先把创业的事情放下来，温包要紧。


到这里，23岁已经过完一半了。

23岁的下半年 在学习的同时，不停的找各种资料，当时很多流行的SEO资料基本全都读过，又花钱买了很多互联网创业项目。但一一失败，一败涂地！

那时我突然觉得一切都很好笑。

所有的钱全花了买书，买资料，买项目，自己为了省电，整天冷水泡面，到底为了什么？

别的同学都过得很好，有些大几届的哥们都已谈婚论嫁，我呢？背井离乡，为了创业，我得到了什么？

然而就在我快要放弃希望的时候。

我的一个实验性的单页帮我赚到了300元钱，我第一个反应是不可能，这个网站一定是骗子。那时真的恍若梦境，直到第二天真的拿着西联支票把钱取出来，才觉得一切都是真的。

从那时开始，我全力投入研究那个赚到300元的页面，逐渐的取得了自己的一套成果，直到现在。

我想说，不要轻言放弃，也许再坚持一会就成功了。


匿名用户

23岁，黄昏恋、毕业、跳槽两次、失恋。 
去过n个国内城市（在不算长的人生阅历里面，那一年去的地方肯定是最多的），找过n份工作，经历过自己觉得的n次起起落落。 
严格的按照生日来计算，回忆起来都觉得挺精彩的。 
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23岁生日前，放弃了家里帮忙找的四大银行之一的岗位，觉得那种生活不是自己想要的。然后开始回学校找工作。大四下半学期开始后，还是无忧无虑不急不忙的过着。期间追了半年的一个女生主动提出了和我在一起，开始了黄昏恋。 
5月份，签了真正意义上的第一份工作，国企，零售业，2.5k、夕阳行业。签的原因想起来，一是当时好的企业早就做完招聘了，二是这个岗位是我比较喜欢的销售，三是可以有机会base回到读大学的城市X，可以陪着女朋友。 
毕业，其间经历了比较狗血的毕业经历。 
After graduating, I tried everywhere to find a better job, including helping my parents back home, but I still wanted to go back to X, but failed in the end. 
For work reports, I came to Q, a seaside city in the north. After the report, on the third day, the first day of military training, I couldn't stand this kind of corporate culture, so I resolutely resigned. I was the first one to resign after joining the company. At that time, some people were puzzled, some persuaded me (including my parents), and some people supported me. There were many people who wanted to leave this company. I was the only one who finally made a brave decision. There is no bottom, and some may be the confidence to fight back. 
I ran to Beijing and stayed at my buddy’s house for a week. During this period, I kept posting resumes on the three major recruitment websites and Dajie. the two sides. Then I rushed to the last side of the wireless department of an e-commerce company in the H market. 
At that time, I was more inclined towards C and E-Commerce Wireless, and I found the work of both very interesting. One was internal control in the financial field, a top 500 foreign company, and traveled across the country; the other was E-Commerce. My job is to build an online community, I have experience, and the culture of Internet companies is really good; the location is also good, one can be based in X city, close to my girlfriend, and the other is close to home, not far from X city. 
After that, instead of going home, I went back to X directly. 
Still no worries, and the hot summer in City X did not make me worry, and then I waited for the end of Company C. At the beginning of September, I flew back and forth to Shanghai that day, and finally met the French CFO. The accent was really difficult to understand, but my careful preparation still helped. Three days later, the offer letter came. 
Before waiting for another offer, I decided to accept the offer from Company C. The remuneration is not high, 4k/month, but the base is in X city, so it is ok. 
After I joined the job, I found that there was a certain gap between this job and my understanding. The colleagues I met in daily work had very different thinking and viewpoints. It took me a day and a half to train me, and now I think it is still very irregular). The only way to learn is to keep reading emails on the intranet, keep calling to communicate with old colleagues, and keep writing PPTs to report on the learning process. 
Then I had my first business trip in October, and I was very tired. I went out at 7:00 in the morning and returned to the hotel at 10:00 in the evening. I didn’t have time to see new cities, meet friends or have fun. There was a conflict with my supervisor again, she was very dissatisfied with my work, which became the fuse for me to leave C eventually. 

At the beginning of November, I resigned without accident. There were personal reasons and the relationship with my colleagues. At this time, my heart was very desperate. I had lived for more than 20 years without much setbacks, and suddenly doubted myself for the first time. At that time, only the constant encouragement of my girlfriend and the care of my parents, I persisted. 

During the period, I kept looking for jobs, submitting resumes, and I was willing to try the salary of 2k in City X, but found that various things were not reliable. At that time, I still wanted to stay in City X, maybe I really decided in my heart that I wanted to be with her forever. 

In November, another opportunity came, and I received an interview opportunity from an Internet company. I didn't know that this company also had people based in City X. Passed one side smoothly, the main interviewer is my later director. I learned afterwards that I was the only one who passed the interview among 20 people interviewed that day. Of course, my qualifications are not suitable for this job. I am too young, and I may have met a noble person. 

After waiting for the next interview notice, I was anxiously looking for some other unreliable jobs. Half a month later, the second interviewer took time out. I went to Y City to meet him. The interview was very simple and short. I just got out of his office. On the bus to the train station, I received a call from the director, informing me that I had passed. In this round of interviews, you can enter the job after the human interview is over and there are no major problems. 

I waited anxiously for more than half a month. On the third day when my mobile phone was broken and could not be turned on intermittently, after HR called me n calls but failed to answer, I turned on my mobile phone and offered to give the manpower after communicating with the director. Made a phone call and had a final interview. After waiting for another half a month, I got the final offer. It was already the end of the year. The company's process has gone through more than 6 weeks, which can be regarded as twists and turns. After joining the company, I found that it is normal to go through the process for so long. Last year to this year was the period of aggressive recruitment, and HR was very busy. 

At the beginning of the year, I said goodbye to my girlfriend briefly and went to Z city to start a job. According to the plan, I would stay at the headquarters for 3 months. I like this company and the colleagues around me in various ways, and the treatment is good. The only problem is that the relationship has entered a trough. After my girlfriend went abroad for exchanges, I kept arguing. 
Then, on 2.22, the 2nd day, this relationship, which I thought might be a lifetime, came to an abrupt end on the 320th day. 

And then, before her 24th birthday, she returned to City X, but there was no longer the feeling that she insisted on staying here. 

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In summary, 24 years old is very Wonderful, loved, hated, proud, lost. 
I am grateful for the blessings of God and the people who have helped me in my life. I am grateful for the strength that made me persevere in the face of setbacks. I am grateful for the years that have allowed me to grow. 
Suddenly, for the first time, I realized that my 23-year-old was so wonderful. 
I will remember that 
sometimes I have to give myself some pressure to break the boat;  never
feel sad for something that is not worth it; 
I have the courage to change the status quo that I am not satisfied with; 
I must be prepared before possible opportunities come; 
He is the only one who will never leave you.


Wang Kaiyang, the Stone of the Sage lives and dies with mankind, and the Stone of the Fool lives
I don't know if my answer will sink to the bottom, but that doesn't matter. My experience is relatively simple. A child who grew up in an ordinary peasant family in the southwest, graduated from junior high school at the age of 15, and was dragged by the school to work in an electronic foundry in Shenzhen just three months after entering a vocational high school. The normal working hours are from 7 am to night nine o'clock. However, due to the unreasonable distribution of orders and the loss of old employees, all the tasks were transferred to us young children. In order to complete the tasks, we voluntarily worked overtime from 6 am to 12 pm. exaggerate! What's even more exaggerated is that in order to improve my efficiency, I hold a stopwatch on my console to time myself. At that time, in 2007, the monthly salary was 1200, including accommodation but not food. Half a year later, the internship was completed, and I went back to school to learn computers by myself. In April 2009, I went to Tianjin, an unfamiliar place, to start a business with someone to start a business website. At that time, I had never even heard of terms such as SEO and editing. At that time, I was 17 years old, and I just forced myself to wear a suit and tie all day long to discuss cooperation with clients. At that time the height was 1.63. Just turned 18 years old, business development needs, returned to Chengdu to carry a sub-station by himself, edit customer service market, and do everything by himself, and became the commander-in-chief for a while. Some people say that I am overestimated, I admit it! It can also be said that I am crazy, a little 2! But I still carried it. Why start a business? I am poor! I am neither a scholar nor a gentleman, I will not learn what others say for such a magnificent ideal, I am afraid of poverty! Now 19 years old, I still don't have enough 2, and I want to continue 2. I have to admit that this paragraph has the psychology of complaining, just treat it as if I said it casually. 19 years old, the age of a blooming season, should continue to 2! But realistically let me think about where I will live in the future and what I will support my family in the future. But the real society will not be kind to you just because you are young. Hey, I don't even know what to say, so I'll just write here, good night, seniors!



Wing, talk about Fengyue rationally.
When she was 23 years old, she was doing international trade in a small company. She was lucky and went to many countries that year. 
On weekends, I work part-time as a teacher in a training school. 
Actually, being a teacher was my original dream. 
At the age of 25, he resigned decisively, turned his part-time job into his main business, and started his own training school. 
Everything is going well in school now. 
23岁很重要。那年遇到的人经历的事为对后来的一切产生了许多的影响。 
我们今天过的生活，是我们几年前潜意识输入程序的结果。 
对世界保持好奇，保持适度的聪明，一定要勤勉。23岁的时候我对自己说的最多的话。


 


刘志达
今年23岁，去年本科毕业，去了众所周知的几家互联网公司之一做程序员，三月份叫了两个同学出来创业，拿到天使投资，成了co-founder。 


目前处在很低谷的状态，产品开发到80%，两个同学觉得没前途都决定走了，我患上了拖延症，正在克服中，一天晃晃悠悠只能工作3-4个小时，不知道怎么跟风投解释这个月发生的事情。不知道是继续创业还是去个大公司舒服的待着，还是去找个团队继续创业。 


好在爱情很稳定，但女友家里不同意，女方家长副厅级，在另一个省会城市核心部门，女友如果回去能有很好的工作，但是那个省会城市不适合互联网行业，她愿意不回去陪在我身边，我现在辅导她找实习，她后年研究生毕业。 


后来，真不知道，我现在特绝望，拖延能让我轻松点，女友家里是坚决反对，把创业看成无业，要求女婿必须是研究生+体制内。不知道怎么跟风投解释团队散了。不知道创业是应该坚持下来还是果断放弃，不知道是做技术还是去做产品。


 


Abbey_Hui，摄影|运营|读书|绘本|写字|书法|扯谈?
22岁生日刚过，今年23，虽然离生日还有一年的时间。 
平凡的姑娘，有小心思，没做出什么大事情来，实习中，大四下学期。刚给boss写完季度总结，所以来这里写写我这段时间的感触吧。


Life can't be as good as you think, but it can't be as bad as you think. I think people's fragility and strength are beyond my imagination. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears with a single sentence, and sometimes I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way. ——Maupassant


writes articles at night, especially feeling a lot. Facing the empty office, looking back on his own journey, listening to the song "The outside world is wonderful", recalling the months of internship, the lyrics just represent me All the emotions I have, the outside world is very exciting, will I fail if I go out, the outside world is very generous, if I break out, I can come back to life. For more than four months, as a rookie who has just entered the Internet, as an intern who has just entered the workplace, I have personally experienced this kind of growth, and I have also witnessed the efforts of others to achieve their ideals, the loneliness after their ideals are shattered, and the desperation of a group of Internet people. Passionate. I am not a person who is good at reasoning, but a very emotional person. I mostly record the details of my journey, which may not be useful, but it is right to listen to it as a story.


 


Allow me to take the time to express my feelings first. On the night of New Year’s Day, because the ppt of the thesis has to be handed in, I stayed up all night to catch up with the thesis and PPT. I was a bit at a loss, checked Weibo at night, and found that David was offline at 1 o'clock, and Jimmy was online at 3 o'clock, and then I read the reply from the big boss to Xiaoqiang, at three o'clock. Immediately, I feel that I have entered the wolf's den, and they are all a group of desperate people.


Such an opening statement is really not in line with my style of writing summaries. Before, I always used a series of numbers to prove how many things I have experienced and how many vicissitudes I have gone through. There is such a group of positive people. I know how to be grateful, so I am grateful to everyone who came here to help me. It is you who let me understand how precious it is to do something seriously.


 


Regarding work,


I remember that when I was recruiting, the head told me that I hope that the members I bring can do one thing well. From being curious at the beginning to becoming clear about the direction now, I really understand that there will always be rewards for doing things with a calm heart. Thank you for your teaching in the past four months, and let me understand that the operation is actually not as simple as I imagined. And I've been on the road.


来到这里，感触最深的就是大家的努力和认真，因为公司离家近，所以周六没什么事情就会过来，每次周末来这里都会有技术和销售的人在，跟大家一起沟通问题，让我明白很多时候自己考虑问题过于想当然，没能客观的把握事情。感谢客服和直销的同学们，让我每次跟你们沟通都能能知道更多关于我工作范围之外的东西，能够更好的了解客户群。


最初的几个月自己太过急功近利，觉得自己经验缺乏所以就想了解更多，想知道更多关于行业或者买卖家的相关情况。看了很多书也进了很多供应商的群，但是到头来发现自己真的是高屋建瓴，毫不着边际，也就自然的问了大家很多奇奇怪怪的问题。就是这样一个眉毛胡子一把抓的状态让自己开始明白，思路理清楚是有多重要，做事情总要循序渐进，不能一蹴而就。


每次开会总结我都能学到很多东西，不管是大家的工作内容还是对事情的看法，都能检验自己在这方面是不是有进步，是不是今天又多明白了一些东西。所以每次在开完会回来的时候，自己都会写个总结记录在自己的文档中，自省如果这件事情是我做我会怎么做，什么地方会有欠缺等等。


我感谢自己的这个习惯，让我随时能够问自己事情怎么做，为什么，会遇到哪些困难，然后想着试图去解决。


可是很多时候因为自己是个新人，缺乏经验而将执行作罢，尤其是在解决问题的时候，执行力总是跟不上。会过多的担心关卡和时间问题，而导致问题最终没能解决。


现在回头看看自己对网站很多方面的总结和建议，很多都没有实现也没有解决方案，真的是感慨万分，当自己有想法的时候努力去实现它应该是我这个年龄该有的执着，但是我却因为自身的胆怯而不了了之。感谢小聪告诉我的“残废哲学”，让自己开始着手思考自己如果有想法应该努力去实现，即使自己的想法不靠谱，但是每次的否定也是对自己的一次成长。


这几个月我学会了做个记录者，却没有做好一个行动者。


新年新愿望，希望自己能够做一个行动者，学会高效的处理问题，更好的与人沟通。一定要做个有价值有想法的实习生，要把自己当一个正式员工一样，创造价值的同时不断在学习。


四个月，教会了我从一个学生如何过渡到工作人员，教会了该如何积极向上，面对一切随之而来的困难。我有过彷徨和无奈，也有对自己自我否定的时候，但是当我面对一切未知和需要探究的东西时，内心的强大总会超乎自己的想象。


 


关于学校和生活


工作不足一个礼拜的时候搬离了学校，因为发现自己要学的东西太多，没时间奔波在路途上。就很果断的搬家，暑假的时候，天气各种热，遇到一位靠谱的搬家工人，帮我把所有的东西扛到了七楼。感谢跟我一起住的小姐妹，能够那么照顾我。家里基本上所有有空隙的地方都被我塞书了。


学校很多作业要做，自己因为工作的原因，不能及时回去，很多事情都是同学帮自己扛了，感谢我在学校的姐妹们，祝大家好运，要是过年留在杭州的话，我找你们过年。


十二月底开始写论文，从此每个礼拜周三就开始请假，每次的校改让自己都能从一位年迈的老教授身上学到很多东西，对学术的认真态度和做事情的一丝不苟让我学会注重身边的大小事情。在结束校园生活的时候，面对这样一位老师，真不到该说自己幸运还是无奈，幸运的是自己能够学到很多做事情做人的道理，无奈的是老师的进度总是催得紧，每周日就这样耗在了赶论文进度上。


今年是第二个不回家的春节，好在自己不用待在研究生楼冰冷的宿舍里，也就很happy 了。


 


 


关于那些我仅有的感慨


世上有千种拥有，但有一种拥有最珍贵。你也许丝毫觉察不到这种拥有，感觉不到它的价值，随着悠悠岁月的流逝，无数个春夏秋冬的更替，在你生命的某一天，当你蓦然回首，才发现自己不再拥有。它不是地位，也不是金钱，而是失不再来的青春。


I hope that when I was young, I would write all my journeys, and when I look back on my journey, I would not regret that I have worked hard.


 


Twinings, i don't like Mondays
this is a striking question! I was stuck at 23 for a long time. At the age of 23, I came to Beijing to take an exam for a man I loved, but on the day I arrived, I realized that the man was not mine. Then I took all the medicine I brought, and woke up the next day. There was a vast expanse of whiteness in front of my eyes. The first snow in my life! Because I was admitted to school, I had to stay in Beijing for a few years, and then I studied, fell in love, and worked in the next few years. Now I'm in a career I love and have a loving husband. When there will be a trough in life, if you don’t know what to do, just do something casually to let yourself survive; whether the person you love can wait for you depends on fate, if you don’t know whether you love it or not, love first, love with your heart, and if you fail, think about why you failed up. Apart from the objective factors, the failure of love is due to the wrong choice of subjective factors, most of which are caused by choosing what you "feel" instead of what you "need". But these experiences need to be experienced and comprehended by yourself. So find something to do first, people's luck is made.


 


Liu Liqiu, software engineer, Python.
23 this year. 
After graduating from university in 2009, I spent four years fooling around in the university and playing games for four years, but I didn’t learn anything. When I graduated, I missed more than 10 courses. I went to Shenzhen alone with a bag on my back, but I went back crying. I was also very confused, and always felt that I was accomplishing nothing. 
Then a college classmate introduced me to a job. Although the company was in arrears of wages, and I only got one month's salary after working for 6 months, I didn't earn any money, but I learned C#, and at the same time I took the make-up exam and got my graduation certificate. 
In 2010, I returned to Shenzhen alone to do C#, and in 11 years, I went to Beijing to do python. Now I am doing a job that I like and is easy to do, and I am very happy. 
Suggestions: 
1. Give yourself a goal and choose a job you like. 
2 You are still young, don't rush to save money, the most important thing is to learn something.


 


Acridine wow, lazy, ugly and gluttonous little chubby girl
At the age of 23, I fell in love with a scumbag (of course I didn’t know he was a scumbag when I was “accounted for” at the subway station) and I was so stupid and naive as to think that this is the so-called destiny~ (ah pui!) In the first month, I loved you and I met each other late, and then encountered a financial crisis. His contract expired and he resigned. Our company laid off employees. Two unemployed youths, his scum nature was gradually exposed. I didn’t want to ask my parents for money, so I lived my life with a little money from layoff compensation. He said that it would be more convenient to have a moped, but he didn’t have the money to buy a new one, so I willingly subsidized half of it and told him , Second-hand cars are not safe, let's buy new ones, I will post them to you. (MD! Really stupid!) He is selfish, he can talk to me if he wants to talk to me, if he doesn’t want to talk to me, he can’t find others, he is late for appointments, he is not allowed to lose his temper, and if he is a little unhappy, he can not contact or answer the phone for several months , I have maintained this kind of SB life for two years! In the past two years, the places we ate were almost all snack bars such as Xiaolong, Shengjian, and pot stickers. The number of times he sent me home is one of the few, and I was scolded and beaten by him on the road. (Although he doesn't think it's called beating, it's just called hands-on) Kicked, took a bottle, thrown, and even more outrageous things. . . At that time, I was always using the initial happiness to mend the later sadness, but there was not much happiness, and finally I was tired, and I proposed to break up. The best scene was the climax of our two years - I was "by him" Kidnapped". . . He snatched my bag and mobile phone, took his scooter and drove to a suburb of Shanghai Outer Ring that I didn’t know at all. He didn’t let me go home until midnight. My mother and friends couldn’t find me. I cried and begged him Let me go back, until midnight, after I agreed to all the conditions he set, I was released. . .


Now, I have @陈小黑, and I also have a very low-paying but easy job. Although I have suffered a lot of trauma, I am still willing to love someone foolishly and believe in feelings. There are always ups and downs in life, and the unhappy things will always pass. And after experiencing those pasts, we will appreciate the beauty we have now even more.


 


jalshan, Credit Manager/A Stubborn Man/Walk Without Borders
I occupied a seat in the self-study classroom for a year. I got an offer from a listed company the day before the postgraduate entrance examination, and I sold myself like this. I am 20 years old. I have been in the company for almost two years now, during which I changed 4 provinces, and since then I fell in love with on the road out of control. I am 22 years old and currently in Xinjiang. 23 years old, it should be an important year for me, I am going to quit my job, ride a bicycle on the road, and I am currently being educated by people around me, but I will follow my heart, and some things will not be done now , will never do it again. At the age of 23, I think each of us should give ourselves a chance to do what we want, even if it is crazy once! None of us died at this age, so we can't even call it crazy, let's just treat it as a dream!
=
Li Wen, Little Lawyer@SH爱笑爱爱Play爱art
My 23rd birthday happened to be my college graduation party, and my first relationship had just ended. 
I want work experience in a law firm, I have passed the bar exam, and I want to go abroad for postgraduate study. Therefore, the plan I gave myself at the time was not to look for a job, not to take the civil service exam, and not to take the postgraduate exam. I practiced for a period of time and applied for schools while accumulating experience, and went abroad for postgraduate study the next year.


In the month of graduation, the counselor thought that my long-planned plan was unrealistic and there was no way out. He gave me a hard education and suggested that I find a job first. But it was already June at that time, and there were only three months left before the judicial examination. How could I still find a job? ! After crying on the stairs on the sixth floor of the law school, I decided (and there was nothing else to do) to die. 
So after I graduated and returned home, three months passed without postgraduate entrance examination, civil servant examination, BF graduation, job, income, and face. 
After finishing the exams, preparing materials, applying for schools, another two months passed without a job, without income, and with no face. 
The results of the examination are out, pass. 
By chance, my former teacher told me that a professor from a certain school in North America came to interview, and it went well. 
I sent out the application materials and went to Beijing to relax. There was no ticket for the second-class seat, so I bought a first-class seat. The next seat met my first teacher in my lawyer career, and then I got an internship because of it. 
Internship, the first time I was engaged in the legal profession, and the first case was to discuss work-related injury compensation for migrant workers. 
get offers. Then I decided to go to the school in North America. 


By my 24th birthday, I had already started packing my bags and heading to America. 


I may no longer have the 2 energy that I had when I was 23 years old. I never thought that if I failed to make one step of my perfect little plan, I would be ugly. Fortunately, I was really lucky that year. I may never do the kind of thing that can only go all the way to the dark like I did when I was 23 years old. But I'm really grateful for that year.


 


Greg LI, Data Warehouse Manager @Allianz Glob?
Close your eyes and think about it, 23 is funny. One day at a classmate's wedding, I met the new boyfriend of my girlfriend who had broken up after graduation, and left my first job the next day to go public in a state-owned enterprise. After drifting north for one year (the third largest private enterprise in China), my salary doubled and I decided to go south to Guangzhou. My boss (a CPPCC member) tried to keep me with double salary without a common language. When I arrived in Guangzhou, I received a paper letter from a classmate from a state-owned enterprise. After I left, I organized the head of the human resources department to come to the special training class to announce the results. I was the first in both subjects. When I learned that I left without saying goodbye, I left a sentence, which was very awesome: " Bring this person back to me." After a year, I was asked if I would go back, and if I didn't, I wouldn't go back. I didn't go back. After staying in Guangzhou for ten years, Beijing reformed and opened up and returned to Beijing. 
In fact, I saw this question early and didn't take it seriously. I thought about it for a long time that day and found that 23 years old is really special. I didn't expect to miss something more important-ideal. It is rare for me to clearly know that I have no ideals all the time! But one thing has always existed vaguely, that is, one day in Beipiao on the 23rd, a few people from ABB company came to demonstrate the programmable controller, and they got off a Cherokee! Bring your laptop! That was the first time I saw a laptop. Then I got a laptop for work and the first car I bought was a Cherokee. Heh if they got off a helicopter that year with an AK47. . correct! I really had ideals when I was a child. When I grow up, I want to be a spy. 
Thanks for the question, it made me notice that so much happened at the age of 23. I mean, some things, even without any label, they are there, looking at you, affecting you.


 


Wang Yiting, falling in love with UI~~ working hard
o(╯□╰)o 89 years looks like 23 years old. . . . . It turned out to be really grown up. I just graduated last year and started working 
alone, working and living in a different place, renting a house, and walking to and from work. 
Now I am very fulfilled every day. If I talk about my status, I should be ready to go. But I have not reached the point where I have to do it. But I 
also know that time is precious, and I don’t wait for me. I have many dreams and things I want to do. Generally, I can arrange my time reasonably. 
I can generally overcome procrastination and call home every day~ 
Melancholy thing: The weight still hasn't dropped o(╯□╰)o. . . . . 
Technological progress is slow o(╯□╰)o. . . . . . . 
Saving money is out of reach for me o(╯□╰)o. . . . . . . 
The skin is very bad o(╯□╰)o. . . . . . . . 
But: Why should a 23-year-old enjoy a 32-year-old life? 
So: I will continue to work hard↖(^ω^)↗~~~ 
go to bed at 12 o'clock in the evening. Get up at 5-6 in the morning. Knowing that learning efficiency is the highest in the morning, I abruptly changed my biological clock. In the morning, I mainly learn jQuery, and after I have learned it, I will invert it.
During the day, when I go to work in the company, I usually walk to listen to history, wait for the elevator, read in the bathroom, and turn on the computer first to use Google Reader, Zhihu, and email. start working again. On the second day, I will write a summary of the first day.
I go back to classes at night, mainly belly dancing and Latin.
Get into the habit of tidying up on Wednesday and Friday nights. Go to driving school on weekends to practice driving.
I used to read books for 1-2 hours when I got up early on Saturdays, usually with friends. On Saturday nights, I used to watch movies, write short stories, or watch dramas while writing notes; on weekends, I like to be alone, wash clothes in the morning, and clean up the room , cook a meal at noon, watch a drama in the afternoon, and take a nap in the afternoon. Evening study~


 


Chen Manyan, Edwards LP98 Goldtop, VOX Night Trai?
23 years old, in 2008, was supposed to be a first-year graduate student, but returned to school in September 2007. When I checked the courses, I found that there were C language and data institutions. Ready to quit school. Later, I decided to do an internship. I no longer wanted to stay in school or study in China. It was ridiculous when I thought about it. When I graduated from undergraduate in 2007, I rejected several good offers. I chose to go to graduate school because I didn’t want to go out to work. , I didn’t expect that I would never want to study here after seeing the courses at the beginning of school. I was lucky. I met a very, very nice boss of IBM who recruited me for an internship. I lived in the teacher’s dormitory in Ximen, Tsinghua University. I took the 433 bus every day to work at the Haohai Building on Shangdi 5th Street. When I went to Huilongguan, I formed a band with a few senior IBM colleagues. That year, I really, really liked Beijing, and I thought I would stay in this city for the rest of my life. A person keeps repeating the life of three points and one line. Listening to Zheng Jun's elopement, "Dedicate my youth to the splendid city behind me", three years have passed in a blink of an eye, and I did not expect that I left Beijing completely and came to live in another country. Sometimes friends or juniors ask me, shall I give you another chance? I said, I will do the same. Sometimes I feel very sad. My father always wanted me to leave my hometown, the farther the better. I didn’t expect that I would leave my motherland, and I would be so steadfast. I really hope that my hometown can accommodate my ideals. I sincerely wish those Comrades who can realize their ideals by their parents. I have always believed in fate, maybe I have to stay away from my hometown all my life, looking for things that only exist in my childhood memories, and I can still clearly remember the stories my mother told me when I was young, the Grimm's fairy tales. Andersen, maybe I will go to Denmark in the future, and then take my mother over and tell her that this is the area you mentioned when I was a child


 


. Simple and happy.
At the age of 23, I was a repairman with a monthly salary of 300 yuan. In addition to renting a house and eating, there is still 50 yuan left. 


拿着50元钱，去超市能买很多零食，回家看亲爱的母亲。 


多少年过去了，每次回想起那时候的生活，很幸福，虽然辛苦。


 


匿名用户
我现在23岁是一名职业赌徒 


我并不生活在内地,3年前我从大学退学去创业,半年后就放弃了. 


然后因为种种原因和经历和思考后我就开始了要成为职业赌徒的路, 


其实当时已不是我第一次做这个尝试,当我18岁的时候,我就试过,只是我几个月里就放弃了.转去抄股,当时正值牛市,我短时间里赚了当时对我来说蛮多的钱,后来上了大学,投入了不知所谓的生活,这令我在股市上损手,当时我也不知道自己在想什么,也许因为找不到方向,又有太多事情发生着所以在我就渐渐远离股市了. 


没多久因为种种感情的问题,我很想离开,我去当了交换生,一个人生活在一个陌生的城市里,我开始思考我要如何过我的生活,在这段时间里,我第二次开始了我的小说创作,然后结果跟第一次是一样的.(现在回头读自己写过的东西,真想一把火烧光它们.). 谈了一场恋爱. 


在短短的半年后,我回到家就决定自己一个人退学去创业,也许是因为不想再见到某些人,也许是因为想证明某些事情,其实这也不是我第一次创业,我16岁的时候开过网店,??赚了些钱,但因为卖的是假货,所以做了没多久后就被投诉,然后....... 


因为从小时候就跟着爸爸看他赌马,所以从小就一直想爱赛马,一直都觉得马是最漂亮的动物,后来父母离婚后,我还是继续留意着赛马,现在回想超来,其实我18岁那时候想的那套方式是可行的,现在我认识(应该说是知道)有人用着一套类似的方法在赢钱,那时候输钱是因为慬得的赛马理论太少,投注技术太差,心智太不成熟的关系. 


刚开始的大半年我输了很多钱,每一次输钱后,心理打击都很重,我想这大概是对其他人来说是难以想像的感受.每一天我都在学习各种理论会投注技巧,每天都是自己一个自说自话,断绝了跟所有朋友的关系,同时,我也患上了怪病,有时候痛得我受不了,我却死忍着,不吃药,我总想着,这总会过去,当时坚持着卡夫卡所讲的"愈逃避,只会愈痛苦",真的很傻B,回想起来.我也不知道自己是如何渡过这段日子的,我好像失去了很多记忆一样. 


"你不是成功,你就是放弃", 世界上有那么多成功的职业赌徒,赌马??集团,别人可以做到,我也一样可以,当时我一直对自己说,这样的生活又持续了大半年,渐渐我赢钱的次数渐渐开始增加,身体也渐渐好转,正当满怀希望的时候,我又再一次陷入低潮,疯狂的输钱,现在回看,是投汪技巧上不断犯同样的错误,因为当时把投??注金额提高的关系,我输得更惨 


但是在接近季尾时,我知道我已准备好,我只需要休季时的酝酿,再开季时就必然会大胜,因为我知道我需要掌握的东西我已全拥有,现在我只掌握他们!在两年的时间内我输了近二十万,在每天研究近十小时后,赛季再来时,我便去了借钱,开季第一天我便大胜,从前模糊的东西,现在都变得很清晰. 


现在我快24岁了,却感觉生命才刚刚开始.我想我们需要知道的只有一件事,你就是你自己选择的结果,正如Sartre所说"懦夫使自己懦弱,英雄把自己变成英雄"


 


刘远山，努力消灭各种邀请中，好累啊。。。。。
21岁 失恋 近乎崩溃的一年，甚至想过自杀。


22岁 失恋综合症渐渐消退，可我已经不知道该干什么了，于是和父亲去做木工去做家具去做家装。因为很傻逼的看了警察一眼，而被弄进派出所，出来后身上有伤。


23岁 旅游（其实是想逃避一种莫名的东西）。开始的时候是自己乱跑，到一个地方后没有钱就随便找家饭店，问老板能不能干一天的活，给口饭吃或者能不能吃晚饭后住一宿。后来就想把自己所在的这个省跑遍（到现在也没有跑遍了）。


24岁 开始考虑自己该干什么了。正好邻居家的亲戚开汽修厂，于是去学“技术”，在这个期间，所有的工资，除过基本开销，基本都买书了，什么书都买都看。


25岁 跳槽 还是汽修，还跟人去听安利。


26岁 因为看见有人因千斤顶倒了而被压死，所以就不干汽修了，转学开车，拿到车本后，无所事事，打零工。


27岁 和朋友合伙包出租车，我跑夜车。一直到30岁。期间干过好事，也做过坏事。。。。


31岁 结婚。我和我老婆认识3个月，见了2次面就结婚，你们信吗？？可我们的关系非常好，我们属于先结婚后恋爱的那种。


32岁 老婆怀孕，不再跑车，随便找个工作，给人维修物业设施设备。


现在想来，不在于你曾经做过什么，也不在于你有过什么样的经历。只要你好好的活着，你就会明白很多


 


天光，一檐停风聚天下闲士 半阁藏卷窃古今名家
23岁那年，我最有钱的的一年（扣除通货膨胀因素），那一年买了房，在北京，很棒的地段，很大的房子。 (那个年代，房子还很便宜) 
23岁那年，我最放浪形骸的一年，大量的时间消耗在了三里屯，2位数的酒吧有我的存酒 
23岁那年，我第一次创业的公司的巅峰之年，营业额超过了2个亿，毛利可以做到30%以上 
23岁那年，初次单恋并追求了8年的女孩嫁给了别人。 
23岁那年，第一次开始过两人世界的生活，开始和一个女孩同居，后来持续了2年多。 
23岁那年，刚刚渡过和摆脱了无聊小媒体的炒作，浮华和光环，开始认真反思自己和这个世界 
23岁那年，开始建立起一个和现实生活无关，和利益无关，纯粹靠共同话题和思想火花连接的朋友圈子，其中很多人，到现在一直是我最好的朋友 
23岁那年，开始疯狂拓展自己的兴趣和爱好范围，在离开大学多年后重新找回了读书的乐趣和欲望。 
23岁那年，事业第一次危机隐现，创业合作伙伴之间的分歧和猜疑开始浮现 
23岁那年，以“天下之大，莫有不可为者”为代表的青春时代正式结束，开始思考未来的人生规划 
23岁那年，后面人生中持续5年的动荡期开始萌芽，开始了人生转折的起点。 
总之，23岁那年，确实是一个值得纪念的年代，如果把我的人生到目前为止分为4个阶段： 
生理成熟-青春结束-动荡和洗练-安稳生活 的话，23岁正好是第二个阶段结束的标志点，是至今为止人生最重要的2个年份之一。


 


南八，民工。
23岁，辍学第5年。 
我在北方的一个小城市里苟且地活着。刚刚离开网吧，不再做网管。去了联通公司当了三个月的业务员，由于内部人事斗争站错了队伍而被刷了下来。我进了数码港一家电脑店开始工作，做电脑售后服务人员。然后又两个月租了两节柜台开始卖电脑。遗憾的是卖了几个月的电脑也没有赚到什么钱。那年交往了三年的女朋友分手。 
那年带400元钱，来到苏州郊区的一个小镇。 
那年没有丝毫的成就感，唯一值得庆幸的就是选择软件这个行业，从卖计算机的硬件转向了软件。 
一旦想起那年，记忆总是有些错乱。我不知道那一年的选择是对是错，总之我现在的生活从那一年开始转变。 
I started the self-examination that year, and now I have passed the junior college majoring in 'Chinese Language and Literature', and I still have a few undergraduate courses to pass. . 
At the end of that year, I met my current wife. 
From that year to now, I have been engaged in software work. Although it is insignificant, I can feel that I am improving every day. 
Later: 
1. I worked on textile software sales for two years. 
2. Implemented textile software for two years. 
3. Implement UFIDA NC supply chain products, and currently do it for one year.


 


Zhang Ning, always find something out of boredom, life can't be missed?
21 years old, graduated from a second-rate university, works in a second-rate company, any kind of person dares to come and bully... But I still firmly believe that girls will have it , There will be a car, a house, a ticket... there will be a horse!


 


Anonymous user
I am 22 years old, on my way to 23 years old.


This year has experienced too much. This year, my younger brother committed suicide due to depression, and my parents were on the verge of divorce because of their bad relationship, and my father had a third party outside. This year, when I was a senior in college, I started looking for a job. It was difficult for me to find a job if my major was wrong.


Every kind of shitty thing you can think of. Life can be cruel sometimes.


But I'm still here. There is a little niece at home, and I am still working hard to find a job. People who leave also make people know how to cherish.


I know everything will be fine. I deeply believe in it.


Warmly embrace this painful and splendid life.


 


 


Zhang Li, the big world is small and I
Zhihu, I am still here.


 


I wanted to write this article because of a Zhihu link posted by classmate Wu on Weibo: "What was I doing when I was 23 years old?". It attracted countless followers, and also touched my literary nerves. It is good to leave some text footprints. But my 23 years have only just begun. So let’s talk about my 22 years old. . .


 


Come to a 21-year-old episode. In the second half of the 21st year, I devoted myself to the mighty army of postgraduate entrance examinations. I didn't feel much about politics, mathematics, and professional courses, but I couldn't forget English until my death. At the moment when the bell was ringing, there were still a few words left to write - after more than half a year of brewing, the sentence "When the awareness of environment has been enhanced, the clean planet will not fall behind", which imitated Shelley's famous quote, was fragmented. The English composition has no ending in an instant. Unfortunately, I happened to be next to the door, the first table under the eyes of the invigilator. Before the bell rang, the teacher pressed the pen down mercilessly, and I begged the teacher to let me write the last few words, but the teacher angrily reprimanded me, threatened to take away my test paper, and went to the examiner's office to lecture. Almost made me cry. After finishing the English test, I walked silently with the flow of people, and I always had an ominous premonition that my English was not enough. Unsurprisingly, Tongji’s English ranks first in Shanghai, and the difference of 2 points in English has become Waterloo for my postgraduate entrance examination. Although 10 points in the logic sorting question is a big loss, I am even more concerned about these words.


 


After the Spring Festival, I took the train to Shanghai with my JC classmates with my remaining confidence and learned German in advance. I have a foundation in German, I don’t want to be at a disadvantage in the possible re-examination opportunities), I still remember that it was Valentine’s Day, it was a bit miserable, and I spent it quietly on the train heading to a strange city like this.


 


With the help of JC, I settled down and started a two-month German elementary class at the Tongji Study in Germany Preparatory Department. The busy study has diluted the torment of waiting for grades, and it also allowed me to meet students who are learning German for various purposes (most of them are for the purpose of studying in Germany, and others are for the purpose of immigrating to Germany and studying foreign languages). . Fortunately, I can meet some very good friends who accompany me through those heart-wrenching days: CL, a little girl who boiled Houttuynia cordata for me when my throat was crazy inflamed; ZJ, accompany me to adjust, give me Countless comforting sisters; zhang, the deskmate who often missed classes and gave me tutoring after being busy with adjustments in the later period; guanyu, the big boy who gave me the detailed itinerary for my trip to Hangzhou... and the talented, angry youth, a rare good teacher Herr Lu, I really failed the teacher's love at first, but it's a pity that I really have "impure motives" in learning German. Also, Teacher Shi from CDHK and sister Sissi, whom I met on campus, although they only encourage and support me with little news on the campus, they are also heart-warming. Although I did not finally step into the academic palace of CDHK, I can still feel the enthusiasm, vitality and broad cross-cultural platform of CDHK. And, the countless care and care given by the brothers and sisters of the No. 1 Middle School, and the old comrades in the third and eighth classes of the third grade who I beat one by one; there is also, because I am a Cancer, there is no reason to believe that I rely on Pu girl's roommate sister, a serious girl who loves German football so much and chooses Germany without hesitation... and the encouragement and support of text messages, phone calls, and school news from friends all over the world. Many, many are vague memories. When I write them out suddenly, the memories will be overwhelming. It turns out that so many people have accompanied me through the two months of ups and downs. The one who opened his eyes and cried, cried A few days after I fell asleep and cried so much that I felt that I was about to get depression, because I paid too much, wanted too much, and expected too much, I couldn't treat the unfortunate result with a good sense of normalcy.


 


It's been a year, and it's the first time I've recorded my years of postgraduate entrance examination in the form of words, which means that I really let go of it, rather than treating one's work in a different place as a distraction. A postgraduate entrance examination experience is already unforgettable. World War II is just a repetition of the days when I was accompanied by high mathematics, probability theory, line generation, English, politics, and management every day for more than half a year. What's more, the days when I had a cold, a headache, and cried and rolled a suitcase of books to go home for a month or two before the exam, the experience of a little cold that couldn't be cured for a month or two also had a shadow. The unlucky fate of having to suffer a serious illness on the eve of the day has lingering fears. I always feel that I am not a material for studying, and I have seen myself more clearly. I have no academic skills, and I have no ambition to engage in scientific research. When I took the postgraduate entrance examination, I was focused on the opportunity to study in Germany. The main reason is that my motivation for postgraduate study is too impure, so I no longer harm China's master's students.


 


After everything was over, several choices were in front of me: World War II, I didn’t want to; my parents didn’t want to study German for a year and apply for a graduate student in a German school. My parents thought this decision was too hasty, or I was afraid that I would be too tired to go out alone. Thinking about it, I felt too impulsive, and my mother was not in good health at the time, so I couldn’t be too unfilial and let it go; work, a helpless act, was okay; making adjustments, unwilling but also wanted to save a spare tire or let my parents feel at ease a little. But they were really disappointed by me, they couldn't make a big deal, and they started to do things according to my temper.


 


After learning a term of German, I sent all my luggage home, went to Beijing to play by myself, and knocked a few classmates in Beijing one by one. Tsinghua University, Peking University, Tiananmen Square, the Forbidden City, the Summer Palace, the Bird's Nest Water Cube Olympic Park, the Great Wall, Wangfujing, Xidan, Houhai...Traveling and relaxing, I really let go and relaxed a lot.


 


The worst plan ever: It is a foregone conclusion that there will be no school, no unit, and no man after graduation, but you can still hide your sadness and devote yourself to graduation parties one after another with a hippie smile every day. The result that I always thought was the most unacceptable finally faced it calmly, and that was growth. Looking back on all those experiences now, all I can do is smile knowingly, and I can even use it as a joke.


 


Crazy dissertation season, graduation season. In just one month, Shui Shui's graduation thesis was solved, and then there were endless gatherings, freshman software class, a gang of corrupt soy sauce party, economic class one, international trade class, postgraduate entrance examination party, fellow townspeople, a group of Dial a dial, eat, drink, sing, play, and play, is it to let all the youth and friendship of the four years be vented heartily in the last month? The graduation trip to Pingtan Island with a large group of boys was very exciting, blue sky, white clouds, sea water with white clouds reflection, undeveloped, unpolluted beaches, a lot of seafood, swimming piles Sand, camping with yellowed tents, barbecues and riding waves... the beautiful life is nothing more than this. In short, graduation is a bright and sad scene that is endless. I accidentally became sensational, I missed everyone, and I was sad again.


 


After taking those so-called one-paper certificates and diplomas, I sent all the trivial things in the university, and I also sent all my postgraduate entrance examination books home, just to keep a little souvenir that can be slowly deposited with the yellowing paper. I stayed in Xiamen for more than half a month, although at the request of my cousin, I went back and forth between Fuzhou and Xiamen for countless times. Going to Gulangyu Island for food, playing murder on the beach, shopping with his girlfriend, following his little cousin's ass all day long to watch him toss about his new company, fooling around with his beautiful and cute little niece, brothers Under the instructions of my parents, I have to introduce some jobs for me. Life is very good, but I always feel that there is something missing, or it is just a lingering thought: the comfortable and peaceful Xiamen should not be my habitat after graduation. However, I will definitely go back to Xiamen often to see my dear college roommates, my software buddies, and my brothers and sisters. My brother always taught me that I can't just follow myself and neglect family and friendship. I was a little sloppy when I was young, but I try to balance many things in my life.
When many people felt that I was a little unreasonable, with the lingering thought, I always fled Xiamen and returned home.


 


It was uncomfortable to be unemployed after graduation, and to face all kinds of nagging from the elderly. Within a few days, I ran away.


 


一个人南下深圳，一个一直以来有着莫名隐约好感的城市，先是投奔了从小一起长大的老乡，蹭吃蹭睡了一个月，东奔西跑找工作，东挑西拣，举棋不定。说来也诡异，某天晚上十点多，正看着电视剧，就接到一电话，说是面试来着，大爷啊，大半夜的，搞什么面试，该不会是人才网泄露个人信息有人恶作剧骗我小女生的吧。正想挂电话时，对方说要用英语给我来个telephone interview，一听我就想玩了，就算是诈骗，英语电话诈骗也是头一次玩儿，我就奉陪到底。聊了大半个小时，便约我第二天上他们公司复试。我的妈呀，第二天是周六啊，还一老男人就让我自个儿上他们公司面试，正当我想回绝的时候，对方猜出了我的担忧，说他们公司周末还有很多同事加班的，那安全问题解决了，然后我就想走着瞧，走一步算一步了。第二天赶过去，填了些个人信息，做了些逻辑题，聊了大半天，就让我下周一上班来上班了。说这事儿真奇怪，一整年12个月挑挑拣拣，不出12个小时就把自己给卖了。看似轻率，实则不然，第一份职业，该考虑的所有我都给考虑到了，幸运而已，这家公司刚好满足了我的对第一份工作的期许，除了薪水，不过我也懒得去在乎了。刚开始啃点老是为了以后更好地还老人家的债。


 


周日，和八班同学去大梅沙聚了一场，骂死了盐田那该死的交通和那拥挤的海滩，连个坐的地儿都没有，挤满了一个个人肉球，不过可能很大一部分原因是大运前夕的沙滩管控圈了大部分的沙滩，不过也确实毁了我对深圳海滩的印象。


 


Then I started to work. In fact, I was really lucky. I encountered all kinds of opportunities and challenges at work. I grew up to my satisfaction. However, working overtime in the first few months really made me vomit blood. . At the beginning, my colleagues always scolded me for no reason. I really don’t understand these people. Why are they so stingy with newcomers? At the beginning, I don’t know how to use copiers, and the scanner is normal. The company's internal business process is really chaotic, but for a growing high-tech private company, it is already very good. I can't think of any proposals for improvement now), so I can't remember it for a while. There are many faces that are neither handsome nor beautiful. I even had an email quarrel with some unfriendly colleagues when I was impulsive. During the period, I made two or three mistakes. One time I accidentally filled out the federal waybill and it really cost the company more than 10,000 yuan. After communicating with that idiot customer for a month or two, and communicating with various people in the federation countless times, I was almost waiting to deduct the money, but in the end the deputy general manager found a way to solve it easily. Jiang, is still old and hot, but it still depends on the accumulation of experience. Some other mistakes also caused a few losses, but they were all internal oolongs. In fact, I am very grateful for the company's tolerance and the protection of the bosses. When I think about it, it's not all my fault. Those who don't know are innocent. Who told them not to train me well? There is no sound training system and system.


 


After a few months, everything started to go smoothly, and the interpersonal relationship is also like a fish in water. At work, it is good to get along well with customers, and to get along well with customers, and it is difficult to get along well. Colleagues have various dinners, karaoke, clubbing, and work. Friendship can also be very simple and pure. However, work and study are really two different things. When money and interests are involved, some not-so-good things will emerge. Those who can see clearly or cannot see clearly are unwilling to explain or fight for it. With this kind of character, I am also doomed to be unable to be a strong woman or make a lot of money. Sleek and sophisticated, I don't want to learn, and I don't deliberately obstruct the subtle teachings. Maybe someday, sometime, I will suddenly become that kind of person, so just accept it.


 


瑜伽，跑步，东西冲穿越，青青世界漫步，丹霞山登山，红树林摄影，到处逛街，偶尔心血来潮学下吉他，学下跳舞，做做饭，突然发现以前的宅女也爱运动了，身体也开始变好了（除了上半年在上海时没照顾好自己落下的咽喉炎病根），一个人的生活也可以很精彩。不那么让家里人担心了，曾经变着法子诱劝我读研的老爸老妈也开始接受我这疯疯癫癫的生活了，是真的对我的前途也不抱啥希望了，我也落个轻松。好强少一点，快乐多一些。


碰到过个神奇的租房世故，也遇到个很好的室友，怀念那段一下班回家后室友帮我煮好饭菜的小日子。


 


好好生活，傻傻地乐呵呵地生活，其它神马都是浮云。包括我唾弃的高房价，以及那些不懂是真是假的爱情，很多很多浮躁的东西。该来的始终会来，坚信人间有真爱，但不一定相信有那么好命真爱就会降临到我头上。


 


有一个完美的跨年：当一个吃货在海岸城寻觅美食，第一次玩各种白痴游戏机，忍着脖子酸痛在第二排看电影，抱着头顶着风在闪着各式霓虹灯，散发节日气氛的流光溢彩中来回闲逛，像疯子似的在半夜看恐怖片，未到结局困到睡着，又被吓醒，以及大清早的失眠。


 


22岁，那么一个2的年龄，一切都不是那么顺利，却也活得够精彩。2011，活出一个人的精彩，2012，等待两个人的幸福。


 


4296个字，自己有史以来最长的总结，写得快把自己给感动哭了，回头看，只是很长很长的，自己才能看得懂得流水账。

 


十七，严重拖延症患者....
应届。21。现在身上只剩8.5块，对人生充满希望，对于23拭目以待、我觉得处于低谷，那就每天早睡早起，爱情不能强求，但工作是可以的。一无所有，那又怎么样，你才23。又不是83了。


 


暴走，我宣布~唔~唔~铁人四项赛现在开幕~唔~唔~
23岁，8年前，我辍学的第二年。 
The year before when I was a sophomore in my sophomore year, I suddenly figured out some problems in my studies. I felt that learning and teaching could not give me what I wanted, and I didn’t want to become a thinking zombie under the feudal education system, so I dropped out of school decisively. I still insist on listening to the big class. 
Bewitched by the case of Bill Gates, I wanted to do it myself, but my family had no money, so I could only raise some money from my classmates and friends with a 10-cent interest IOU, about 30,000-40,000, and opened a jewelry store And a restaurant, opened next to the university to do student business, they are not doing well, but they can still make a little money, and pay off the money in the next year. 
But I suddenly realized sadly that I can't do great things with my own strength without an ideal platform, and I will only fall into the lingering life of ordinary people in the market. 
At the end of that year, I resolutely gave up my small business to find a job. Starting with a salary of 800 yuan, I had to spend more than 5 hours a day in a freight warehouse with a temperature above 40 degrees.


 


Pan Xin, someone who occasionally likes to sing?
23 years old, this is a very interesting time for me. 


I graduated from university at the age of 21. I couldn’t find a good job because I didn’t study hard at university. In the first two years after graduation, I worked in a research institute. I basically drank tea, smoked cigarettes, and read newspapers every day. My job is actually to "cheat" people into becoming our XX members, charging 2,000 yuan a year as a membership fee. My job execution is actually to get a red-headed document, then stamp it, and finally paste the envelope. . . 


However, fortunately, after I graduated, I realized something and knew what I should do. During working hours, I will buy IT media such as "Computer World", "China Computer News", "Internet Weekly", etc., and read them all, so as to learn and understand the fashionable IT industry. At the same time, I also took a further course in business administration, but in the end I was too lazy to write a thesis and did not get a degree. However, this opportunity provided me with space for self-study, and I read a lot of books related to marketing management. 


When I was about 23 years old, I started to send out resumes. I don’t remember how many positions I submitted to hundreds or thousands of companies. It was rare that I failed a few interviews, because my work background has nothing to do with IT. . 


Finally, in June 2000, a classmate of mine interviewed a website and he didn’t want to go, so he recommended me to go. It just so happened that the website was just established and was going to hold a press conference. With a monthly salary of 2000, I was so happy at the time. Later, I discovered DONEWS, registered on it, started writing some articles, and met some media people. 


After working for a few months, I found that the website was not working, so I started looking and looking for a job again. Another opportunity favored me, Bo Neng Public Relations, which is the predecessor of Analysys. Because I am a columnist for DONEWS, I showed them my article during the interview, and they accepted me. Because they are also very short of people, I was given another chance. The president who interviewed me at that time (not Yu Yang) told me later that he didn’t even like you at that time, but there was really no one who wanted you, haha. Well, now my salary has suddenly become 3,500 yuan, and I can still work in an office building. I think it's too NB. 


Then, I will be 24 years old... 


I won't criticize the truth of it, I think everyone can sum it up for me. In short, where there is a will, there is a way.


 


Lin Yiyuan, I think I'm still a young man. I'm
currently 23 years old, half-year-old, and a senior in college.


 


The first half of the year was uneventful, I wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but I still spent every day on the Internet, reading all kinds of Internet information, thinking that if I failed the postgraduate entrance examination, I would go to ifar, 36kr, cnbeta and other Internet information website editors.


 


In June, I came across a Product Manager on Zhihu. After chatting for a while, I cheekily asked for an internship opportunity. The other party readily agreed, and I had never heard of that company (not an Internet company) before. During the period, I submitted a resume for an Internet company (Company A for short, and Company A will be mentioned several times below), but there was no news after the online written test.


 


At the beginning of July, I asked for leave from school and went to Shenzhen.. It turns out that this company is actually quite good and was not deceived. The salary during the internship was pitifully low, but by chance, I ran into a high school senior who provided me with free accommodation. The PM just resigned from company A mentioned above and provided me with a lot of help and advice on Internet products. During the two months in the company, under the guidance of this PM, I completed the writing of the development prototype document of an upcoming product (it was also the first time I used Axure), and also freely under the guidance and help of this PM. Several product prototypes were made. Started from a college student who knew nothing about the product to a mobile Internet product enthusiast. Go to work at 8:30 in the morning and leave the company at 9:00 in the evening. I am never tired of learning and obtaining information, and I found myself enjoying the position of PM Assistant Intern. Through that senior, I got to know a lot of people from various industries, and because of this, I got an internship opportunity from an Internet company in Shenzhen and an internal referral opportunity from an IT state-owned enterprise in Shenzhen, even xxxxxx, but I gave up. I met the Project Manager of a mobile game company in Beijing by chance. After a chat, he promised me that as long as he is still in the company, I am welcome to do game planning at any time. My reply is that if my school can’t find a recruit The company that is more satisfied will go to him, and the other party readily agrees.


 


At the beginning of September, the school started and returned to school. I got two offers through social recruitment.


 


As for school recruitment, I voted for six companies, and five of them gave me interview opportunities. The rest didn't come to the interview at all. I had really good luck with the written test.


 


There is a final face to attend tomorrow. There is another company's final meeting to attend next week. Another company is the company A mentioned above. After the initial interview, it is waiting for the final notice. I passed the written test of a state-owned enterprise, but I may not go for an interview. I still want to work in a company where I can learn more abilities.


 


I have a deep relationship with company A, I hope I can get the offer smoothly, and then sign with three parties on the spot. Then live the last quarter of college in a down-to-earth manner. The greatest luck is that I met the PM. Without him, I might be preparing for the purposeless research exam from six to nine to eleven. He said he felt like he had done nothing, but I felt like he had done everything.


 


There are always elements of luck in life. I think I'm a lucky guy.






轩子，共产主义的接班人
今天早晨坐在阴天的房间里，想起了两个七年。一个是前几天晚上，大家在群里说的WOW七周年了。另一个是从医院搬家到这里也已经七年了。对时间的恐惧突然笼罩于我的心上。七年多么漫长的时光，突然就消失了。这让我觉得蛋碎的青春已在我身后。


这一年，我23岁。


 


第一个七年的开始至今我依然记忆犹新。那是像往常一样的一个日子，放学后的我们坐在网吧里。从排队到登陆游戏。我感觉一切都似乎发生在昨天。当时进入游戏的时候，就感觉像一个新生儿降临在一个陌生的世界时，新鲜但又不知所措。以至于那时候觉得世界上再也没有比黑海岸还要大的地方了。还要提到的是，那一年我高考。时间的场景里，有些永远难以磨灭，有些则渐渐消失在记忆里。与其说是一款简单的网络游戏，倒不如说它是青春的载体。因为每个人的青春里都有个孙燕姿，任何将周杰伦从我们青春里分离出去的行为都是自绝于人民。七年后的一天晚上，大家突然在群里喷了起来。他妈的七年了。最黄金的七年。留下来的见证就只有这些游戏中的虚拟人物。除了游戏还在继续，所有的事情都已经改变。


 


第二个七年。也是我不愿去回忆的时光。因为它伴随着我高考的复读和蛋逼的大学。一个在今天看来仍然于我不想回忆起的时光。从那时起，家里搬到了现在住的地方，然后就经过了我反复在自己日记里提到了大学时光。以至于有些时候我想到了就会作呕。现在再回过头看，觉得那样美好的时光白白的浪费在一个他妈的地方，真是对青春的一种侮辱。前几天家里的灯坏了，换灯管的时候爸爸说，这灯都用了七年了，也差不多了。我突然有些诧异，怎么这样就过了七年。就一个灯管的时间吗。在乎它时，它停在原地不动。不在乎它时，它眨眼从你身旁溜走。


 


What can seven years bring? Seven years ago, a kid called me brother. Wu Xing sat in the classroom and talked about fairy swords with us. Master and Brother Yong are playing cards during class. The professor has an extremely beautiful crush on the elementary school girl. Panglong and I read idle books in class every day. At that time, I didn't know some people, the sky was always blue, and the days always passed too slowly. Seven years later, no one calls me brother anymore. Wu Xing when he will be daddy. The master was forced to stay in the mountains, just waiting for the text message of his monthly salary. Brother Yong has a family and is always busy. The professor tried to reverse his life in adversity. Panglong entered Sichuan on the right track. There is no good or bad in such a change, it is just from one state to another. But if you insist on asking me, am I willing to make such a change? My answer is no.


 


Two years after graduation. There were many possibilities in the middle, but none of them became possible in the end. The most common are ideal and girl. Regarding ideals, I am very glad that I did my favorite thing desperately for such a period of time. I and a few friends almost exhausted all my energy to make a magazine "Original History" about domestic original culture. Originally, it was good that we pooled our own money to release it independently. But after the sample book came out, the partner friends backed down. Take away the money to start investing. At that time, I felt like I fell into a deep abyss. In those days, I almost stopped thinking. Be in a trance all day. For the first time, I tasted the taste of ideal failure. Unspeakable pain and entanglement. But who knew that the worst thing was always still behind.


 


When I helped the girl I liked pack her luggage that day, I suddenly felt very sad. This feeling was so intense that I had never felt it before. So much so that I was still in this state for a while after she left. While reluctant to give up, I have been thinking about one thing: five years of youth, why can she give up so easily. So seemingly indifferent to change. Until now, I still prefer to believe that she had some struggles. When I helped her pack things, there were many memories of her school days and working in Xi'an for a year. Everything seems to have a story about youth. I want to write about this feeling of separation, but in the end I can only feel it, not express it in words.


She went to the life she chose and I was left innocently where I was.


 


11月初在西安的房子到期了。我没有在续租。整整一年的时间，我住在那里梦想未来。上班的日子我挺快乐。认识了一些值得认识的朋友。那天临走时，我拍了张“青年路”的照片放在了饭否上。亦有些悲壮的感觉。暗示的意味在那一刻变得无比明显：搬离“青年路”，搬离青春。


 


考研还有一个月，人生是否会走上另一条路，现在依然无从知晓。以前我愿意想以后，但到头来发现总和想的不一样。于是现在我总对自己说：Ask me tomorrow。也似乎像是在逃避。其实未必，我只是希望能平静的面对每一天。


 


按照惯例，文章的结尾都会有一个无限美好和励志的结尾。下来我来谈谈励志的部分。


 


为了不影响学习的时间，我压了很多的电影和小说都没有看。只是偶尔上上牛博网，看一些随意的杂文。以至于不让我像一些书呆子一样学傻了。保持一个独立思考，年轻进取的心。上星期连续几天晚上一直在看老罗的《一个理想主义者的创业故事2》，这是一个变态的中年男人。他让我看到了，现实是无比的残酷，但理想的心则更坚硬。坚挺。


 


如果你觉得还不够疯狂，那么请忘掉你自己是谁。并且一直学习不犯错误。岁月会走，无法停留。选择未来，选他妈的大电视机。


 


匿名用户
今年23岁，大专毕业工作两年； 
现在，虽然只拿着3000多的工资，每天的工作都特别悠闲，毫无压力；可是我却特别怀念上份工资只有两千，每天忙碌的挤着公交车，朝九晚五，下班回家天已经黑透，偶尔还加班通宵的工作，那时的我每天都在很用心的去努力思考，有追赶的目标，每天都在进步； 
现在，已经向公司申请了辞职，一个礼拜后离职； 
不愿意在这种安逸，毫无斗志的环境下工作；年轻就应该去争取自己想要的，朝着自己想要的方向出发，可能工资很低，可能压力很大，可能遇不到我想要的团队；也许是我想法天真，可是不去试试谁知道呢？ 
也许有一天因为现实原因想要放弃自己的坚持，妥协了，退缩了，犹豫了，怀疑了，也希望自己能告诉自己“你的坚持没错，至少你从未后悔过，你的任何一次选择” 
如果有一天，回看这个帖；我会在后面补上，我离职之后的工作结局；


 


汪慧蓉，不破不立，野蛮生长
23岁，引用双城记的话说，是一个女青年最好的年纪，也是一个女青年最坏的年纪。


从一段感情阴影里爬出来，却喜欢上不该喜欢的人，差点做了小三，最后及时收手。 
家庭变故让我有一种疏离感，迫切了踏上社会的念头。 
找到第一份工作，误打误撞入了互联网。 
第一次恋爱，第一次想婚，第一次经历属于相爱的人可以碰到的种种问题，太多第一次，甚至遇到许多从来没有认知到的委屈，可惜，那时大家都不会换位思考，于是还是交叉，分离。 
第一份工作，收入微薄，却认识了许多朋友，在一起的快乐，有未来的梦想。 
被迫接受社会化，发现自己会渐渐成为自己曾经不喜欢的那类人，知道并努力适应着。


太多太多的记忆伴随着23，本命年前的一年，踏上社会的一年，对于中国的大学本科以上学生来说真的很不一般，如同人格再建的一年。 
倒过来看，不胜唏嘘。


 


匿名用户
23岁那年，我刚好大学毕业，同学们都纷纷签下了心仪的工作，而我像一只无头苍蝇到处碰壁。那年的3月份才开始真正的参加各种招聘会，找工作，那时候觉得自己很不错，很自信。当接到第一个offer的时候在一家小公司实习，后来不断接到复试就盲目的相信自己很牛，把不错的offer给拒了，直到毕业工作没有签下来。那时候也没觉得是自己的原因，毕业后在很偏的地方租了房又开始找工作，不敢跟家里面说自己的情况，想当年是以优秀的成绩考入重点大学的，家里人不识字，以为上了大学就会分配有工作。毕业了，除了一大堆课本，我什么都没有。 
七月中旬在参加了N 场招聘会和投了无数次简历后终于获得一份推销的工作，有为期15天的考核期，考核期没有工资，如果考核期过了才能算15天所做得的业务提成。当时太需要一份工作了，毫不犹豫的接受了。我性格内向平时不爱说话，这份工作就是要和人打交道的，要出去推销产品，当时第一次去扫楼，第一次面对别人的白眼，第一次收到别人的拒绝，我真的崩溃了，学生时代优异的成绩对我毫无帮助，它没有教我如何面对困难。 
七月份的天空很炙热，每天都要在高温下奔跑，晚上回到租房内都中暑了，辛苦拼了15天，业绩还是没能挤进几前名，第一份没有工资的工作就持续了15天，把我的理想，信心都击粹了。 
失业后我又开始找工作了，海投简历没有反应，当时犯的错误就是没有认真反思自己，认识自己的不足。九月份了还没有找到工作，有一天偶然打开邮箱，发现七月份的某天有封面试邀约的邮件，虽然我不知道这家公司，时间都过去了两个月，他们还招人吗，我抱着试一试的心态回复了邮件，后面获得了面试的机会，这是一家创业型的公司，规模很少，都是些年轻人，当时被逼急了，几百元一个月的工资我也接受了，一直呆了两年，后面还是选择离开了，其中各种挫折，现在回想起来都让我直冒冷汗。 
After leaving, I have been unemployed. The trauma of work made me feel depressed. After a break of almost a year, I started a new journey. Everything started from scratch. I still have nothing, but compared to before, I admit that I have matured ! 
Thank you for tempering me in life, the me at the age of 23, thank you!


Take the knife's edge, Fresh Coder
is 23 years old, which is this year. After four years of unexamined undergraduate studies, I finally found that I knew nothing, so I went to graduate school again. I think of the comfort I gave myself when I was under too much pressure in the third year of high school: the school is the same, the key is to be yourself. Now it seems that there is only one thing to say: the environment and the people around are very important. In some schools, if you have to play during study time, you will find that you will feel guilty; while in other schools, you will be said to be pretending to be X when you say you are going to study. Those who are close to vermilion black are less; those who are close to ink red are even less. 
After living as a research monk for a semester, the more I studied, the more I realized that I knew too little, and I really experienced the helplessness of picking shells at the beach. Knowledge is too important, experience is too important. If we talk about planning, it is: read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles. 
Thinking about it, it is also like what you said: poor and white, nothing, nothing accomplished. However, compared to those who have already achieved something, we have more youth and more time. Many people are dissatisfied with their current situation and when they want to start all over again, they find that they have no time, so they grow old with regret. Just because it is still a blank sheet of paper, what the future holds, I can draw by myself. 
A good saying: What you waste today is the tomorrow that those who died yesterday hoped for. The present you hate is the past that you can't go back to in the future.


Tan Fei, like foreign trade e-commerce, the Internet, reading books, movies, science fiction, heart?
23 Over the past two years, I have been accumulating 
and accelerating the pace of starting a business, and at the same time, I also hope that I can accumulate a lot of money, not only for the past In the process of being in charge, the cow 
is also working hard with a master's mentality to accumulate self-confidence and experience; 
I also do a lot of accumulation and experimentation in my spare time, and it turns out that accumulation is never enough; trying, there is no point if you don’t go all out meaningful. 
Part-time work and starting a business are two paths. Most of the experience of the former is useless when it comes to the latter, and it will become a drag; 
too much part-time work experience can easily lead to too much consideration of other people’s feelings and too many details in decision-making, while most decisions They are all contradictory, there is no right and wrong, only trade-offs. 


On the Internet, contacts with weak ties are also very valuable, that is, save the strengths of 80% of your friends in the name note and profile note, and save a folder and excel separately for the outstanding ones, and store all the important information of the person in it. 
When there are clues, use tools to search for file inclusions. A person’s ability and time are limited, so resources are exchanged to take the 
initiative to share experiences that may be helpful to others. Even if it is superficial, over time, some partners will introduce themselves. Some contacts on the Internet are branched out. Of course, you have to be thick-skinned, but you must put an end to any "black belly" 
. Loneliness, high pressure, white eyes, contempt, be prepared for personality bankruptcy and losing all your efforts. Then, while you are young, give it a go. 


At the age of 23.5, I was honored to join the big team of entrepreneurship, in order to have more opportunities for changes in various aspects in the future... At the age of 
23, I found that working is the greatest adventure: youth and excitement no matter how hard I work. Quietly lost or wasted


 


Ma Ming, angry youth
I am 23 years old this year, graduated, lost love, looking for a job, wandering, confused, unable to go back to the past, unable to see the future... This is the portrayal of me now... After going to university in other provinces, I finally chose to listen to my parents and return to myself The city developed, so I broke up with my boyfriend whom I had been talking about for two years... I returned to my city and started interviewing non-stop blind dates. I used to be numb and lost and wanted to escape from reality and even wondered if I was depressed... At the same time, I was under the pressure of finding a job, so I couldn’t wait to find a job, find someone casually, and marry myself... So during that time, I was addicted to the Internet, constantly Surfing the Internet, constantly browsing the web, so in this extremely empty and lost day, I met a lot of netizens, some were angry, some were broken in love, and some were unemployed. Fortunately, everyone has been struggling and finally found a basic job. Work that is not related to your major, let’s make do with it... But I still haven’t given up on my dream, I will not give up my major... Although I can’t see the future of me now, I have been struggling, no matter what I do, young , always have to work hard... There is nothing impossible, I always tell myself to follow my own feeling, always tell myself to work hard, always tell myself to be good... I have been working hard to live. Anonymous user just graduated, monthly


 


salary
600 , I brought my girlfriend to live with two college classmates, and slept on a mat on the first night. The cold feeling can still seep into my bone marrow through memories. Later, it was changed to a one-bedroom, one-living room. My girlfriend and I slept on the bed, and two classmates slept on the floor. They had to be silent when doing business at night. . . . The work was very hard, the wind and the sun were shining all day long, and my mobile phone was broken at that time. When I received a call from my father, my father asked why I hadn’t called home for so long. I was in the autumn wilderness and burst into tears. I am homesick and miss my parents, but I know I have to face the present and continue to persevere, because life has just begun. BTW: That was in 2006,


 


an anonymous user,
my sister was twenty-three. Seeing this, I remembered that my dream in elementary school was to be a scientist and a policeman. It’s so funny, isn’t it? I don’t know if the 
ignorant love in middle school can be considered first love, but now I really can’t say when it comes to love If there is no nagging sister from the people around, I would never have thought that there is such a major issue that has not been resolved` 
My sister wanted to go to Dalian after graduating from university, but it didn’t work out for no reason. I came to Shanghai this year, but it was actually my parents’ wishes; I was studying in a well-known university, and my life was almost half a year before I knew it, and I was still so detached 
. I was so excited to go to university and majored in software. My hands-on ability can’t be compared with the awesome ones. Now I’m still a little scared in the lab. I’m going to do a project for my tutor now. , Sister worked hard, after completing the goal of google internship, I don’t know where to hang out. 
I’m 23 and I’m still a foodie. Today, I listened to the research report of Microsoft Asia Academy. My sister told the students next to me that I will open a personalized restaurant Shop, everyone has to book in advance, but the price must be the Mingming route, so as to solve the distress of those foodies~ Having 
said so much, I feel that I am an assembly line person. If there is no deadline, I will always be calm, but the death of Jobs is a warning to my sister. You must cherish this second you have so people, no matter how difficult life is, God gave you this second, but she didn't give Qiao God this second, people really have to learn to cherish~ Finally, I want to say something to my mother, I 
know I also heard that you dropped out of school because of your grandmother's illness, otherwise your life would definitely be different, but your spirit has always encouraged me, including now I also agree with you. Dad’s mentality of being absolutely tolerant, I know that there must be your love for Dad, but I didn’t understand it before, but your actions now tell me and inspire me, first of all, at least be a tolerant person, and finally 
treat Let me say something in the future, don’t stare at me to see if I have reached you, then I think I will at least go step by step~


 


Fan Zheng, executive partner of Zhongde Zhuozhi Education Consulting Co., Ltd.,?
23岁, 美国, 大学毕业一年, 在硅谷的某软件公司工作, 没日没夜编程，debug, 3年后, 26岁, 感觉到编程是个青春饭, 决定转型, 读了金融的master, 27岁转入某投行的香港分部，没日没夜写pitch book. 5年后，32 岁，感觉银行卖的产品太黑，良心发现，决定转型，创业。 现在， 没日没夜地为自己的公司奋斗。


 


小橘子，id
23岁。也就是今年。大学毕业。为了和女友能够长久，也为了履行当初追她时候的诺言：“毕业了你去哪里我就去哪里，绝不让你孤单！”毅然放弃了一些待遇好，有朋友的地方的工作机会。和她来到了深圳，当时她在这边有朋友，亲人。我孤身一人，离开兄弟。当时认为。只要有她，便是拥有这个世界。还好平时在校的经历和成绩让我在深圳也找到了行业内数一数二的公司（其实当时我根本不愁工作的事情，信心非常大） 
上班一个月，还处于实习阶段。因为和女友一些矛盾。被甩。她，她妈妈。他哥哥。她朋友一起出动，由好言相劝到威胁，几乎用上。我当时在她们眼里估计是个恶魔。，会去报复他们一样。现在看来我真的有点看不起她们。然后浑浑噩噩的上班，每天做梦。后来发展成为选择性失忆。忘记了和她之间的很多事情，公司实习考试倒数第一。当时同事形容我就是魂没了。我想也是吧，呵呵...... 
这个时候我该停下来好好思考我的生活了。我看书。买了很多心理学的。商业的书来看。慢慢的进行自我拯救，我很佩服自己一点的就是当时失恋的时候刚好手上有以前大学创业时候的客户交付的设计任务。我是一边流泪一边给他做。 
Later I redefined my purpose in life. Slowly, I also came out. At that time, my buddies said that I would lose my fighting spirit within a year. Fortunately, it only took me one and a half months to slowly return to the right track. I started thinking about what I was going to do. Later, I decided that I wanted to join an Internet company, so I began to look at some recruitment conditions for interaction designers. Add it slowly. To meet, to learn from AXURE doing cases all night in Internet cafes. I have to go to work during the day. Usually keep at least 2 hours a day to read books. ps: I didn’t ask for anything when we broke up, and I only had 300 yuan left when I moved out. Fortunately, the company provided dormitories, and I slept on iron beds until November. Slowly, I began to submit my resume to Baidu. Innovation Factory, Alibaba. Tencent, 360, although now only the director of 360 gave me a call. But it depends on the personnel arrangement. At least I think my comeback has the affirmation of others. My countless nights of staying up late have brought me a lot. 
I still haven't received the OFFER yet, but I am a person who is hard to give up. keep it up. At the same time, I would like to thank the person who made me heartbroken. I also wish you happiness and hope that you will not suffer from my heartbreaking in the future. At the same time, don't ask me about my life. I only want us to die for each other. I will never see you again in this life. And I, will keep going 
PS; by the way. How important is a person's spiritual pillar 


. . . This question made me feel emotional. Luo Luosuo wrote so much nonsense, I only hope that others can cheer up when they see it. Life is a practice, and suffering is life. Drumming, I found out that there are so many


 


CEOs when I came to Zhihu
23 Yes In 2010, I graduated from university, the school was very average, and I was studying an unpopular major. It was very, very difficult to find a job. The counterparts were all state agencies and institutions, and my family was useless. University is not depraved, but it is really a waste of four years. After graduating, I was very confused and encountered obstacles everywhere when looking for a job. Then I wanted to go to the civil servants and public institutions. In fact, I used this excuse to escape and adjust myself. Of course, the written test scores were good, and I was interviewed once. As I wish, I don't want to think about whether there is any shady or not. In short, the result is already doomed. 
后来过完年，踏实下来找了份我觉得还算适合我的工作，工资不算高，福利也一般，现在快一年了，工资什么的也有点起色了，主要是干的比较开心。看似年轻其实已经被现实逼得得成熟，今后怎样真的很未知，工作、恋爱、婚姻、家庭，看似顺理成章的东西却感觉承担不来。 
现在也不想这么多了，该来的总归会来，要面对的也逃不掉。


 


曾民生，金蝶随手记产品运营，关注产品，专注运?
11年，也就是去年，我23岁，刚毕业的大学生。23岁这一年算是我人生中比较多挫折的一年。这一年失去了初恋，工作也十分折腾。 
毕业前在家里的政府单位实习，主要是风险投资基金洽谈落户、注册事宜，不是自己所喜欢的工作。做满三个月，毅然在毕业前放弃签合同，回到广州继续寻找互联网的职位，我知道自己想做互联网。6月底吃了散伙饭，当晚与大学同学喝醉在校园里，缅怀过去四年，然后各奔东西接着就去了一趟厦门，散心、静思。 
7月中，在广州，选择了如今的公司进行工作，工资不高，从最初的软文编辑慢慢争取到现在的APP运营，负责APP推广、渠道维护、需求管理、APP测试等一系列事情，都很琐碎，但对于一个刚毕业的人来说，是一个机会。1奋斗半年中，11月成为LBS观景台成员，12月每晚花两个小时沉淀了工作上的东西，看视频，与人聊天，写了一篇《百万级应用是怎样炼成的》，得到业内不少同行的肯定。因为此文结识不少在广州从事移动互联网的朋友，筹建了一个珠三角地区APP产品运营Q群，慢慢去学习，去长大。 
The first half of the 23-year-old was confused, and I found my goal through trial and error; the second half of the 23-year-old was tossing, because I was in a start-up company and the job was frequently transferred, I had to adapt to new changes time and time again, and strive to move towards I want to do the goal of being a product manager. At work, I also gradually realized that it is really not easy to be a product manager. I began to slowly choose to start with product operations, and use the product perspective to do operations at work. Data statistics, axure express user needs, operational needs, and participate in testing work. This is a very tossing and difficult struggle. 
At the age of 23, I used to look for a job in confusion, and asked myself what I wanted to do, and finally followed my heart to enter the Internet; at the age of 23, I was 
extremely tossed and depressed, thinking about why I was like this; but the same This year made me understand that hard work will definitely pay off, and that walking towards my goal will always pay off. It is still early to enter the industry, and there are still many things to learn, practice, summarize, and settle. 
I just use this answer to commemorate my 23 years old. I don’t know how I will go when I am 24 years old. I will forge ahead with all my friends on Zhihu.


 


Takechiyo, recently opened a topic, so farewell Zhihu.
In 1987, I am 25 and 23 years old this year. I graduated from undergraduate in the first half of the year, and started my dismal postgraduate life in the second half of the year. 
After reading the above answers, I feel that life at this stage should be hard work, and everyone is facing a turning point in life. There is always something unsatisfactory about studies, work, love, and life. I thoughtfully recalled my 23 years old, and encouraged each other here. Whether it is a young man who has come out or is still confused, there is always hope for what life gives us, even if it is a group of strangers like now. Encouragement, no matter how frustrated we are, we all have to go on bravely,
passing through the dark years like Xu Wei sang in "Blue Lotus"  .
The free world in my heart is so clear and lofty, full of never-fading, blue lotus flowers. Life should be like this, I just want to say to myself, to those who are as lost as me, "As long as there is life, there is hope." 
---------------纠结的分割线，下面是我的23岁，如有雷同，请私信-------------- 
1月份，参加了研究生考试。之前的半年一直是和女朋友一起复习准备，考试那几天就在外面订的宾馆。因为我们在不同的考场，距离也比较远，而她又非让陪她一起住，所以就选了个离她的考场较近的宾馆。我一大早就爬起来往考场赶，当时也舍不得钱打的，就挤公交，昏昏沉沉的。初试结果还算可以，而她却不理想。这也许就是我们分手的征兆吧。 
3月份，大四的下学期开始。我们一起到上海的一家生物制药公司实习（我是在南京读的大学）。当时也是为了陪她，因为她非常喜欢上海，想在那找工作。我想算了吧，为了爱情，研究生的复试就当炮灰好了。于是就每天骑自行车上下班，在充满刺鼻的化学试剂的实验室合成多肽。 
3月8号那天不知道因为什么事情我们吵了一架，一怒之下我就骑车先走了。接连几天我们都形同陌路，一方面刚踏入社会有点不适应，公司的条件又很苦，心情都不好。我回到宿舍就跟一帮学校一起来的同学打DOTA，抽烟，也没有主动安慰她，对于水瓶座女生的无理取闹我那时总是斤斤计较，现在想想如果当时不赌气就好了。12号晚上她发短信说分手，我就傻逼的说分就分，后来才知道原来她跟我们宿舍的另一个人已经开始暧昧了，一个星期之后两个人就在一起了…… 
我怎么求都没有用，接连几天我就请假在宿舍，跟掉了魂一样，抽烟、喝酒，发呆，哭。然后决定还是好好看书准备复试，期间又参加了选调生的考试，初试也过了。每天下班之后就抱个书到附近的上海师范大学自习室看书，因为不想回去看到宿舍那个人，不想听到他们打电话幸福的样子。每天到11点才回去。 
后来研究生是考上了，但公务员的面试被PASS了。 
然后6月份就回学校答辩、毕业、吃散伙饭、拍毕业照、送完一个个同学…… 
When we parted, I told her, I will wait for you to graduate for three years, if you are alone at that time, can I chase you again? 
She said, don't be silly, we won't be together. 
I had nothing to do during my graduation summer vacation and didn't want to go home. Living in an empty postgraduate dormitory, distributing leaflets on the street in the heat of more than 30 degrees in Nanjing, going to the streets and alleys we used to go together, to the study room where we fought side by side, to the playground where we dated... 


until Now we have never seen each other again, nor have we spoken to each other. 
Now I am still insisting on being a dick, looking at the black fungus beside me, I don't like it at all. 


My favorite girl, where are you? 
Are you like me and often recall the time we were together? 
You were pure and kind back then, are you the same now as before? 


How are you doing, Aquarius girl? 
In this southern city at the end of spring, I still burst into tears when I listened to Li Zhi's "Nobody Talked to Me Since You Left Nanjing". 


Goodbye to my 23 years old, goodbye to the hurried years, I will continue to fulfill the promise I made to you when I was 23 years old. Mianmian, a 23-year-old 


 


Internet freshman with two months left to graduate, made an appointment with the supervisor today and talked about retaining him. He expressed all kinds of dissatisfaction and disappointment with me. His language was so sharp and straightforward that I almost burst into tears on the spot. 10 The one-month internship job was rejected by someone. This offer was like a handout. I kept crying on the way home from work. I don’t think my life has ever been so bleak. The 23-year-old in the prime of life is not The self-esteem is not as vigorous and confident as a newcomer in the workplace. Many classmates and friends around me have got comfortable and happy jobs, but I have broken my head for the so-called career ideal. 




谢谢各位的鼓励和提醒，我们公司的薪资水平是低于行业标准的，当时下定决心留在这里就是看中了它的平台和发展空间，今天与招我进来的经理交谈了一次，他对我一直是比较满意的，但是他与主管的做事理念是有冲突的，这可能也导致了主管对我的不满，现在他有更好的发展空间近期会离职，他很担心我是否在主管手下能够有所重用，他认为主管对我的不信任会影响我的升职加薪和发展空间。我喜欢这个行业，所以考虑继续坚持，但是一方面我又担心自己会向另外一位同事一样，辛辛苦苦工作两年多，由于主管对其的成见或者说是偏见，导致无法加薪升职，一直出于经理助理的尴尬位置。


 


高嵘，中西文化 理性思考 外语 历史爱好者 市?
易中天23岁的时候（1970年）在新疆生产建设兵团做体力劳动。 
罗大佑23岁的时候（1977年）在奋力考取医师执照。 
俞敏洪23岁的时候（1985年）出国失败，留校任教。 
黄健翔23岁的时候（1991年）大学毕业做了导游。 
罗永浩23岁的时候（1995年）已经从中学退学6年，在东北倒卖走私汽车，后来到韩国做苦力挣钱。 


想想他们，就知道所谓“低谷”其实没什么。是金子总要闪光。


 


Judie，热爱美食，享受生活. 努力不抱怨ING~
虚岁23了。认识男友一年。工作两年。 


目前在一家互联网创业公司做HR，偶尔也会面一些年龄比我大的应届毕业生。也在学习中，生活很充实忙碌。 


毕业以后不想回家，觉得在哪里都一样，就选择了北京。刚来的时候，自己住500块一个月的自建房，窗户是坏的，找了一份猎头助理的工作，每天压力很大，一直加班加班.... 恍惚记得刚上班的那个星期，上火加生病，一个人蹲在路边走不动的心情。 


后来搬了很多次家，生活好像比刚来的时候好了很多，虽然也还是蜗居，自己依然不觉得辛苦。工作也换了一份，从猎头转到人事，压力小了很多，虽然每天也是忙碌，但是感觉在做着自己愿意做，也可以做好的事情，也会觉得挺有成就感。 


如果这么一直呆在北京，生活应该会这么继续下去吧。但现在面临的选择是：回三线城市跟男友在一起，找份稳定些的工作，不用担心车子和房子，半年或者一年内结婚。或者分手留在北京自己奋斗，职位上升，再等待一个合适的人出现...... 


很喜欢他，但是23岁，好像人生也才开始不久吧，总是会迷茫。做怎么样的选择最终在于自己，但是唯一可以肯定的是，不管怎么样，我都不会放弃工作，放弃自我，放弃独立。我会听别人怎么说，但是一定要自己知道怎么做。


 


经雷，enthusiastic buzzkill
大学刚毕业，以为人生最低谷算熬过去了。现在知道还可以更低的。 
所以23岁很傻。


 


 


轨，菜鸟级产品
目前23，虚岁，真的不想承认自己那么大了。半年大三半年大四，稀里糊涂的获得保外资格，超级想去浙大，于是上半年拼命的积累作品集，充实且有点心力交瘁。习惯给自己加很大的压力但总是高估自己的实力，当现实和预期差太远的时候总会沮丧。23，依然不懂爱情这件事情，明白自己的虚荣但老是改不掉。 


-----------------------------------------------------------------------------以上是2011年九月九号写的 


At that time, I thought that the future would be smooth and I would leave the school and Beijing. At this time, all the dust settled, and the result was beyond everyone's expectations. Although I still got the offer from Zhejiang University, the college irresponsibly issued a new policy to limit the number of foreign insurance. I am very sad that the line The first one in the back is that the restriction of foreign insurance cannot guarantee the school. Although I didn't plan to study in this school as a graduate student, I was very angry at the school's irresponsible behavior, but there was nothing I could do. 


Now I am looking for a job, I believe that the harvest of two years of work is not necessarily worse than that of two years of graduate school. I don't want to go to graduate school anymore, I don't want to be tortured by politics. 
—————————————————————————————— The above was written on October 1. I 


found an internship, and I will start working next Wednesday. , I feel that I have met the right person and place. I am very grateful and must work hard! 
Looking forward to when I can also output.


 


Zheng Xing, an atypical science and engineering student,
is currently a freshman and will be 19 soon. 


After reading the process that everyone experienced above, how many times I couldn't stop the urge to cry. I think, no matter what my 23-year-old will be, I will go on bravely. Thank you


 


causu, basketball fan, student monk at school, studying statistics hard,
come on, fold. I can always think of quilts.


In 1988, this year is the year of birth.


Say 2011.


1. In order not to be so busy, I quit New Oriental as a part-time teacher and had no income. After graduation, I fell into poverty many times. Fortunately, my friends helped me and I didn’t fall down; 2. I went home to help for the first time since high


school My family harvested wheat, although I had a few blood blisters on the soles of my feet;


3. I took the postgraduate entrance examination and was lucky enough to be admitted. I firmly believe in the conservation of character, and I am currently silently recharging my character;


4. I have been talking for two years Girlfriend, there have been many ups and downs this year, but fortunately, they are still in love;


5. After three years of research monk life, the future is still not very clear, lost and confused'


6、开始意识到天增岁月，人增寿的威力；


7、越发感觉到身体健康的重要性；


8、意识到自己要学的东西还好多，希望能学好一些。


9、走过场的参加了毕业答辩；


10、蹭朋友们一起合租的房子，六七人住两室一厅，不想以后回到这样的境遇。


11、跟不少人少了联系。


 


祁育，Java开发 互联网 业余爱好前端 即将毕?
快到24了，目前研二，即将开始找工作，现在比较迷茫的是去一线城市发展，也就是所谓的奋斗，还是回家找个普通的工作，能够照顾到父母，同时有更多业余的时间过自己的生活。家在西北，IT行业发展相对落后，但是相对感觉比一线城市的幸福感强点。如果去一线城市发展，养活自己没什么问题，相信几年的发展之后也会有个不错的结果，但是一年也就回一趟家，想来从高中起就是常年住校，大学就是一年两次的假期，父母渐老，但是难得一起生活，即便事业上再成功，也没多大的幸福感。Mark这个问题，过几年再来回答。


 


Yetian，一定要实现经济独立！
我今年20岁，现在读大二。 
过去的日子，平淡无奇，高中成绩挺好，还给入党。 
大学是另一番天地，我也失去了党员的资格，考试挂科，恋爱没有谈成一个，自己想做的事情比如创业写作的都没有做成。 
大二已经有两个月了，快十一放假，我想回去，爸妈也要回家。但车票都没有买到。 
今天周一，上个周末，我遇到了我的女朋友。也就是说，我们刚刚接触了两天，就确定了关系，只是差一个正式的表白，呵呵。（后来在知道这是哭逼的蛋疼！今天分手啦！！！2011.10.8） 
前边各位的答案都挺好的，我就不一一的加票投赞成啦。 
I like the Internet, but my skills are not up to scratch, and I am very depressed, because I am not a computer major, and besides, I only came into contact with computers in college. 
I tried to build a website on weebly last week. Is it very low-level in front of you? I can't stand those blog sites, but I like to write, and I like to be free and relaxed, very casual. 
It took two days to build a wordpress by myself, and it feels good. 
I'm a little confused as to how to go next. 
But I know that I have to work hard, not only for me, but also for my parents, my girlfriend (this painful sentence should be deleted.), I love them. 
Well, that's all. 
Oh, and, thank you Zhihu. 
 


Guo Zhikuan, a scholar, worries about the world! ! !
At the age of 23, I was in college that year. Everything went so smoothly. I walked out of a small mountain village and entered a university, although it was not a famous brand! That year, I fell in love and felt so happy. She told me that my heart was thin, and I also understood that sentence. When happiness comes, we will feel more happy, but when we When I am in happiness, I will start to worry about gains and losses again, and I feel so happy with her. Then that year, that girl suddenly told me that she was leaving. That year she started an internship, and I still have In the last year of college, I felt so confused and depressed, and wanted to ask why she left, but she just told me that we were not suitable, and then left! Half a year after she left, I met several girls, but I still couldn't forget her, and I often dreamed of that girl! At that time, I would often stand on the fifth floor of the third and third floors of the school, and then look at the people passing by below. At that time, I felt that those people were so happy. I imagined that if I were them, I might be able to be with them. The same happiness! At that time, I would often fantasize about what would happen to me after jumping off, thinking of Leslie Cheung, and then I knew that if I didn’t leave school for a while, I would definitely have an accident sooner or later, so I decided to drop out of school, and then wandered around in society for a while. Once I sent her a message, asking if we could go back to the past, and then I found out through chatting with her that when she resolutely left, it turned out that he felt that he had found someone who made her feel crazy, She had already broken up at that time, and I decided to bless her and let her be well, I told her, if you fall in love with two people at the same time, then you should be with the one you fell in love with forever, because if you love the former enough , you will not fall in love with the latter! I admit, I still love that girl, but I hope she is happy! I have seen a movie called Love Has an Afterlife, what should we do when we love someone? Of course I want her to be happy, and whether that happiness was given to her by me or by another man, this should not be a problem that bothers me! So, as long as she is happy, whether she is with me or not! Now, I have returned to school, and I have also signed up for the army. I am already twenty-two, twenty-three years old, but my childlike innocence is still very heavy. I think that before I have to fully bear all the things that society has bestowed on me When you are responsible, go play once and follow your heart! I told my friends that I would like to turn into a floating cloud in the sky and follow the footsteps of the wind. I think the army should be more suitable for me! Dear Zhihu friends, bless me!


Roby, Psychology
Interesting question, let me also talk about it. I 
just turned 23 last week. In 
the second year of high school, I felt that what I learned in school was useless. I was unwilling to be a victim of the system education, so I stupidly dropped out of school. In fact, my grades were not bad at that time, but after I came out, I didn’t know what I could do. I 
entered a garment factory. It was my first job. I worked overtime until eleven o’clock every day, and I quit within five days. up. At that time, the streets were full of computer learners, and then they paid hundreds of dollars to learn computers. In fact, they only used two office software for typing, and they stopped in less than a week. Then I went to an electronics factory to learn how to be a repairman, and resigned after half a year. 
In 2006, I went to the construction site with my father to learn engineering budget with him, but I was still confused, and I was not interested because of poor math. In the middle, I was deceived into pyramid schemes. 
I worked as a security guard in Shanghai Shipyard in 2007, 
and came to this company for a whole year in 2008, a logistics/foreign trade company, doing everything, handling, making orders, following orders, communicating with customers for settlement, working very leisurely, and bought a computer , began to surf the Internet frequently, and learned more things 
. In 2009, I started to have ideas, but I seldom persisted. Many things were abandoned halfway, and I still lacked self-confidence and low self-esteem. 
In the past 10 years, the work has improved a bit, and I began to take on more responsibilities and pressures, but I did not do well. In the 
11th year, I began to really think about my future and began to reflect. Because of some of my own problems and setbacks, I wanted to find the answers by myself and contact Buddhism. After studying philosophy, I became interested in psychology, and changed my self-examination major to psychology. I also bought a lot of books, philosophical logic, psychology, novels, and history. . . I started to learn more things, and gradually my outlook on life, world outlook and values ​​began to undergo a great change, and I began to seriously consider many issues. 
Still single, still feeling down and confused at times 
很庆幸自己和家人的感情都很好，自己的性格也不错，现在心态也好很多，过得还算充实和快乐，计划明年回老家武汉去安定，希望多陪陪家人


赵磊，C/C++,汇编，AS3.无畏的coder.我爱英语?
刚过20岁生日一个月，大三，一段想努力维持的感情也在昨天终究落下帷幕。 
或许是在高中被压迫很久，如众人一般来到大学以为终于可以甩掉以前那忙碌的生活，一如既往对未来的迷惑，在家里人的帮助下选了一个专业。天天翘课，似乎还感觉翘课存在着快感。想把从小学到高中从来不敢做的事做了一个遍，庸庸碌碌，疯疯癫癫，以挂了五科的惨状度过了大一。到了大二，母亲的身体越来越不好。突然也对未来的迷茫产生了恐惧。开始慢慢改变恶习，努力看书。但是却又发现，专业却并不是自己真正所感兴趣的，由于家庭原因，我的父亲和我的哥哥都是从事计算机方面的工作。从小耳濡目染对计算机也有着浓厚的兴趣（小小装一下，小学的时候还会组装兼容机，装系统，那时候装系统不像现在用ghost那么简单），还记得小学的时候对着电脑照着书本上的QBasic 输出了一个奥运五环的图案，那时便留下了深刻的印象，再继到初三中考完后学了下VB 感觉几个按钮能输出对话框感到很神奇（那时父亲告诉我那个框框叫对话框，虽然不知道是什么东西，但是却深深记下它的名字）。但是由于大环境的影响，为了高考。最终只能抛弃这个“非正业”的“玩物”。荒废的大学生涯一年多所幸被我对程序设计浓郁的兴趣所拯救。虽然不是计算机专业，但是仍旧还是在努力学习C语言，在我哥的引导下慢慢的在大一寒假又学习了汇编，然后在我哥的一句“C++的类就相当于C语言里的结构体再加上一些函数。”从此就开始了我漫长的C++学习之路。一边混着本专业的课却又再努力学习着我的兴趣，终于在大二下的时候通过跟父亲的谈话中彻底确定以后还是把主要方向放在程序设计而非本专业。于是为了弥补跟专业出身的人的差距，便开始疯狂的看书，去图书馆借C++的书，反复的看，又买不同人编写的C++书籍。数据结构的书籍，总算在语言方面有了一定底蕴。于是又开始补习计算机基础知识。去看些计算机专业的课程。路漫漫，但庆幸我能时刻鞭挞自己。 
Not long after the beginning of my junior year, I accidentally fell in love with a senior sister majoring in computer science. But due to the great gap in ideas, even though I always wanted a stable relationship, it finally broke down yesterday. I did my best, but it still didn't work. But my mood is already very calm. 
The same is true of life and feelings. Sometimes when we dig out the words we have written before, we will find that the pain and confusion we have suffered in the past are not really big things, and they will be resolved in a short time. 


=. = This is the first time I have typed so many words on Zhihu, and I dare not answer other questions because I am afraid that the quality of the answers will be lowered. It is rare to have a chance. . .


 


Ai Lingfeng, if there is an apocalypse , good luck!
In addition to the midlife crisis, there is also a youth crisis. Everyone is about the same. .


 


Sun Xiaohui, knowing what you know is knowing what you don’t know, knowing what you don’t know?
When I was 23 years old, I ate, slept, and played, and used my love as my spiritual food, without any other career goals. Eat old at home. Later, he lost his love and became a decadent and dazed "prodigal son". Fortunately, this allowed me to find my purpose in life and start working hard. Now everything is on the right track and I am still working hard for true love and my own career. Haha


 


Tianshun, a payment worker
, was 23 years old last year. He stayed at home for half a year after graduation, because he was unwilling to do low-level repetitive manual labor work, and he was unwilling to accept low-paying work. The administrative management major has developed technology, and after becoming a senior engineer, he will be transferred to a product manager, which is roughly at the same level. I have been talking with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years, and I have considered getting married for the past two years. She didn't give up on me when I looked the stupidest and others looked down on me. Although the salary is not enough for me to buy a house, there is no problem for the two of them to live a little bourgeois life. Next, I hope to make some breakthroughs in the business, and first make a product with millions of users. Then, maybe I will embark on the road of entrepreneurship and do things that I can't do unless I am my own boss.


 


Pirates, Pragmatic Idealists and Perfectionists
That's what I thought last year too...I'm sure most people thought so the year they graduated. 
But now we are alive and well! In any case, don’t lose your longing for the future and life at any time~


 


skinner, when everyone else is pretending to be pure, I’m the only
one pretending to be impure The company is engaged in the lowest-level position, with a salary that will not starve to death, seeking a little change. I am determined to start answering questions on Zhihu seriously from today, find a partner if I am serious, and settle down to learn something seriously. after? Besides,


 


Yuan Mingwei,
23 years old, is at the moment. I just graduated from university, did not take the postgraduate entrance examination, did not take the civil service examination, it has nothing to do with it, I have no background, and my professional knowledge is not solid. At the end of last year, I only interviewed one sales company. I went to work at the beginning of the year and worked for five months. The performance was not satisfactory and I resigned. I went out to look for a job for a month, and I failed one interview and another. The job is still hopeless, and love is far away and unpredictable. I am really at a low point in my life. I don't know if I've reached the bottom or continue to slide down to a lower valley, but there will always be a time for me to rise! After all, I have been skating for almost five years! 
After all, 23 years old is the age of dreams.


 


Wang Ziyang, a postgraduate student in geology, an IT enthusiast, and an independent blogger?
The year I was 23 was the bleakest year for me so far. I just graduated from university and failed to enter the graduate school, so I can only wait for a part-time job to recruit a temporary job. I am not willing to be lonely. I get up at six o'clock every morning to go to a university ten kilometers away from home to study, and then ride ten kilometers back at eleven o'clock in the evening. From July to April of the following year. April is my birthday, and when my 24th birthday approached, I was notified of being admitted to graduate school. Then travel, then practice in the field, then follow the mentor to pick up the project, then buy a SLR to learn photography, and then go to school for research. I feel like my life is full of light. 23 years old is the most important turning point in life.


 


Pockets, well, start planning your trip this year.
At the age of 23, in my senior year, in order to find a job, I left home in the sixth and seventh grades. I remember that it was raining that day, and I carried a suitcase of luggage from the train station to the school. The building management was there, but they refused to let me live, saying that I hadn’t been notified that I could move in. I had no choice but to drag my luggage to find a small hotel outside the campus. I didn’t need to register any documents. It was only 30 a day, and the sanitation was extremely bad. To be honest, I was a little scared at the time, but I decided to live here. I went to the supermarket to buy some food Yes, I even bought a pack of cigarettes. I had never smoked before, but I just wanted to give myself courage, so I stayed in the room for a whole day, and I was worried all day long. There was a job fair the next day, and when I went out, I hid some valuables under the bed, and even took a box to block them, and went out in fear. When I arrived at the job fair, I saw a company. The conditions stated that I needed to meet this meeting, experience and so on. I wanted to try it casually, but my friend said forget it. When I was young, I only voted for one company, and I didn’t like it very much. When I was leaving, I happened to pass by the company I just came in and saw. I said forget it and give it a try, then sat down and gave a resume to a man, and then After chatting for a few words, he said that we will notify you if there is any news, so he left, went home, opened the room, and looked under the bed, and found that everything was still there, and he felt an indescribable feeling in his heart. In the next two days, I went to a few small job fairs. I remember that on the third day, the school announced that I could stay. I immediately carried my luggage and went back to the dormitory. After cleaning the dormitory and taking a hot shower, a phone call came over. It was the company I voted for the last time that day and asked me to take the written test. I said yes and yes several times. After hanging up the phone, I couldn't help laughing. Two days later, I went to the company for a written test. There were about 20 people that day, and the meeting room was full. Two sets of papers were distributed at intervals. It’s just some brain teasers, and at the end is a comprehensive question, which accounts for a lot of points. Except for some basic questions and logic questions, I am not sure about most of the questions. After more than an hour, I handed in the paper and left. On the way back, I felt that It should be out of play, ready for the next one. As a result, one night, the company's manpower called to inform me that I would go for an interview in two days. It was a bit unexpected, but I was very happy. I went to the interview that day, and I was the first one to arrive early, and then I was called in by the first one. Three project managers and one manpower asked me some questions respectively. I was surprisingly relaxed that day. Very sincere and polite, we chatted for about half an hour, and then waited for the notification. This time I'm not as happy as the last two times False, I think the performance is still pretty good. When I got back, I stared at my phone every now and then, thinking why I hadn’t called yet. I waited until evening, and finally called. Sure enough, the company notified me that I was hired. Let me know now, and I will tell you by email in two days. What do I need to prepare for? Although I am somewhat prepared, I still can’t help being happy. Although I didn’t study this major, I still found the job I want to do. I thought that the next thing I would do is to work hard. prove yourself. After joining the company, because the company is in the urban area and people live in the school, I have to get up at 6 o'clock every day, take two buses to the company, and then often work overtime at night, and I usually arrive at the school after ten o'clock. Those days are so beautiful now. up. I didn’t know how good the school was until I came to society. Until now, I would go back to school when I have time on weekends, seeing everything is so good, so young and energetic. In June, the graduation season came, and the students returned to school from all over the world. Everyone seemed to be friendly and united. Maybe it was because people wanted to leave a good impression when they left. I won’t say much about the various trivialities of graduation. During this period, I encountered a bottleneck at work. In just a few months, out of the ten people who came in together, six of them left. I thought a lot about it and decided to leave ( I actually regret it now, because I went out and jumped to a few companies, and found that the original first love is the best). I just graduated and left the first company I worked for. In fact, I started a good company. The project manager tried to persuade me to stay, but it still failed to make me not follow the trend and hold on. I still want to see more. In the following week, I spent five days interviewing five companies and received two offers, so I chose the one that was close to where I lived. It was only five minutes away from my room and I could see the company. , For more than a month, I was able to come back to take a nap at noon every day. Working in that company was very easy. Every morning, I waited for lunch, and in the afternoon, I looked at my watch and waited for the time to leave at six o’clock. I began to think that this period of time might be the adjustment period of the project, but it was still the same after a month passed. I I didn't feel any progress at all. I was like a civil servant every day. This is not the life I want. I am a person who doesn't know what to do when I am free. I was going crazy for a month, so I decided to leave again. Updated After looking at the resume, three or four companies call to ask for an interview every day. Many of them are unreliable or the local office of a certain company. It is best to choose one for the interview, because that company is quite close to this company. I went there for the interview at about 11:00, which saved me the trouble of asking for leave. The interviewer was the vice president of the company, mainly with me. speak What I want to know is what can I learn from the company, but he didn’t get to the point, he talked to me for a long time, and finally asked me how confident I was in coming to the company, I said The 6th floor, he said what the remaining 4th floor is, he blabla explained to me for a long time, I kept nodding, he just said that's good, don't think about it, I will ask the manpower to send you an offer now , you come to work as soon as possible, I delayed for a few days with an excuse, in order to see if there is a better one, I interviewed a few more companies in the next few days, and they all went well, but there is a problem that I still can’t understand the company’s true identity. What can be learned, and what to actually do in it. In the end, I chose the one closest to my home based on factors such as the network, location, and working environment. That is, this company has been around for more than a month now. At 11 or 12 o'clock, I still work overtime on weekends. The company's five developers have to do four new projects, maintain six old projects, and four technical support staff have to go to more than a dozen cooperative units. One project management team has to manage The whole company, I think this company is trying to get the most benefits with the least amount of money, but everyone has to spend more time, some people enjoy it, some people complain a lot, anyway, I am enjoying my life now. I am 23 years old, I am constantly looking for what I want, and I am constantly moving forward for the vague goal in my heart. My growth is too slow, I am not working hard enough, I am not mature enough, and I am not independent enough, but this is who I am At the age of 23, the mentality of a young man who is eager to make progress is "how far is the road to the future. Although youth is short, the story is not over, it is not over..." Come on, 23-year-old young man, live well for the remaining few moon. . . 23-year-old young man, live the remaining months well. . . 23-year-old young man, live the remaining months well. . . 23-year-old young man, live the remaining months well. . . 23-year-old young man, live the remaining months well. . .


 


 


王大伟，一个喜欢骑行的程序员


看了很多答案，很是感慨： 
23岁，和一个朋友来到北京，懂点计算机，漫无目的的走在北京街头。 
开始投简历，开始投一些作图、网站的工作，结果全都无功而返。 
带去的钱快花完了，开始投各种建立，有货运、群众演员等等。全都无功。 
一起来的兄弟，要回家了，自己也很茫然，结果幸运找到一份工作，苦比得程序员，但对当时的我来说是救命的啊。一个月800，我也干了。 
在辛庄，找了一个民房，150一个月，屋子低矮、潮湿，刚上上班2月，就把女朋友骗过来了（跟她说这边工作好找，住的环境好）。 
即使现在回想起来，那时候的日子虽然辛苦但很甜蜜。 
现在回头来看，我也很感谢23岁，感谢23岁那年发生的各种事情，让我走向了另一个生活，也让我看到了女朋友的珍贵。 
过去5年了，现在过得还好，至少做着自己喜欢的工作，女朋友也升级为老婆了。苦日子过去了，但生活还得继续，还要继续奋斗，我相信自己还能过得更好，让老婆过上好日子。 
给自己加油，也给所有看问题回答问题的兄弟们加油。


 


邱文杰
我今年23岁。刚上研一。刚结束了两年零四天的感情。跟项目什么都不懂从零学起。依然懒惰喜欢玩乐。开始健身。开始学习Qt,AndroidApp开发,图像处理,开始乐观看待身边事物,尝试锻炼自己的毅力.从生活的每个细节.不求回报地对待他人.未来很模糊.事业的感情的.但既然重新开始了.我会一步一步地慢慢勾勒属于自己的未来.


 


满统，无知者。
I am 21 this year, and I am doing an internship in my senior year. In the third year of high school, I was basically abandoned due to physical and family reasons, and then I went to a third-rate unknown university in a remote city in the southwest. A well-behaved freshman, because of his interest, he participated in activities such as student associations in many clubs, and actively participated in the inexplicable courses offered by his major; in his sophomore year, he lost interest, gave up most of it, and led a campus magazine. Then I accidentally discovered that listening to the teacher's lectures is not as efficient as reading the books by myself; the junior was completely desperate for the school, gave up most of the courses, and founded an independent newspaper independently, and fell in love next semester, decadent for a long time; The school supports and faces the danger of being banned at any time. And found Zhihu, paying attention and learning. At present, I have failed most of my junior and senior subjects, and I am skipping classes for practice, studying, and thinking. Hopefully at 24 I come back and look back at my 23.


 


Bai Jing, product operation has been in the Internet industry for six years, what have you done?
23 years old, what am I doing? After graduating from university and going to a strange place, it can be regarded as an escape. I don't want to stay in my hometown, maybe I want to rely on my own hard work to make money. 
I came to Shanghai at the age of 23 and applied for a job in a media company. I went to work during the day and worked part-time at an educational institution at night. Fortunately, my income supported me. 
That year was a bit of a hardship. I went to work at 8:00 every morning, left work at 5:00, and picked up the children at 4:00 in the afternoon. Fortunately, I didn’t have to sit at work, and I took tutoring until 11:00 in the evening, and then rested. Continue the next day. The most troublesome thing was Sunday. Weekends are supposed to be the time for rest, but it happened to be the busiest time for tutoring, so I didn't have much rest that year. Later, the company adjusted its business and started to do the Internet, and couldn't run away, so I had to quit my part-time job and start doing the Internet full-time. 
I had no savings that year, and was cheated out of 400 yuan when I was looking for a job. That's food money. Later, I was almost poor and white, but fortunately, I found a job quickly. I bought a lesson for 400 yuan, and I haven't been fooled since then. 
Love, I didn't dare to expect extravagance, that thing had almost no meaning to me at that time. Because I understand the reality of this world too well. If other places are not bad, then Shanghai is the top priority. 
I am 30 years old this year, looking back at the past 7 years, it seems that it is also a history of hardships. But there are joys and sorrows, the past is the past, and the turning point should happen when I find my wife. Two people struggle together, life cannot be said to be very comfortable, but at least it is developing in a good direction. 
I bought a house, and my wife is pregnant, so my life is pretty comfortable. 
In short, it is still the same sentence, bitter before sweet, and you have to persist. In fact, it's not bad to be able to stick to the end. Whether it's work or life, a group of people I know who went to Shanghai are doing well now. Work hard. Nothing today, but absolutely nothing tomorrow. It is not necessary to have lofty ideals, but you must remember that tomorrow will be better than today, and today must be better than yesterday. Make progress a little bit.


 


Wang Wenyuan, a free man
In fact, I think 23 years old is just the beginning, there are too many things that are lacking, and it is not even a matter of having anything. More should be to accumulate and sharpen. 


Maybe I read a lot of books on history, and I often come across many stories similar to "Enlightenment in the Dragon Field", and then I naturally feel that pain and confusion are necessary for success. The premise is that you must face it bravely and learn from the pain. 


For my own 23 years old, I don't ask much, because this is just the accumulation stage: 
if I do a successful thing, I will be happy for a while, and then say to myself: This is just a stage victory 
. For a failure, I will let it go for a while, and then say to myself: This is just a staged failure. 


The most important thing is that no matter what state I am in, I hope I can think clearly about why I won and why I failed


 


Sun Yan, Enthusiastic about life, expect to go to more places to feel it?
23 years old, now, in the third year of a master's degree at a well-known music conservatory in China, graduating next year, and preparing for a doctorate at the Shanghai Conservatory of Music.


Postgraduate studies have made me firm in my goal of being a scholar in the future. I am grateful that I have met a particularly responsible supervisor. She is a person who regards academics as her life. Her academic character and academic achievements have led her to embark on this path , I finally realized why her happiness is so high? Because academics make her spiritual life high-quality.


I am simple and kind-hearted. I am not good at and do not like the ways of the world. I like to simply engage in academics and simply enjoy the fun of academics. This kind of happiness cannot be measured by money.


I deeply feel that everyone is growing every moment, and everything that happens has its value. Good things motivate people, and bad things temper people. This year, my heart is stronger than ever, and I will go forward bravely and work hard for my dreams.


 


 


Lisa, I know a little bit about translation.
It seems that everyone at the age of 23 is in the same state. Life is just getting started. I still have dreams, and I am willing to toss.


Currently 21 years old, graduate student. If it goes well, I will graduate at the age of 22. If you can't read a PhD at the age of 23, you will be working.


Tell me about my first half of 2011.


The postgraduate entrance examination failed in a mess in January. During that time, it was terribly cold, and it was dark even thinking about it.


I started looking for a job in February because it is not 211, so many times I can't even pass the resume screening.


Walking around various recruitment sites every day, stepping on high heels, feeling cold and tired.


In March, I felt that I was still young so I still wanted to continue studying.


But because of poor undergraduate background and poor family economic conditions, there is little room for choice.


I applied to several universities in HK, but nothing but polite rejections.


When I went to interview cityU in April, there were five people in total, and I was the only one on the waiting list.


When I returned to school in May, I found that I hadn’t passed the special eight.


During that time, I couldn't call my parents.


I was very afraid to hear them ask me how I was doing, and I couldn't help crying until I couldn't speak.


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Later, there was a company willing to take me in, even though the salary was only 800 piece.


But I am still very happy, starting from the lowest level of a small clerk, doing my own things with trepidation every day.


I feel lucky that the relationship between colleagues is very good.


Then finally cuhk sent me an offer, and then I worked until August, resigned, and came to study for a master's degree.


 


I don't know what will happen to me at the age of 23, but I believe that all your efforts will be rewarded.


It's just that you don't know when and how.


If you just blame others and don't work hard, you deserve it.


 


Qiu Ru, Ru Ying Sui Xin
When I was 23 years old, I got married when I was 24 and gave birth to my youngest daughter. When I was 24 and a half years old, I joined the Internet entrepreneurial army again. Now I am 27 years old and have achieved little success~~~ I want to tell young friends to cherish every moment of life There is still a period of time when you are still young, you still have to play more and watch more. Don’t rush to get married. Of course, if you have an opportunity, it’s not easy to miss. Some things can’t be delayed. It’s not easy to figure out what you want most, but you can stand at attention and explore slowly. good luck!


 


Panpan Panpan, Master of Aeroengine
When I was 22 years old, I asked her to be my girlfriend, but she said she didn't want to fall in love. 
When I was 23 years old and I was admitted to graduate school, she came to me and asked me to be her boyfriend, and I agreed. 
So began a two-and-a-half year long-distance relationship. 
In this way, I am crazy about her, obsessed with her, and do not regret my choice. 
At the age of 25, when she was looking for a job, just the day before she signed a contract in Beijing, she resolutely went to Shanghai regardless of me, and I stayed in Beijing alone. 
At the age of 23 or 24, I felt that she was my everything, and my future revolved around her. 
But, 
at the age of 25, I want to fight for my own dream!


 


Xie Xiaojiong, a helpless spectator
of 89, is just 23 years old this year. Graduated in senior year. After thinking about the past year carefully, it is not an exaggeration to use the word "entangled" to describe it. On the eve of graduation, think about your future plans and what kind of person you are. Like some of the LS predecessors. 
At the beginning of this year, I was still busy applying to schools in the United States, but TOEFL has become a shortcoming in the application, so I don't have much hope for getting into a prestigious school. Although I worked really hard in my junior year, the time and energy I put in was still worthy of my ideals. 
Under such circumstances, seeing all the students in the class get various offers, I couldn't sit still anymore, and went outside to submit various resumes. And Laodou said that a few more roads would do him no harm. I even took the train back to school during the winter vacation this year, and participated in an interview with a dishonest public institution. 
Later, I got offers from some companies, and I struggled a lot when making choices. I didn’t know whether I wanted to be relaxed and stable, or to strive for growth, or even to devote myself to entrepreneurship in the future. I also wondered whether to continue working in the IT industry because there was an opportunity to switch to the financial industry, and the financial industry was booming at that time. 
SO, among many opportunities, I finally chose the current company, but now that I think about it, I don't have a good reason for me to choose here. I don't know what caused me to be so entangled, until one time when I was chatting with a high school classmate, he told me that the most important thing to study in college is to know yourself, he regrets not doing more in college try. Instead, I exchanged my time for a lot of scholarships. 
再后来，有一天清晨，我惊喜得收到邮件，有一个学校给了我一份ADMISSION，在此之前我已经足够纠结得做了决定，可是在一直追求的梦想就要实现的时候，我发现我找不到赴美读书的理由，当然前提是这需要付昂贵的美金作为代价。我就在想，妈的我一年的努力，他妈的就为了这一封邮件·······························，悲剧啊，我发现我的人生很多时候就是在跟自己较劲，好像是别人能做的事情，我也要努力证明我也可以。结果，偏离了自己的目标，或许自己从来也就没有目标 
后来，我在毕业前做了几次自己的毕业旅行，想好好静下来想一想，自己想要什么。不过我发现这个没什么效果，因为，在旅行中我考虑过，是不是放弃所有的机会，去参加西部支教去，或者干脆神马都不做，给自己一个间隔年。结果当我回来之后都是浮云。 
再后来，我看了开复老师的自传《世界因你而改变》？貌似是这个名字，我觉得我缺少的不仅仅是认识自己，还缺少放弃一些东西的勇气。。。。。。求安慰 
现在，我什么都不想了，踏实努力工作至少5年，然后再考虑其他事情


 


Cathy，有志者事竟成！
虚岁二十三，研二，在老师的课题与就业准备之间寻求平衡点。已经初步定了以后的求职目标，通过各种渠道找到了一些业界知名人士的博客，搜集了从业必读的书籍，学习各种所需软件，每天安排好时间，至于结果相信一切的努力不会白费，即使达不到最初设定的目标，努力了就不后悔。


 


匿名用户
那年我大学毕业去一个保送的学校上研究生。在那年11月认识了一个大我两岁的女孩，后来我们谈了两年的恋爱，到毕业的时候因为工作没在一起分开了。 
分开后很痛苦，那段时间看透一切找回原来的自己。最后辞掉很好的工作，创业去了。 
经历过那段时间之后，我才知道聆听自己内心的声音。 
也就是23岁读研究生那一年，发现自己到大学毕业没有为自己的兴趣学过。 
上豆瓣的过程中，慢慢喜欢上看历史，开始疯狂买书看历史。 
一边做着不着边际的项目，一边谈着恋爱，这就是我23岁的生活。


 


匿名用户
我还没到23岁呢，但是一定程度上可以预见的是我应该会出国，美国大学但不是名校决定继续往下念往名校考。我比谁都清除我自己的缺点在哪，不够努力不能安静的坐下来认真的看自己目前主要的学科。大体来说23岁之前我在事业或者说学业上是个失败者，顶着自认为聪明的光环，做着自己也知道的傻事。21岁的今天唯一的梦想是能够静下心来认真的做好本职工作，或者说玩命的做好自己该做的事


 


杜方明，无聊的人啊
不知道23岁的自己在做什么，今年21岁，在校学习，有一家公司，月薪快6位数，天天累的要死，一切都是自己打拼的，家里初期给了一些帮助，不过不是作用很大，创业期间，哭过，自己偷偷的哭，很累很苦，但是坚持下来了，人生要有梦想，要坚持，成功就在前方。


 


王利平，医生，妇产科住院医师，研究生女。
23岁，在考研，原因很简单，不想工作，想逃避社会，逃避责任。自己埋在校园中逃避现实。23岁，很傻很天真，会相信你那个他的所有话，会付出百分之二百的真心，那时候智商为零。23岁，总觉得自己还年轻，没做好准备进入社会，没做好准备承担。终有一天，该长大的长大了，该承担的永远都在那里，让自己成熟，让自己坚强。现在再也不会逃避，面对一切接受该承担的责任。如今再也不会傻傻的完全相信他的话，也不会用尽全力去爱他了，明白了没有无缘无故的爱与恨，明白了只有父母会永远陪着你，那个他也许已经不是当年的他。开始现实开始理智，开始学会生存与生活！


 


Deng Chunyu, who loves technology, economy, finance and other information
 


, entered a public institution arranged by his family at the age of 23, and lost a lot of fighting spirit. 
At present, I jumped out to find hardship in Guangzhou, and finally found a job in the industry I like. I hope that there are different things besides money to make myself more miserable.


 


Huang Zhijian, a programmer,
is 23 years old. I just graduated from graduate school, and I don't want to continue my studies. 
In February 2005, I found a professional job and joined a software company in Shanghai as a programmer. At that time, I didn't think about the future, I just felt that I was a new human being, starting from scratch, and doing the current things well. 
In 2006, I was promoted to project manager (because everyone else in the same group quit, and I was the only "old man"). 
In 2007, the company set up a branch in Xi'an. Another opportunity was to transfer to the headquarters in the United States. In the end, I decided to go to Xi'an because "I want to personally participate in the process of creating a new company from scratch." Go to the United States in the first half to a year. 
In October 2007, I went to Xi'an alone with a suitcase. After working for half a year, I found that the company's top management had changed, and there was little hope of going to the United States; and the project team that was in charge of Shanghai also moved to Xi'an, and it would be nothing more than another company to continue working when I went back. 
In October 2008, it was another opportunity, because I was an "old man" in Shanghai (other people who went to Xi'an have gone back), so I stayed and became the manager of the software development department. Now that you have done it, try to do it well. As a result, I have experienced the transition from technology/project management to department management roles, with a lot of experience and gains, but of course a little more bitterness. 
Also in 2008, in Xi'an, I met her and fell in love. 
In 2009, I was planning to go back to Shanghai and find a new starting point in another company, but it seemed that there was another opportunity in the United States. 
In the second half of 2010, after getting married, the two went to Los Angeles together. 
Now there are still two people. In the United States, they work as small employees and do not manage, but they find that it is not easier to manage one's own people (including myself) than to manage other people. 
The above is the running account: 7 years, one job, one company, N positions. 
If we talk about experience, I am afraid that for people like me who have no ambitions, it can only be: do the current thing well, and then choose calmly when the opportunity comes. The criterion for judging whether it is good or bad is that as long as you don't regret your original choice in the future.


 


Xu Wangjun, the suitor
Now it is too early to say 23, and it feels like it hasn't been too long. Let me just say that I am 23 years old. In the second year after graduating from university, I joined a state-owned enterprise for more than half a year. The work is related to military industry and ships, but I know that I have never gotten started. Looking at the code all day makes me dizzy. I don’t like this. But I don't know what I like. I remember that when I first joined this company, there were only two people in an office I stayed in. I hid at the end and could sleep for two hours in the afternoon. During the period, I warned myself many times to work hard and work hard, but every time I saw those codes, it gave me a headache. 


I joined the company in August when I was 22 years old. On the National Day in October, on the lawn of the university, a classmate suggested that I could take an exam. So, in November, I borrowed a book about the judicial examination from a friend, read it, and prepared to take the judicial examination. That year, I still tried to contact my first love high school classmate, but failed. One day I suddenly realized that N years of unrequited love was finally over. Although this post is not about love, I still want to say that sometimes, when you fall in love with someone, you are only in love with the love you imagined. 


After the Chinese New Year, I began to prepare for the exam in a formal and planned way. I bought a set of Sunflower Book. Every day after I got off work and had dinner (I was still cooking), I went to the Maritime University next door to read, and then went back to the dormitory to sleep. In this way, when May Day came, I went to work on the first day after the holiday, and sitting in front of the computer, I suddenly thought, why not resign. At that time, this idea made me very excited. But because I didn't want my family to worry, I had to keep it a secret from them. So, after figuring out where I could live and how long my savings would last, I handed in my resignation letter that day. This is the happiest decision I've made so far. 


I packed my books and entrusted them to a classmate's house in Shanghai, then went to Nanjing, rented a farmer's house on the second floor in Jiangxinzhou, Nanjing, and asked my friends in Shanghai to send the exam books and computers there. Jiangxinzhou is a small island in the middle of the river near Nanjing. You need to take a ferry to go to the city. I went to that place when I was in college. I like it very much. It is quiet and the rent is cheap. There are many NUFA students living there. From May until mid-September, I stayed in that two-story room to study, blog, and cook. No one bothers you, just entertain yourself. I cross the river once a week to go to the supermarket to buy some food, and call my family every week to tell my work situation. Those months were the most peaceful time for me. But the night before the exam, I still suffered from insomnia. I tried a lot to get myself to sleep, but it still didn't work. I dozed off when I took the criminal law exam the next day. 


After the exam, I went back to my hometown for a few days, but I still didn't tell my family that I had resigned. At this time, I hadn't decided what to do in the future, so I submitted my resume online, hoping to find a job before the test results came out. After a round of email written test and telephone interview, I did not expect to receive an offer from Sony Ericsson, at least I think they are Sony Ericsson. They said that there is a training base in Meixian, Guangdong, and they asked me to train there first. I have never been to the south, and that offer made me very excited. I imagined that I could go to the south and wander for a few years. So I went back to Nanjing immediately, vacated the house, left my luggage with a friend, dragged a suitcase, bought a sleeper ticket and went to Guangdong. 


However, after staying in Guangdong for three days, I returned to Shanghai. In the county town of Meixian where everyone speaks Cantonese, two people around my age came to pick me up, always going around me, but not taking me back to the training base. Later, they said they had to leave first, and asked me to find it myself. When I called the person in charge of the reception, no one answered the phone, and I couldn't find the address, which didn't exist. I knew I was cheated. The so-called Sony Ericsson training base was probably a pyramid scheme. Seeing that I was not easy to be fooled, I was left alone. The first time I went to the police station to report a crime, the police expressed sympathy for me and expressed surprise at my claim that I had studied law. It was because I was running out of money, and I was faced with three choices: go to the nearest Shenzhen, go to Nanjing, and go back to Shanghai. I chose to go back to Shanghai and stay at the home of a classmate who was still taking the postgraduate entrance examination. When I resigned and left Shanghai, I thought I would never come back. 


Because the grades have not yet come out, I am still not sure about my future direction, so I randomly submitted resumes and interviewed for a headhunting position. In November, the judicial examination results came out, and I passed. I am very excited. This exam is no different from my second college entrance exam. I know that the half-year "travel" has paid off. 


Later, I started an internship in an ordinary law firm in Shanghai. I have been practicing for more than three years now, and I am already a young and old lawyer. I'm not like other lawyers who wanted to be a lawyer since I was a child. I stumbled into it by myself. I am a person with an idealistic complex. The legal industry is the same as other industries in China. There are too many grays and many beautiful futures. Someone once told me that I am not suitable to be a lawyer, but there is no way out in life. I also Do not believe his words. Although I do not have a professional legal background, I used to study science and engineering in university, but I still work hard and hope to position myself as an intellectual property lawyer in the future. Now, I'm married and bought a one-bedroom house in the suburbs. What worries me the most is not the exam, nor the melancholy that no one can understand, but the constant pressure of reality and the achievements I can make in my career. achievement. 23 years old has not passed so far, and I dare not talk about being young anymore, but maybe, there is still a long way to go before me.


 


Zhang Yaqian, loves to eat, play and travel, and I want to go to Africa next stop: )
I am 23 years old now, and before entering 23, I ended my love for more than 3 years and started my postgraduate life. Postgraduate courses are very heavy. I was in a slump in the last school year, and then I was sober. Now reposition myself, do an internship in the company I like in the industry I like, and work as a PM for mobile applications. Life is one 7-day after another 7-day. As long as you work hard and persevere, there will always be gains.


 


An anonymous user
in 1989, who cares but doesn't care if he is in his twenties. 
After graduating from a junior college for 10 years, I worked in sales, cold call, and I did it for more than a year, and it was a mess. 
After resting for a few months, I found another cold call and worked for more than two months, which was a mess. 
Well, I might not be in sales at all. 
Currently unemployed. It seems a little difficult to find a non-sales job. Nothing! 


也算是小有理想的年轻人，平日里爱学习爱读书，本打算先赚钱再出国留学。 
怎么赚钱？小小的归类了一下：1.知名企业职场打拼2.做top sales3.创业4.其他 
两年职业生涯基本上断了1、2这两条路，3目前来看也不可行。 
反思自己到底要什么？ 
要钱，但不单单是钱，拿了钱还是先去读书。 
读书为了什么？ 
思考能力、做事能力。读了书，归根结底还是要出来做事的。 
so,准备读国内的研。然后，或者就业或者公务员或者出国。 


23岁这一年，“幽默地困难”着。哈哈。


 


Jeremy Chan，Angel investor, startup, reading, tr?
已經創業兩年，花盡心思想把企業做大做強，想為員工創造美好的工作環境，為自己的夢想奮鬥??? 
幾年后發現企業已不需要自己???在重找人生的方向的悠長假期中???發現祖國是心中最渴望的歸宿??過了911不久一家人都回國至今


 


王静文，HR中的浅薄者
22 准备辞职 原因是拖欠工资 辞职未遂 原因是我妈太唠叨 10月贷款买房 鸭梨很大 但 值得


 


bredawn，恕心养到极处，世间都无罪过
今年23岁... 
公司创立两年了，一同行在今年获得A轮，差距拉开，对未来悬悬的... 
另一半还未出现，耗着呗... 
理想是： 在40岁的时候可以环游


 


杨晓颖Sherry，产品@张小盒 你也许认为我疯狂，就像我?
I just turned 21 (legally) the day before yesterday. I have been working for almost three years, and I have jumped three times. Every time, I have a new understanding of life. It is 
different from my fledgling self. I learned how to quickly switch roles and how to work efficiently  Every step I took
from a restaurant girl to the Internet company’s planning 
was not within my plan 
, but every step seemed to be expected. 
Looking back on myself five and a half years ago, 
I regretted my early love 
and regretted it because my love ruined it. My own future 
, but many years later, I 
am a little fortunate 
that I have many different 
life experiences and experiences from people who have studied well, 
even if it is hard work. 


Now I am starting a business with a group of partners 
. Start a business successfully and live the life I want 
. My 23-year-old hope is to study abroad. 
Maybe I am a film special effects producer. 
Maybe I will continue to live in the Internet world 
and gain more social 
recognition. Meet more friends and get more benefits At the age 


of 23, I hope to have someone who I love and who loves me by my side.


 


Yang Yang,
23 years old, I think, he should have just graduated, poor and white. Finding a job was neither smooth nor difficult. It was a coincidence that I came to a listed company. I worked in that company for 3 months, and then successfully switched to a Fortune 500 company. I have worked so far. 
I just graduated, and my heart is high, but I don't know anything. As soon as I learned how to trade stocks, I read a lot of books on stock trading, so I borrowed 100,000 quick money from my family to trade stocks. The result can be imagined, earning first and then losing money, until the loss is almost gone. 
It was really low back then, and I took a lot of big mouths. I haven't dared to tell my family, but no matter what, I've survived. 
Later, in my spare time, I did a lot of miscellaneous things, set up street stalls, sold bags, and even collected garbage for a period of time. I didn’t make much money doing this kind of small business, but because I wanted to I opened a children's product store and looked for a storefront. The store failed to open, but I resold the storefront once and made tens of thousands of dollars. Later, I raised some money to buy a house. When I first bought it, I was under a lot of pressure. At that time, there were not many good ones, but the value of the house has appreciated a lot, and the rent has paid off the mortgage. There is still a small surplus. Later, I pooled my money and bought another set, and now I live in it, which is fine. 
In terms of work, except for changing jobs once that year, now I am working here, and the progress has not been much, and I am very distressed. Recently, I am thinking about what to do. 


Recently, I have been thinking about an LBS project and want to do it, but there are many problems and it is difficult to find the early technology. I want to use training outsourcing to build a shelf, and then start the project. 


Interested technical experts on Zhihu can chat with me, and I look forward to your advice.


 


Guo Cheyan, iamcheyan.com, front-end engineer, but subconsciously? I am
22 years old this year. I was admitted to university when I was 19. After a few months of school, I quarreled with the teacher and dropped out. 
Then I spent half a year in a hurry. Because I had no direction for the future, I felt that I should find something to do, so I left home and worked in a small start-up company for a whole year. There were only 5 people in the company. A CEO, a CTO, a personnel, a part-time programmer, plus me, do design and development. Later, the company became more and more successful, from Guomao to Yanjiao, but because the company has few employees, the relationship with the boss is like a buddy, and I have been embarrassed to resign. Apologizing, he said he understood me well and gave me some useful advice. 
I worked in the new company for half a year, because I was not familiar with social security and provident fund expenses, so I jumped out of the job in a daze. I have been working until now. The salary is low in the industry. Anyway, it is enough, basically moonlight. 
8月的时候过了22岁的生日，感觉现在处于一个踏上了路程的状态，两年半以前的自己根本就不知道什么是未来和梦想，曾经真的想过一件事情，想说二十好几的自己会不会一事无成，会不会毫无建树，甚至说啃老啃到三十岁或者成为一个乞丐（我曾经真的这样想过）等等等等，现在虽然自己还是没什么积蓄，但是对以后还是比较充满信心的。 
看了上面朋友的答案，让我有更多感慨。 
我真的坚信未来会越来越好。 
PS:@滇狐 请问您是那个写了很多VIM资料的那个滇狐么，曾经一度是我心目里的神级人物……


 


jerommix，关注智能终端
程序员. 
2010年7月毕业. 
2011年10月分手. 
在父母身边, 父母年纪已大. 
目前最想做的是做个孝顺的儿子.


 


吴鹏松，bitbao.com
23岁那一年，离开毕业后工作了3年的工厂，开始北漂生活，从工程师转项目管理，担任某移动网建设工程的副总指挥。项目公司组建、招兵买马、设备商谈判，挖地沟埋光缆、通微波架基站、盖机房开交换、营业厅服务点。 
那时很累，每天只吃一顿饭、起得早睡得晚。 
认识了第一个女友（现在的媳妇）。 
两年后工程一期完工，回京。 
三年后创业。结婚。 
六年后打工。生子。 
四年后，创业中。。。 


做自己喜欢做的。 
跟自己喜欢的人在一起。 
工作很重要。 
家庭更重要。

Du Le, development engineer, code farmer,
23 years old, 2006, it seems that I just entered the second year of graduate school, and I had to earn my own living expenses at that time. I remember that I only had more than 400 yuan in my hand. I got up at 6 o'clock every day and took a car to Xizhimen for a part-time job, and came back at 8 o'clock in the evening. 
I earned money for myself and bought my first mobile phone. The first income was 800 yuan, which feels like a huge sum of money~~


 


Zhao Liang, the front-end siege engineer is
23 years old now, working in a foreign company in Shanghai before April, resigned in April, and started a business in Beijing with his classmates. A small iphone software recommended application. I have no money, no girlfriend, and I can save 1,000 yuan a month in rent by living with my high school classmates. My life is busy and fulfilling. I watch one or two performances I like every month. There are too many places to travel for a few days, there are many things to do at the age of 23.


 


Li Xiang, tant pis,
the day I turned 23 happened to be 2012 as prophesied... so I wish this world a good one.


 


Wali, a management consulting intern. I want to be a new energy analyst (cl?
23 years old, this year. I put aside my studies abroad in the summer, and returned to China to start a business, but I gave up halfway. , anxiety, despair, fear. I also realize that I am not as relentless and strategizing as I thought before. It is like a woman you have been chasing for a long time finally agrees to marry you, but on the day of the bridal chamber you find that you can do nothing. Now in


humble I’m working as an intern, and then I think: I’ve broken my dream, what I’m suitable for now, and how should I position my life. Recently, I’ve become more and more aware that life is hypertextual, even anti-textual, too much Emphasizing positioning and planning is stupid. What God entrusts me to do, I just do it well. In the process of doing it, there will naturally be opportunities and accumulation. Don’t think about whether this is what you should do, how do you know? Is this what you should do.


 


Absolutely deer, e-commerce products
don’t complain about the past, just make a good future. 
I want to find a master in the Internet field, and I want to find a good job and a good platform. 
I am walking hard, I don't want how difficult it is now. Just don't give up.


 


Dudu, I always think more than I say [post-90s lady] 9436 Me?
Post-90s, 21 years old, my 23 years old is still unknown. The interviewer glanced at my resume today and said, "The post-90s generation is so young." I suddenly felt in a trance. I was at the age when I was so young that I could pinch water, but it seemed that I had fucked me. Endless thoughts, looking for a job, finding a boyfriend, getting married, a house, a car... It seems that I have to plan my whole life until every detail is in order before I can rest assured, but the reality is too much instability and always threatens me. sense of security. My friend said that my body has long nails and my heart has long hair. My hair seems to have not increased in length for a year. After watching many people in LS at the age of 23, I realized that life is not easy when you are young. So try to persuade yourself to be normal. Youth is youth no matter how bloody it is.


 


Gao Fan
was supposed to graduate that year,


but he didn’t get a degree certificate.


After wasting time,


he went to work in a half-business, half-enterprise unit. He learned


a lot.


After getting the certificate, he resigned and took the postgraduate entrance examination. Back then,


he felt that a master’s degree was a necessary condition for future development.


Now he doesn’t take it seriously anymore.


 


Looking for Ada, product freshmen
I am 23 years old and a fresh graduate. Love is relatively stable, and you are doing what you like. But resigning from Qunar in July was my biggest mistake. Later, I joined a small start-up company that was not reliable at all. After two months, I got out; now I am in another start-up company, and the product is only me and the boss. Personally, I am a product assistant. Unfortunately, the boss has no time to discuss with me, so basically he dictates the requirements, and I will refine them. I understand that my product ability cannot be improved here, but since there is no better choice, then I also have a chance to experience failure, and such opportunities are relatively rare. Sometimes I think that if I become very mediocre, I feel terrified, and I can't accept that. A product manager should be a person with a dream, and I am a person with a dream.


 


Huang Yuanxin, social network follower, playing digital, playing street sweeping
I was born at the beginning of the year, and I will be 24 years old after this Singles' Day. 23 This year is also a college student in the first half of the year, and a professional in the second half of the year. Under the hard work of his parents, coupled with his own unsteady will, he finally gave up his Internet career in his heart and went home to live a "easy life". But the more comfortable life is, the more painful it is in the heart. There is a feeling that I have been eaten up by a life without worrying about food and clothing, which is a sign of cowardice. Many people also say that I don't feel back pain when I stand up and talk, so I don't refute. What can I refute? 
In fact, my current job is not just serving tea and pouring water to get paid for nothing, and I will burn out when I am busy. It's just that the daily work makes me completely devoid of any passion. The enthusiasm of the 23-year-old was extinguished without burning. When I first joined the company, a sister told me that in the past, I always hoped that work could be combined with my hobbies, and I thought it was a perfect thing, but now I am much calmer, saying that work is for living, and if there is surplus, I can use it to be myself want to do. I know that's what a lot of people think, but it's not something that really great people think about. Every time after reading Gangzhu Qiao's speech, I can always start YYing my future like chicken blood, so I can only YY, and the road still needs to be taken step by step. 
Therefore, whenever I see those friends who are working hard and not crying, they are always filled with admiration and emotion. I sincerely hope that they can hold on and create their own world. If they fail one day, they can't go on. It doesn't matter. At least those who have struggled, can they fail more than me? 
很多23岁的迷人故事都在于那感情与事业的双重迷茫，完美的模型无外乎是女友再也等不了自己，挥泪说再见。颓废后而知奋进，多年后终于感情事业双丰收。不过这个血气方刚的年纪我让自己感情空着。谈过一场不知道算是成功还是失败的恋爱后我清楚这种事情对于自己有多奢侈。离开了学生时代，便不再是我喜欢你你喜欢我就牵着手上街的年纪了。好心的朋友再怎么样如何介绍女孩子，始终还是不愿意走出那一步。不是不想，是不敢。 
下一步还是想尽早计划在职研究生如何报考，不为学历，只为逃避工作。然后考虑时间充裕时学驾照，不为买车，只为多个工作能力。好好孝敬父母，好好挣钱，尽早能稳定下来。


 


李萌，电子信息科学与技术是我的专业
今年，我23岁. 
四年前，我选了一个最不喜欢的城市，挑了一个最不愿意学的专业去读大学。毕业后找了一份国企的工作，挣着饿不死人的工资， 
现在的这份工作无论从哪个方面都和我的理想背道而驰。我想去大城市，结果现在在中国最小的城市里，我想做文职类的工作，却偏偏干了一份纯技术体力工作——电工。 
我现在的人生十分的不精彩，总在想着各种能逃离这里的办法，我实在不想把我的大好青春耗费在这个要死不活的地方。但我找不到丝毫解决的办法，原因或许是我懦弱，我无法放下一切去寻找心之所许。不甘心做小人物，却不具备大人物的人格素养。 
我喜欢获取知识，喜欢读书，不喜欢嘈杂的麻将。但这里的生活很原始，麻将似乎是唯一的消遣，但我庆幸我不会。 
我打算考研，这是唯一的自我救赎之路。我只有通过这条道路去寻找自己的梦想，希望自己不再犹豫，不再彷徨，不再挣扎，做真实的自我。


 


靳丽娜，学海无涯，而知也无涯。
今年刚满22岁，大四，没考研，找了一份工作实习，还住学校里，原来每天上下班都要骑40分钟的自行车，现在每天起早贪黑的赶公交，从寝室或者单位出来从来都是一路小跑，因为下班晚所以担心赶不上最后一班公交车，上车之后就呼呼大睡，一个字：累。虽然工资不高，但是这是自己第一份工作，感觉累也值得。有一次晚上加班没有公交车，又不舍得花钱打出租，距离学校远，出租大概要30块钱，下着大雨，我就打着雨伞走了回去，走了一个多小时，回去之后脚疼的很，但心里也没啥感觉，总觉得年轻苦点累点应该，可能是年轻气盛，没有什么不可以的吧，现在还在继续这种生活。可能以后回想起我的这段生活会有所感触，但现在我觉得我的青春无怨无悔。


 


王司，无特点青年
 


我正好23岁，没感觉房价高，因为压根儿没想买房的事儿。我父母对我很好，不是溺爱，但是真爱。工作有时候会烦，有时候也会想领导其实对我还不错，经常想我要抓紧时间多学习，但实际常常做不到，我还想着环游世界，又担心老了会很惨。我好长时间没看网球比赛了，突然看一次，反而会感觉失落，好像我现在过的不是自己想要的生活，但好像这也是生活的一部分。我有时候想，时间再快一点多好，我很想看看自己24岁的时候是什么样。


总结，我是一个纠结的人，患得患失。


 


yangrongquan，coder，4399
现在23岁，大学刚毕业，辞掉了校招签的工作，一个人来gz，在一家还算不错的公司写游戏，目前学习游戏图形和物理引擎中，关注cg


谢凌君，游戏美术设计。画画的，不专业。18岁的?
我现在也23岁，职位是游戏原画，因为喜欢画画，虽然上的大学不怎么样，也不是艺术生，但是因为热爱绘画，所以蛮珍惜现在的生活和工作。 
大四实习时，去的北京，学校安排的住宿，虽然住的不怎么样，但是都是和同学一起，还是过的蛮有意思，玩得蛮开心。。。 （那时开始很愤清了）- - 
把实习和毕业搞定后，准备用一年时间去参加一个游戏美术的培训，结果杯具了，培训机构那边出了些问题（虽然现在还在办），于是就茫然了，陷入了是要找工作还是另找地方培训的纠结中，最后决定边工作称业余时间学学，于是又来到了北京。 
找到工作后，虽然不是很满意，但也能将就过，然后利用周末时间去学画画，和老师同学一起都很开心，但是工作上的事耽误了些学习的作业，唉，自己也挺懒的。。不能这样啊。 
然后还是觉得不习惯北京的生活就做动车回到四川去了成都，感觉自己运气挺好的，有上天眷顾，进了一家游戏公司的原画工作室，目前还在试用期，公司福利不错，大家都爱画画，团队气氛蛮好的，能学到很多东西！~~希望能长久地待下去画下去！现在已经转正了~~蛮开心的~~ 
路还很长，加油！大家一起！ 
（哦，现在谈毛恋爱啊！哪有时间和精力。。高中大学就该谈啊！呃，现在恋爱的话也蛮好，自己注意衡量轻重就好。。）


 


匿名用户
When I was 23 years old, I just graduated and lived in Shanghai. My first part-time job was telemarketing. That job was simply unbearable for ordinary people, and I had to face tremendous pressure every day. I have to read various declarations of determination aloud early in the morning, and then I have been on the phone all day long. Some customers scolded me, and some customers scolded me. In the end, I had to compare my grades with my colleagues, and being scolded by the foreman was inevitable. After working for a month, I felt that I was close to collapse, so I quit the job. For various reasons, the foreman gave me 500 yuan, which was deducted from going to work every day. I made a net profit of 250 for travel expenses. In addition to the only 1,500 yuan I had on hand before, these are the funds for my start in Shanghai. The first full-time job was introduced to me by a relative in Shanghai. I was a salesman of Zhongnuo Telephone Sales Agency Company. My daily job was to follow the car to deliver goods to various stores. The job content was simple and mechanical, but the working hours were too long. In many cases, you can have lunch at 3 pm and dinner at 10 pm, and there is no fixed off-duty time. Basically, working more than ten hours a day is commonplace. I have been working for three months, and I have been getting an internship salary of 1,500. After deducting the bus fare on the way to work and other work expenses, I made a net profit of 800 per month. At that time, I had to pay the rent, water and electricity grid fees. To borrow money, I think the most painful thing in life is to live with the creditor, go back to the dormitory after finishing the overloaded work every day, and look at the sad eyes of the creditor. During these three months, I was still sprained at work, and instead of going to the hospital, I took two plasters and put them on, and insisted on going to work. The internship period was just coming to an end, and I quit the job because of disagreements at work. I wanted to take a week off before looking for a job, but I took a three-month break as soon as I took a break. During the period, I borrowed 500 yuan from my creditor friend in the same dormitory. In addition to the pressure of borrowing 300 to 800 yuan from him before, I felt that this friendship was almost broken. I spend every day with resentful eyes and complaints. Although I am not worried about the future at all, 800 yuan is a huge sum of money for a fresh graduate, and the pressure of debt is great. So I started frantically throwing resumes and found a distribution company to do sales. Life began to improve gradually, the first month's salary was repaid first, and the friendship was maintained. Thank you for being 23 years old, for tempering me. Now it seems that everything before is a kind of accumulation, only time is the most precious, and I hope that 2012 will have better development.


 


Anna Zhang, product rookie, engineering background && science thinking?
I just passed my 24th birthday. Throughout 2011, I almost counted as 23 years old. I may remember this year for the rest of my life. 
去年本科毕业，听从父母的意愿，去了一个大型国有银行的软开，拿着还算可以的待遇，过着有些迷茫的生活，看得清三年后五年后甚至十年后自己会是什么发展什么境遇。体重也开始猛增。 
工作时间不能上网，有时候出去聚餐，看着其他人拿着酒杯跟领导豪饮，不能喝酒的我只能坐在那玩手机，感觉自己始终无法融入这种氛围，有些累，却不知道该怎么办。 
过年回家，父母看见体态臃肿的我，都奉劝我该减肥了。 
过完年归来，这时候要提及我认识多年的最好的朋友。他毕业后的第一份工作不是很顺利，在家待业了三个月，我过完年后和他联系，告诉他如果不强迫自己继续工作，那么将永远对工作充满恐惧。这时候他找到了一份深圳的工作，有些退却，不知道该不该去。我在人人写了篇为他祝福的日志，一时间我们的朋友们都知道了这件事，他骑虎难下，只好南下去了深圳，而我也从四月份开始了辛苦的减肥之旅。 
四月底，得知他深圳的那份工作也不尽人意，这时我说，要不你回来吧，于是给他内部推荐了一个公司的产品工作。五月份，他回到了北京，这对于他来说，也变成了一个美好的转折。经过前两次工作的失败之后，第三份工作，领导对他很好，工作内容也是他感兴趣的，他的产品之路开始迈向正轨。 
五月底，他问我，可否喜欢当时的工作，是否也想做出尝试和改变。于是，经过一个相互的作用力，我也鼓起勇气，成为同一批入职里最早提出离职的人，准备跳到跟他一家的公司。而我原先单位同一批入职的同事们，也在看见我勇敢迈出第一步后，陆陆续续有一些选择了自己喜欢的工作和生活。 
六月初，拿到了两个offer，一些公司看见我是从技术专产品，还是有些怀疑，不过我知道既然选择这条路，不迈出第一步，就永远没有办法成长。 
七月，从原先单位辞职，此时，我的体重，经过3个月的魔鬼训练，也就是每天的饮食控制和一个小时的锻炼，减去了30斤，我回到了过去自信的我，开始了新的生活。 
在这一年里，我和我的朋友一同经过了人生的转折，现在的生活是我所喜欢的，虽然忙碌，但是是我兴趣所在，也是他邀请我来到了知乎。但是因为是初入产品界的菜鸟，我一直在看大家的回答，自己从来没有回答过。 
这是我回的第一帖，也祝自己和他，在未来的产品道路上，都能顺利吧。


 


匿名用户
23岁生日当天拿到本科毕业证，看到台上红袍子校长把学生代表的帽穗移到另一边时，自己突然觉得特感慨，哭了。 
决定北上求职。 
最终花落一家四环开外的看起来很荒凉的国企的旅游部。可是再最后决定的一霎那还是退缩了，因为想象到未来的生活，觉得会和本心的自己越来越远。 
遂回家乡最好的旅游公司实习，同时仔细考虑自己想要的是什么。 
5天后带团，一个月后辞职，准备考研，目标是北大哲学。 
从来没有基础，开始一丁点也看不懂。 
10月底帮熟人的忙，带团去上海世博。途中听闻先前实习旅行社一个同事在带团中和司机两人车祸死去，唏嘘。 
很快到考研日期，抱着长见识的心态，啥都不会得上战场。 
考完第二天，开始很严重的发烧。 
偶遇发小，一拍即合，遂结成研友，每天泡图书馆，直到现在。 
之后边在KFC打工边做家教边准备考研，虽然住在家里，但是坚持不花父母的钱。 
2011后半年辞了KFC和家教，屈服，接受家里供养了。 
The 23-year-old experience is the most ordinary year, but psychologically it is a very happy year. 
From being flustered and confused to gradually confirming my sincerity, 
getting in touch with philosophy, from completely ignorant to knowing a little bit, 
for the postgraduate entrance examination, from family opposition to family support, 
without love, but with many sincerely supportive friendships, 
it is also so far in my life It has been a rare year of simplicity and freedom so far. 
There may not be such a leisurely and simple life in the future, and I cherish it now.


 


Bai Ershui, master of pathology,
23 years old, in the third year of university, I studied medicine, so for five years, I read medical books in a daze, and then I have been trying to realize the dream in my heart: writing poetry, writing other things, and finally You can be a part-time cultural celebrity, such as Yu Qiuyu. Of course nothing was achieved. Now it seems that when I most need to increase my experience in dealing with people, I am like a fool who has fallen into the cotton pile.


 


warm, looking for a job
上周日刚过完23周岁生日，去年大学毕业，成绩中上，没有背景，没有实力，在家毫无目的的投简历，一整个夏天都烦躁不安，害怕听到同学找到工作的消息，大部分都是家里托人找到了很好的工作，嫉妒甚至有些气愤，小城市完全是靠关系。在毕业几个月后终于找到一份离家很近的工作，薪水很低，几乎没有休息，但是老板有意培养我往外贸方面发展。可是刚毕业总是眼高手低，看着那些还不如自己的人舒舒服服的坐在办公室，拿着4k的工资还天天抱怨，心里就十分不平衡。于是年底裸辞，过完年，继续参加招聘会，得到一份工作，需要车间实习1个月，工资五百。本以为是一份不错的工作，可是实习过了1个月，安排的情况与刚开始说明的完全不同，说是行政暂时没有空缺，让我在车间继续打标签。1个月后再次辞职，现在在房产公司做行政，发现并不是自己想像的那样，老板太小气，不愿意出钱请清洁工，于是我每天一早的工作就是打扫整个办公室。公司管理混乱，上司是董事的外甥，抠门、无理。试用期三个月，四个月后还没有签合同，交保险。因为第一次冲动付出的代价，不敢再裸辞。今年考了会计证，但是仍然是迷茫，不知道自己真正属于哪，感情一片空白，父母也天天吵架，无力劝架。有时候甚至想逃开，又没有勇气。年底还是打算辞职，不想再浪费一年。 
希望明年能够真正确定自己的工作，找一个喜欢并喜欢我的人，父母回到以前，弟弟也努力工作，不要再让人操心。


 


agen，知知乎乎
23岁的记忆：


１、与两个哥们住在一个三室一厅的房子里；


２、每周上三天或四天班，每班１２小时；


３、狂写程序，用花生壳架网站；


４、每隔几周进一次城，进城的目的是看看这世界，离人群近些；


５、每天梦想创业成功。


 


23岁不再，珍惜每一天。。。


 


Anonymous user
, 23 years old, is about to graduate and leave school ahead of schedule. He got his diploma in June, resigned in August, started a business with his friends, and experienced a lot. Two months later, the product was launched, and the market feedback was not bad. After that, I ran around to get venture capital. After two months of various obstacles and entanglements, it was a pity that I failed to get the venture capital team to disband. It was December again. When I first came to Beijing at the age of 22, I drifted north again a year later. Although I failed to start a business, I didn’t regret it. I took it as my own naivety. I learned a lesson for my innocence. As long as there is a dream, there will be a comeback. Hao Jing, a


 


gentleman Ten years of hard work.
I will be 23 next year. I will graduate. I have my own direction and someone I like. I want to persevere on my own path, and she is willing to walk with me and keep going. I have experienced too much in the year of 21. , Now I have learned to grow from doubts, to forge ahead in mediocrity, and I feel that life cannot be successful overnight. A man needs at least ten years in his career. At this point in the relationship, I choose to follow the fate, I only do things that I don’t regret. On my 22nd birthday, I suddenly realized that life cannot be planned and is full of accidents. We can only walk on a road guided by dreams. accomplish.


 


The anonymous user
is 22 years old and graduated from college. 
Under the relationship of my mother, I work as a secretary in a relatively large private enterprise group. She is very serious in her work and loves to ask questions. It is a heavy industry enterprise. The girl has a lot of professional knowledge and is afraid that she does not understand the process. The only one who can hold a notebook Go to the workshop to ask the workers about the work process, go to the warehouse to help the clerk count the number of parts in the office clerk. 
A month later, the boss told me in the car that he needed a woman he could trust to lean over and kiss her. Never seen anything like this before, I was terrified. I called my boyfriend and said that my boyfriend told me to go home immediately, and then resigned in a panic. No salary was asked either. 
Without the protection of my family, I began to look for a job in the Guangzhou talent market. I was cheated of money and rejected countless times, and began to doubt my ability. nothing. 
At that time, my boyfriend started his own company and asked me to help him in his company. At the beginning, I didn't understand much. My boyfriend had a clear distinction between public and private affairs, and my relationship was weakened by work. After a big fight, I began to reflect on myself. I started to learn to do everything with my heart, and gradually became more and more compatible with my boyfriend at work, and learned more and more. 
Later, my boyfriend became my husband, and he began to retreat behind the scenes, and I experienced more and more. 
Now my independence is good, and my relationship with my husband is also good. I have a wedding at the end of the year... 
nothing special or inspirational. What I have learned the most is the same. To do something well, you must first put your heart into it.


 


Lin Xiaolan, a graphic design apprentice, has no interest...
Many graduate students at the age of 23 are under a lot of pressure. 


I am a poor student. I repeated high school for a year, but I still can only be admitted to a 3B school. I graduated from a junior college at the age of 23.
At that time, I was faced with the choice after I came out: 1. Work;  I discovered graphic design that I was interested in when I was in junior college. 
I thought about it all night, and finally decided to choose graphic design. For me, my English level had reached the bottleneck (level 6) at that time, and I might not be able to pass the exam, so I should choose the path I am interested in. 
Really thanks to my dad who had no doubts or objections to my choice. 
In the end, I passed the exam after several months of hard work without any foundation in art, and I also dragged down my cancer-ridden father for another two years. 
In the past two years, I have been very disappointing, and I still have all kinds of confusion. Now I have graduated and am doing an internship in a company with a very meager salary. At this time, my father also left me. 
I am 25 this year, but my status should still be 23 as you mentioned above. I leave this passage here. I hope that when I look back in a year or two, I have grown into a state that I am satisfied with.


 


The anonymous user
is 23 years old, his dream has passed away, and he feels lost.


 


jianchao，天天有大米吃我就满足了。
很认真的看了很久很久，但是还是只看了一大半，准备什么时候再次看完它。 
正好自己23，虚数。 
说起自己可能更加的奇怪吧。因为大多数人都是大学毕业，或者准备毕业。 而我，大学，准备去读，而且还非常不清楚到底得读多久。而现在，我其实什么都没有。连个文凭都没有的操蛋青年。 
高中毕业，不想读大学，混了1年，家里人帮我弄上了一个大学，大学整天的喝阿喝，暑假放假回家，趟在床上，发现这不是我要的生活。虽然别人可能觉得每天去酒吧挺好，而我觉得其实一点感觉都没有，因为一点都不充实。于是和家人说再次说明情况，想退学了。（但是家里的要求是必须海龟，本计划是大学读完去英国，苦于从小给家人说必须出去于是没认真听过英语课，高考英语38分。。）于是，突然头脑发热，学了德语。北京学习一年德语，签证半年来了德国。德国的教育体制问题。必须学习语言，然后预科，最后大学。于是一转眼22了，还没上大学。。 
最近总是在想，我的下一步该如何去走下去。是否是再次再次的退学。本身学习不是特别好，而是德国的毕业率以及需要的时间让人汗颜。 
Speaking of 22 years old, if we say that life has taught us something. I think studying in Germany taught me that learning is a lifelong process. (Not just things in books, but everything around us, including nature, is where we can learn.) Life is not just material things like money. Sometimes spiritual enrichment is more important. (It is estimated that international students all feel this way. For example, a friend’s phone number is too important. And sometimes is the so-called life of others the life you want? This is also a very important question!!!) There is no obstacle in life that cannot be overcome , (When the German language was still in a mess, the house expired, and I needed to find another house, so I just searched for various houses on the Internet, called, and called again after others hung up the phone. Go to the housing company to find a house, silly one stop For 3 hours, I insisted that they help me find the house. So I found the house, moved in, and found that it was just an empty box except for the windows and the bathroom decoration. Everything needs to be done by myself. Within a week Sleeping on the floor with the heating on, and then going to IKEA after school every day, taking the train to the subway and carrying more than 20 kg of things home. I never thought of such a day, but now I just laugh when I think about it. Thank you for such a day.) Suddenly you will find that there is only one thing in the world that is the truth, and practice is the origin of everything. In anything, only after you really try it yourself can you find out whether it is correct and suitable for you. Everything has a corresponding background and interpersonal relationship. So experiment to find the best way. I no longer believe that someone is much better than me, because it was just what others said, I didn't find it, and I don't need to use my 22-year-old age to compare other people's age. We don't even need to think about 33-year-old things at 22-year-old age. I very much agree with what a person upstairs said, as long as you dare to learn anything, you can see results in 3 months, and you will definitely be proficient in 2 years. (Except for some pure technology research.) So believe in yourself, the best people in the world are only a little better than you. At the age of 22, I discovered that any thought, awareness, is never as important as the word action. Almost all of them are a combination of contradictions. Always thinking, so think about the time passed. Action is king at all times. (I still haven't made it. But I'm working hard.) 
In addition, when it comes to love. Don't mention it, when you come out, you will be divided. I have seen what other people have said so far, that there is still a person by my side during the most difficult times, and when I never leave, my eyes are full of envy. . 
Speaking of family members, I haven't called for more than 2 minutes. I don't know about the other guys. . . Why. . . 
Life, the distance of more than 8,000 kilometers between childhood playmates has also faded. .


Xiaoxin, I understand a little, I understand a little.
This topic has been very lively these days, and I am here to share it with you. 
After reading the answers of many friends before me, the thing that puzzles me the most is: it’s not too late for me to go to school, why am I only a senior at 23, some are already in the second year of graduate school, and some even have several years of work experience after graduation ? 


23 years old this year, current status, senior student, work has been signed. In the past few days, life has been very regular. Entering the library at 8 o'clock in the morning, one person will follow the graduation project that the tutor doesn't like, don't care about, and don't care about, go back to the dormitory at 5 o'clock in the evening, and watch a movie in the dormitory at night (these days are travel theme), then read dozens of pages of books, go to bed, and cycle the next day. 


Before, I always thought that I was an otaku who didn’t like to travel. I went to Taishan with a backpack a few days ago. I had this idea two years ago, but I never started (I said I don’t like to travel). After that, I always felt that there was one thing I didn't finish it, and finally forced myself to set off with my backpack. Therefore, the meaning of this trip is far greater than the meaning of experience. After I finished, I found that my previous understanding of myself was not accurate. What I hate is not travel, but the tedious preparations before departure. I still like the state of leaving whenever I want (it seems I am not suitable for a long-distance backpacker), so I have read a lot of travel books and movies recently. The next goal - Hoh Xil, I have this idea after watching Lu Chuan's movie a few years ago. For this goal, I need to improve my physical fitness , so exercise to stick to it. 


As for the job, I signed the contract in September last year. It is a very ideal company. Although I am a little nervous about some of the company's arrangements, generally speaking, it is a company that I am very satisfied with. After graduating, I will start working. The company has relatively high language requirements, so I have to work hard to improve my language skills...Writing and writing, it's a bit like a diary. 


大學唯一一件值得遺憾的事就是沒有戀愛過，不過現在習慣了一個人的自由自在，因而覺得也沒什麼不好，昨天和老媽提到，這輩子不結婚了，老媽說你要是敢不結婚，我就罵死你。壓力山大... 


關於未來：對於自己本科的學歷，其實我並不滿意，不是有一句玩笑話“不讀研究生，一輩子bachelor”，之所以沒有接著讀下去，一方面是希望能早點賺錢，減少父母的經濟壓力，讓他們早點享受生活；另一方面，是對國內的大學並不滿意，打算工作幾年，攢些錢之後出去留學，希望幾年之後我還堅持這個目標，而不是沉迷于安逸的生活。閱讀是最大的愛好，以後繼續堅持，保證每個星期至少三本書。 


暫時想到這麼多，THE END


 


RitaSun，我有很多梦。
对这个问题关注了几天了，今天才来写答案。 
我在2月底过的23岁的生日。去年6月毕业的，很普通的大专毕业。说起我的23岁，也许要和22岁紧密联系一下。2010年11月开始实习，但当时我是抱着找工作的心态实习的，很正八儿经的找工作的那种，还算顺利的找到，试用了2个月就转正了，而且还有五险，在同学中算是比较好的了，虽然当时因为没毕业待遇不是很高，但是还能接受，而且学到很多东西，还算喜欢的工作。毕业后，本来想在那家公司继续干的，但是公司里的领导们着实不给力，开始找茬，不信任员工，毕业后的待遇提升的可怜，一方面不被信任，辛苦不被尊重，在这种情况下，之前的经常加班（做杂志的月底经常加班到凌晨，没有加班费，只能调休）、出去市调采访没有交通补助等等系列问题正式向公司提出，这个时候就决心辞职了。当时几个同事关系甚好，一起辞职的。现在我们聊起辞职事件，对过去的黑暗待遇着实不想再提起，好在大家友谊深厚，甚至发展成了闺蜜，在漂泊的城市里，有陪伴，这也是一大收获。 
正式辞职前，想离开的消息被公司的合作方知道，遂找我，意思是想让我到他们公司上班，待遇优厚。在纠结了一阵子之后，决定去了，8月1号上的班。说纠结是因为这家公司不在我原来呆的城市，好在不远，周末来回也算方便。自去年8月到现在，一直在这家公司。 
半年多过去了，问题开始出现。工作安逸，没有激情，我开始厌烦。我是闲不住的人，看同学忙里忙外的，我甚至心理痒痒。在这家公司所做的事情其实是在吃老本，能力上没有什么提升，自己完全应付的来，说实话没有学到什么。日子一天天的，我开始迷茫。另外，在去年的时候，我决定今年的下半年去支教的，在现在的这种情况下，更想离开去做想做的事情了。但是，特别想说明的是，离开不会是那么潇洒的问题，同样是做杂志（DM杂志），这边只有我一个编辑，而且杂志的成本较高，一直在砸钱，但是老板的期望很高，即便这样，也要做下去（公司还有其他的很多业务）。可以说我是公司的稀缺人员。而且老板待我不薄，待遇不错，因为我是外地人，各方面都很照顾我，对公司的照顾我当然是心存感谢的，这也是我迟疑的原因，该怎么跟老板开口？纠结中...... 
自实习期以来，我一直在上班，也没有好好考虑是否该稳定，心里有很多想做的事情，比如旅行比如做公益，同学对我的想法很是羡慕，说我洒脱，其实我也在纠结，真正去做，也需要很大的勇气。此刻，正处于不知道该怎么办的状态，我走了，杂志怎么办，老板对我很好，他会怎么想？不知道这一步我该怎么跨出。我本来的计划时，6月份离开，去一趟厦门，放松一下，回来后在家待一段时间，从9月开始去支教一学期。 
我的23岁，开始于迷茫和纠结。。。。。。


 


王耀华，想要从事互联网或游戏行业的产品、运营工作
看了前几楼同学的23，我觉得我也应该想想自己的23。 
In the beginning, in 1988, I was 23 last year, and this year's birthday has not yet come, so let's count as 23 for now. After graduating in July 2011, I worked in a private enterprise in Shenzhen with a fairly good salary. I thought it would be smooth sailing. After training until October, I was always very happy and excited, and I always believed that the future would be better. Then it's fairly stable until December, with enthusiasm. Every job is done smoothly and well. 
However, every story has a turning point, and mine came in early December. Alumni posted the campus recruitment of their own game company in the university. When they saw a job that they were more interested in, they chatted with the alumni. After talking and talking, I began to think about how to go in the future, and suddenly thought of my current situation-private enterprises, family enterprises, wages are not bad, but I can't see any prospects, manufacturing. Myself—I graduated from key software, and I am still interested in the Internet. My home is in the Southwest, and there are almost no Internet companies there. Well, that sums it up. The turning point came, the foreshadowing that was planted in college, now came - just like a job at that time, advanced this company to gain experience, and then transferred to the Internet. The reality is-interlacing is like a mountain, and changing careers is really costly. So, I contacted my classmates and started the interview. Others only recruit fresh graduates, well, switch to others, no information, no information, no information about going to your sister... 
until the Chinese New Year, go home, talk about work with your parents, and express your own thoughts. Back in Shenzhen, I worked for a month in the state of yelling to resign all day, resign! 
In the process of looking for a job, I found that there are more Internet companies in Beijing, and there are more product positions, so I came to Beijing in a small hard seat with the 10,000 yuan I had accumulated from work. Temporarily staying in a friend's small room, the landlord still wouldn't let me stay temporarily after a few days. Well, feeling a little sad, I contacted another friend. At present, I have not slept on the street and insisted on looking for a job. 
Touched: Whether it is friends or family, they have given me a lot of encouragement and help. There is a lot of pressure, and there is also sadness. Every time I am in the subway and under the sun, I think about why I am so tossing about. dream! Every young heart has dreams, and I am no exception. That being the case, even if you are tired, you must persevere. 
Looking for a job: I interviewed a software company this Thursday. The company sucks and I just want to practice. In the words of my friends, even if we don’t have a job, we can’t sell ourselves for the price of cabbage, not to mention the position and industry that I don’t like. I just took a written test today for a product position in a large company I like, and I hope to receive an interview notice next week. 
Never give up no matter how hard it is, thank you for being 23 years old, even though it's not all joy.


 


Lin Dongxu, a junior majoring in finance at Guangwai University, looking for an
internship in accounting and banking I have been in a relationship that lasted for a month, and I have no friends. In the past few months, I have lost several important friends for unknown reasons. I lost my relationship, and my life has almost fallen to the bottom. This life is almost desperate. At this point, I carried all this silently, and even had to show a smiley face, as if nothing happened, I didn’t know where my life was going, it was terrible, but I firmly believed in one thing in my heart, if I didn’t do anything, it would still be like this, and if I worked hard, it would still be the same. There is hope, isn’t it? So I participated in a project, and I am currently working on it.


 


Zhang Chun, surveying, mapping, bridge civil engineering,
22 years old, just admitted to graduate school, and found that I can’t dawdle like I did in my 4-year undergraduate course. I want to learn from my boss in a down-to-earth manner. something. I have the opportunity to spend more time on the construction site, after all, I am studying bridge. Whether this thing is done well is a matter of human life. Learn professional skills in a down-to-earth manner, and plan to pass the second-level construction engineer exam next year. 
Been dating my girlfriend for 3 years, she takes good care of me and also has a great influence on my thinking. I am very fortunate to have met her, and hope to continue walking with her forever. Only by working hard can I be worthy of the big bet she placed on me.


 


Anonymous User
When I was 23 years old, it was the most leisurely time in my life. In the second year of my master’s degree in the United States, I took two very simple courses. I went to the college office to sit in the office hour on 1 and 3 every week, waiting for students to ask questions and then soldiers came to stop me. The water comes to cover the soil. There is no financial pressure. With a scholarship, I eat Panda Express or Subway for lunch every day. I really have doubts about life, especially life in the United States, I am tired of the days of soaking in mitbbs every day, and I am afraid of hiking once a week with a buffet once a month, because life is too ordinary and boring. But I don't want to write a graduation thesis either, because I don't know what to do after graduation. Half a year later, the dean of the department talked to me and said that the college would not give full scholarships to the third-year master students. Then he went to the boss and found that he really wanted to leave after finishing the thesis. The next year was really spent in the library. I spent part of my time surfing the Internet and reading all kinds of boring books and journals, but it was rewarding. I finished my thesis in the first half of the second year. I decided to bid farewell to the boring days and go back to China to find a job. I didn't vote for such a resume, so I was a gorgeous turtle. I found a job in an IT company in the first week after arriving in Shanghai, and then worked for 2 years. I resigned in July this year and immediately switched to another US-funded company. That's it. The impact of the age of 23 on my life is probably the days when I drink monsters and read books in the library every day.


 


Anonymous User
23在去年，毕业，也算顺利实习就业了。第一份工作所以一直很用心，从事外贸跟单。师傅因受不了老板的暴脾气3个月后离开了，随后来的同事都没长驻，这个现象也让boss意识到要收敛脾气善待相对稳定的我吧。由于人员紧张，我兼职做了财务，会计，人事等的相关办公事项，所以坚持了一年下来确实锻炼了自己，boss自己都承认我是办公室全能。我的生活就是工作，随叫随到。外贸总是有很多突发事件，紧急情况，在这里总是万分紧急。而车间的管理人却喜欢小题大作，叫人不得安宁。虽然每一次都能想办法解决，久了就更吃不消了，自己总是神经过敏似的，以为电话响了，午休时候会每每突然惊醒，想起来什么事情有没有处理好。。。觉得压力很大，于是今年6月向老板提出了辞职，碍于无人接手她要求找到新人带会了才行，于是就又坚持到了9月才正式离职。本以为休息一段时间再找同类工作，希望可以找到较好的单位。可是到到现在一直没有找到合适的。本想在这段时间充充电，也没有动力实施。。。常想自己喜欢什么样的工作，自己也没有答案。迷惘。。。


 


王枫，一无是处大学生
二十一岁。大二上学期，省二过了，还有十天英语四级。下学期过六级和国二。攒钱买一山地车暑假骑去西藏。对目前专业不甚满意，大三想自学网页制作和手机编程，大四时二十三岁，再决定在跨专业考研和考公务员以及自寻职业中选一目标为之拼搏。ps:本人是植物科学与技术专业的，听这专业名字都不靠谱......


 


赵子锐，目前正在带领自己的队伍在开发一个健康?
我是88龙，巨蟹，23岁生日那天刚好我是离校之日，因此感慨甚多。总得来说11年可以分为以下几个阶段： 


1、大四末期果断放弃留学机会，原因不喜欢该类型的专业（地质），随后和2个同学“开始”


了2个项目。第一个为“网上菜市场”，后来种种原因意识到自己的局限性，失败。


The second is to develop the "LBS-based mobile memo system" with my classmates, and then failed because of the introduction of my classmates and my own infirmity.


 


2. Busy on the eve of graduation, all kinds of farewells, bragging, madness, parties, etc., of course there are defenses =-=, this period of time is really sad, firstly, my future is uncertain, and secondly, various buddies and friends are scattered . Of course, I was "hidden rules" by the dean for a period of time - often trying to fight against it ^_^.


 


3. After obtaining the certificate in July, I went to a GIS company in Shenzhen for an internship for three months, and then fled on the eve of becoming a full-time employee. The reason is that I feel that this company is more suitable for my major, but it does not help me much in terms of personal development (personal ignorance).


 


4. After leaving the company, I wandered purposefully in Shenzhen—in the morning, I went to various libraries to enrich myself; Visit the market. Of course, I grew up in Shenzhen. After going to university, I left Shenzhen for four years, and I am a little unfamiliar.


 


(Many friends may think that I was wasting my time, but I don’t think so!!)


 


5. During the National Day, I used a large part of my savings and borrowed money from my family to buy my first car— — claims to save on costs consumed on the road. Facts have proved that this will put a lot of pressure on my future operating costs.


 


6. In mid-November, I changed my family’s advertising company (small) into a Cultural Communication Co., Ltd., and hired 2 web workers and a designer to start building my own website. Of course I'm playing a rookie-level PM here.


 


It took nearly three months for the website to finally go online, but many functions failed to start as scheduled. At present, only the home page and main functions are realized. In general, it can be regarded as an account of my own period of time.


 


The website mainly brings relevant knowledge to people from the aspects of fitness, diet, exercise, and sub-health. It wants to be different from traditional health websites, and create a health-preserving type website with fitness as the starting point.


 


Of course, many predecessors think that this is just the finished product of a three-year-old (it is), but it has always met my own needs-because I am not physically good enough. At present, the website has not found any profit points (all are in their own pockets).


 


Summary: Half of my 23 years have passed, I hope to find my own life value in the next half year, and improve my physical condition and cultivate perseverance. I hope that 12 years is not the end of my world!


 


Kang Qingbo, a pseudo-literary youth, suffers from Senior Syndrome. Lingering people?
Just turned 23rd birthday today. 
Senior student in school, just finished the postgraduate exam....... 
(I will continue my answer today, one year later.)


 


Anonymous user
23 last year. 
First year of employment. I came to Qingdao in January and firmly believe that the Internet can change the world. Started group buying in early August, and experienced the reckless era of group buying in Qingdao. There are highs and more lows. A pauper. I have pursued love, but failed. Single so far. 
This year is much better, and the finances are not so tight. Sometimes blood boils. I still firmly believe that the Internet has changed the world.


 


Liu Xiaodou, space planner,
23 this year, in the third internship in the university, found that the so-called gate of fate will only appear when you go forward bravely without hesitation, gradually began to discover what you are good at, and constantly refine your own Career interests, force yourself into the real German society, don't be too sensitive, don't worry too much, just be yourself. Cherish your love, although it is LDR, but still firm, no matter what the other person is, once you are young, you can't think too much about love, as long as you don't regret it. 
In short, I have found that as long as one can maintain an appreciation for life, one will always be an optimist.


 


Troy, not reliable. student. perfectionist.
23 years old, the age I am experiencing, although I have already passed most of it, I will be a senior in three days. 
Simply put, it sounds a bit boring to be in the stage of preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, but this year is considered to be the most rewarding year. 
I always judge myself with insanity, because I really don’t understand myself, but this year I have gained a bit, I want to understand a lot of things, I don’t need to be like this because of others or because of most people in the society, I will be like this, if I always get If someone else makes an excuse, then we are not ourselves. 
At the age of 23, I still believe that my hard work can change a lot of things, although I still often hear that "money and relationships are the most important", I still believe that I can still live well without a house, although I still often hear "In the future He must have a house'. 
I know that dreams can't help me live a better life in reality, but I still don't pay much attention to material life. It was 
like this before the age of 23, it was like this when I was 23, and it will still be like this after 23.


 


Wang Xinfeng, running water is a thing, and you can’t do it if you don’t have it; the ambition of a gentleman?
Now he is exactly 23 years old, and he is in the second year of Kuaiyan. He has pursued love for 5 years, but he failed. It was very tragic. He is engaged in the electronics industry and is working hard for his career.


 


Yop , recruiting some iOS engineers, interested in private message~
I was 23 years old in 2009, and I was a senior. 


There are two things worth mentioning that year. 
One is the first time I have a girlfriend... for the first time in 23 years, I see The girl on the Internet also fell in love with me. 
Then she has a boyfriend... 
We were together for a week, and then she returned to his boyfriend. 


The second is that after graduation, I have been pursuing game design for 5 years. As a teacher, I came to Beijing. 
After meeting N mobile game companies, I finally confirmed that there was no company in China that aimed to make good games. 
So I went to Hong Kong to find a job as a programmer (for future It’s good to enter the game industry and choose a computer major...). 


Later, now, the worldwide popularity of iPhone games and the free development environment have rekindled my dream of making games. Currently working in Beijing with Yiniu B Designers work together to make the game I want to make. 


Friends who like games or want to make good games can chat with me ~


 


Yang Min, data analyst, works in the e-commerce department of Debon Logistics?
He is 24 years old and has been working for more than a year, but he feels more and more contented The status quo. Can't find the direction of struggle. The lofty ambitions at graduation have disappeared, leaving only loneliness and helplessness. Stayed in the logistics company for more than a year. From the very beginning, I worked overtime day and night, and took 2 to 3 days off in a month. All night is also a perennial thing. And it turned into commuting to and from get off work on time. Maybe some changes are needed. In the past year, I learned too little, paid too much, and looked forward to change. Be ready for change.


 


Ren Hao, a martyr of Huopeng learning,
lost love for the first time, thinking where to cheat a little sister


 


Zhu Tianshui, 23 years old in network planning and operation
last year, experienced the first failure of starting a business in his life, and returned to the ranks of part-time jobs... nothing else It’s easy to say


 


Zhang Xiaoman, an accountant
is 23 years old this year. He has graduated from university and worked for two years. He just works and has no sense of career. The work is not bad, not satisfied, and there is no great dissatisfaction. He feels like he has no pursuit. , I don’t know how I should go in the future. The first official love, flash together flash away, although there have been disappointments, but still full of


 


hope ...... The right to walk without explaining? 23 years old, this year, now, this moment! Love this season! But this year is not over yet, I think it is suitable for me to look back at this year (Deep in my soul) after one year or N years, and then answer this question. . . Anonymous user is 23, research one. I will soon be looking for a job. Now I am an intern in a small law firm and occasionally work overtime. I feel the hardships of going to work. I hope to have the opportunity to work in a large domestic capital firm, but I don’t know whether I am suitable for the job of a lawyer. Everything is full. Uncertain, confused about the future. But I sum up and reflect every day, and I believe that the future must be beautiful.



 






 






 


Lake，PM
23岁，是去年。毕业两年，创业4年，团队没了士气，成员渐渐离开，产品没有任何进展，不知道应该如何跟投资人解释，每天泡在一家小店茫然。今年24岁，团队解散，产品放弃。在一家上市公司做PM。


 


匿名用户
23岁，大学四年级，进集团实习。我一直认为自己运气超好的。 
进公司四个月，我见到「老师」不超过十次，独处两次，说过一次话。 
之后，「老师」离开公司。 
在接下来的一年半时间里，我在各种场合见到「老师」不超过二十次。 
他已经不记得我了。 
下个月，我就要离开公司了。不久以后，可能也会离开这座城市。我不会再见到他了。 
接下来的年月里，我会用我的方式来纪念这段在23岁时遇到的最孤单却足够炙热的爱情。 
我怀念23岁那一年，可以静静的、远远的感受着你，没有悲伤。 
没有悲伤，因为想象总比现实美好一点。


 


冠诚，Researcher.
23岁那年研究生毕业，为家人选择回国工作，入职IBM研究院满足了我对工作的三个期望：有我喜欢的工作内容，有让我欣赏的同事，工作充满挑战。未来想积极努力地找到自己的方向。最大的理想不变：希望自己做的事情能让他人的生活变得更美好一些。


 


邹蔚，以无趣抵抗有趣
每天很想喝酒，然后睡一觉，继续喝


 


王忠涛，@数鱼 需要一点点自我反省
算了算日子才知道，原来我大四的那一年就是23岁那一年。似乎大多数人也都是这样。 
I vaguely remember that at that time, I participated in their interview because I wanted to enter the Institute of Microelectronics, but I didn't get in. Later, I got angry and didn't go home during the summer vacation. I followed the teacher in the courtyard to work on a project in a small company. I don't want to lose to others. 
During that summer vacation, I was squeezed into the sweltering dormitory, and the only thing I had was my expectations for myself and my desire for the future. 


A few years have passed, and I bid farewell to my postgraduate time, went to Shenzhen, and came to Shanghai. Bid farewell to the first company and come here. 
Shared your life with one person and now left that person. 
It seems that I have experienced a lot of things, and it seems that I am very different from the 23-year-old self. However, when I think about it carefully, the 23-year-old self is not much different from the current self. What changes in time is the process of going to a place 
. , the road is still there, just one more step and one less.


 


Long, huh?
Speaking of 23, it was actually last year, but it also feels like it was many years ago. 
In the first half of the year, due to conflicts between work and family, various conflicts, I felt very depressed every day, and my life was like a ghost. 
In the second half of the year, I made up my mind to go to the front line of Qinghai, Gansu and Sichuan, and finally finished in Beijing. I have seen the majestic and vast beauty of Qinghai, although I felt sick when I saw the grassland in the end. Then I ran wild in Beijing every day, participated in various literary and cultural activities, shuttled inside and outside the 2345 ring road, went to see if the ginkgo had turned yellow every day, and lived a good life at my aunt's house with "clothes, hands, food, and mouth"... and Since then, I have fallen in love with Beijing. 
Because of this, I have experienced some different things, which is also very good.


 


Fuzhen, Juzheng and Xinren
, at the age of 23, lived a simple and boring life at home, with no direction


 


Zhang Rui, engaged in browsers and mixed products. Hacking skills?
ing. I lost my relationship last year, which happened before the exam. 
Then I sat on the bed for a few months of dry meditation, enlightened, got out of bed, and got an internship offer from Alibaba's product manager. 
Taking advantage of the trend, I brushed up several offers related to safety and products. 
I have done Weibo training and opened N sharing sessions. 
When I was in Ali, I received an invitation from Taobao to go for an interview and continue to be a product manager. 
Then during the interview, he was described as an engineer rather than a product manager. 
It has grown rapidly this year. It's just that my heart is already cold.


 


Ding Yu, Xiao Ding, who is constantly growing in intelligence and networking~
I am 23 years old, a college student who is about to graduate, and I am constantly asking me whether I am really interested in this machinery manufacturing industry and whether I am willing to I gave up my four-year major and turned to an industry I am not familiar with and not good at. Maybe that industry looks very good to outsiders and the treatment is very good, but I still keep questioning whether I really want what I want. Under the expectation of family and friends, the invisible pressure continues to appear. No matter what the result is, tell yourself that you can try to work hard for a month, and it is a meaningful experience to be able to do things that you are not good at, even if you don’t want to do it later. This business is also experiencing a process of transformation. Young people must be brave, as long as they don't waste their youth, everything is worth trying.


 


Flying fish, hovering in the sky and sea, but longing for a life?
23 years old, I am an intern in Shanghai. In the summer vacation of my junior year, I resolutely came to Shanghai, unaccompanied, and frantically submitted my resume on the Internet, regardless of the major, education, and experience limitations, followed by endless interviews, an average of two per day, and the most one day I ran to four houses. In order to catch up with the interview time, I didn’t have time to eat at noon, so I hurriedly took the subway to the next interview. During the interview process, I encountered various blows, the professional foundation was not solid enough, and the expression was not clear. In the end, I was asked to wait for the notification. This sentence had already told me the result in advance, and all thoughts were lost at the time. . . In the second week, I received several offers one after another, and finally chose to work in an agency. Although the salary is relatively low, I can learn a lot from this company, and I can also work on my own. Feed themselves.


 


Fu Lili, a political science kid.
I will be 21 at the end of this month. I am currently doing an internship secretly. I should graduate when I am 23. I am preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. The goal is to teach students.


 


Qi Yu, Deeper Higher Further
23 years old; 


sold the previous company; took the newly obtained marriage certificate, took his wife and son (a dog) to drift north; 
interviewed 3 Internet companies, and entered the innovation workshop! 
After less than half a year of experience, I still resigned in deep reluctance; 
then I joined an entrepreneurial team with only 4 people and started my Nth entrepreneurship! 


Seeing that everyone's 23 is so unbearable, downcast, and confused, in fact, I haven't never experienced it; I was 
lost at 18, overwhelmed at 20, and down at 22; 
just get over it, because there is still tomorrow, so I never give up! 
If this question is asked to a 21-year-old, then I have too many wonderful stories to share!


 


Taro, light-cooked style, old, fresh, classic, suitable, broken, broken, and fine-sounding otaku@im膏豆
wanted to get a scholarship, so I studied by myself from 8 to 6 every day, and then I got the scholarship.


 


The anonymous user
graduated from university at the age of 23 and went directly to Shenzhen to work in online games. Then he was addicted to a certain domestic 3D online game for a year, and he downloaded a copy until 3-4 o'clock every night, spending thousands of money, and achieved nothing except proficiency in various knowledge in the game. The girlfriend who was going to get married before the age of 24 cheated on her and suddenly woke up from her dream. Quit online games, realize the direction of life in pain, and start a new journey...


 


David Lu, an Internet enthusiast, a guy who works on the Internet. At the
age of 16, he didn't know what a person is. At the age of 18, he saw how others behaved, and at the age of 23, he learned how to behave ~~~~~~~~~~~~ The rest is very simple!


 


Eight pendulums, just twisting like this...
Now 23 has nothing. I am in a mess in every aspect. It should be said to be an absolute trough. Graduation, unemployment, failure, frustration, loss, lovelorn, 
but I still believe in my heart that everything will be fine.


 


Wang Linqiang, a network engineer, is familiar with c /c++, java development. . . .
When I was 23 years old, I had just graduated from university. The salary of my first job was 10w+/y, which was not too high or too low. The work was not busy but still fulfilling. interested company. At the same time, I was constantly pestered by a girl who was several years younger than me. She who was far away in Europe made random phone calls across the ocean to ask me why I didn’t like her. There are a lot of things I haven't thought through. These are all things that happened last year. Now I am studying the technology well and preparing to change jobs. I believe everything will be fine. . . . .


 


Liu Junbing, a 3D professional! Haha...
Hey, 23 years old is not far away from me. Hope to find a good, stable and interesting job before then!


 


Du Qian, who was an athlete, a photographer, and now a civil servant,
is 23 years old, and I am still a platoon leader in the field army!


 


Mu Yiyang, a sojourner in a small county, An Yi is my worst enemy
. After reading the above descriptions, it turns out that everyone has a very rich memory of this age. I'm also here to join in the fun. 
23 years old is last year. I graduated in July the year before last, and I went to a company to do terminal sales and was assigned to Jilin. When we first went there, our office was ranked last in our company, and all the staff from the office director to the staff were replaced. The new leader took us to clean up bad debts and inventory first, and then start from scratch. We worked together to make the office top ten in the country (our company has nearly 200 offices across the country). But since last year, the company has undergone major reforms, and the leaders have left, and we have left there one after another, and even left the company. Thinking about it now, I learned a lot during the year and a half in Jilin and benefited a lot. Now I am doing sales in a company in my hometown, and the salary is obviously much worse, but living with my parents, there is no pressure, and life is very comfortable.


 


Yin Qinqin likes everything and creative things. Don't know everything about yourself?
23，是个很奇妙的数字，感觉自己一直停留在这个年龄，可是我知道我等不及了，我恐惧工作，因为工作会让我丧失我的很多个性和创新能力，所以这一年，我边工作，边不停的思考询问自己，我想要的是什么，我能做到什么，我现在做的工作又能让我走多远？ 
无论如何，路还是要走下去，23岁，对我们对大的难题是：如何做选择。 
一个是高薪的工作，你不喜欢，一个是底薪的工作，你喜欢，还有一个是没有保障的工作，但是你会喜欢它，创造它，这就是创业吧。 
--创业不容易。 
--为什么不容易？ 
--因为你要面对很对困难。 
--那只能说明他们没有胆量去直面问题。人生就这么短，年纪轻，我们输得起。还是干起来吧


 


君十四，披着人肉的问题外星人
“我在想。究竟什么的生活才是我想要的生活”“因为想要的。与现实的。是九阴真经跟葵花宝典的区别”我今年刚毕业，很多很好很有才的朋友（本科毕业，硕士毕业后一般都混得很好），大都是处于爱情事业的空窗期，痛苦挣扎，一切皆为镜像。


 


博浪，知乎 17937
23岁，新工作，在昆明干了一年。在翠湖公园看书的感觉真是惬意啊。这么多年还是记忆深刻


 


许国辉，知心人，一被子
进入T大，但是一直在边缘，苦闷不已，很多次想出国读博，但是又没去


 


李敬昌，爱好历史哲学，物理也略有小爱
无论23岁的时候在干什么，我觉得自己很幸运看到大家23岁的时候，我十九。 
有梦想，便不会老。 
我目前正在建一个小站 
虽然目前没有什么醒目的成就 
但我知道自己在做什么 
自己将去何方 
看到他们盲目的考研 
便觉得前方少了几个可以竞争的对手 
嘿嘿


 


王邃思，互联网产品，为创新而奋斗。 微博?
ING，我知道23岁是很重要的一年。所以我希望能够在这一年完成一大截的成长。


 


叶子，与未辛年生,周年20,现入职北京某团购公?
16岁北京作"搬运工(装大车)",工作2月回去读书,励志3年后再来北京,绝不干这种工作. 
16-19岁某中专 计算机毕业生. 
19-20北京,曾在一家网,窝窝团等工作. 
周年20!


 


郭晓琦，建筑小p孩儿
是不是所有的人在23岁都很苦逼，看了大家的答案突然想起那段时间。 
那时候我在德国交换，没有朋友，天冷，总是宅在屋子里。 
语言问题刚去了学习跟不上，钱不够花，孤独。 
这段时间，深爱几年的男友分手，互相撩狠话，像疯狗一样互相伤害。然后对方在极短的时间找了个各方面条件都比我强的姑娘继续着曾经一起做的梦，甚至迅速见家长。在慕尼黑的阁楼上，常常哭道昏厥，绝食，酗酒。 
后来实在不能放弃自己的未来，继续考G，接触过的人都知道G本身就是个很苦逼的事情。 
同时，做手术，没人照顾，都不敢跟家里人说，自己连饭都吃不了，天天吃婴儿食品（糊糊状的东西）。 
还要高强度的复习。 
真是脑力，心脏，肉体三重折磨同时间进行。 
Now when I think about that time, I feel like I want to say a bad word, but I never thought that I can really survive like this, that I can be so strong, and there is nothing I can't overcome in the future. 
Although I'm still in a period of confusion and don't know what I want in life, at least I have learned to be kind to myself, and I can't be so sorry to myself anymore.


 


Xu Mingtong, Lifechanyuan Zenyuancao
was still in college when he was 23 years old, and he was always looking for the meaning of life and life. Now I found it, in Lifechanyuan.


 


Li Xunhuan is always a wandering mind.
I am 21 years old this year, graduated from university, failed the postgraduate entrance examination, was transferred to a university in Northeast China, gave up, and felt that I was about to suffer from depression after World War II.


 


Zhao Zhao, looking at the world quietly
1 After seeing the host's condition, I feel pretty good. Although I am also poor and blank, but because of some experiences in college, my mentality is better than yours. I am very contented and know that the facts of life need to be earned slowly. 
2 Looking at the many answers below, I suddenly feel that I can be more colorful, and the future is infinitely magnified. I think my future will not be worse than the above. 
3 Just before reading this question, I was still thinking that it is impossible for people to live their whole life in such a daze without seeking anything. What is the point of that? 
4 In life, we must pursue different experiences. No matter how hard or tired we are, when we look back and smile in the future, we will only feel that this trip was worthwhile and full of happy memories. 
5 I would like to share with all Zhihu students, whether they are experiencing pain, happiness, happiness or sadness, and work hard together to live a wonderful future!


 


Anonymous user
Experienced the grief of losing the loved ones, but I can’t cry anymore. Now I’m just living like this, and I don’t want to see tomorrow. Meteor


 


Cloud, I’m learning Chinese information processing, data mining, a little understanding?
I’m 23 years old, that’s right now, just now Started graduate school... Check Zhihu and Weibo from time to time, the pressure of class is relatively high, the project as a tutor is also difficult, the progress is slow, the algorithm is abandoned in undergraduate, and I am gradually tutoring, maybe I have to write a thesis, quite busy...


 


Hu Sipeng, ← Heroes click here to answer a few questions
23 years old, I found a job in the semi-system, the salary is not high, and the work is not tiring. The foreseeable future is not bad or tiring, but it will definitely not be what I want. I believe that everyone has better ideals in their hearts, maybe they want to be more leisurely, maybe they want to be more passionate, but they cannot jump out and move forward bravely due to various constraints of reality. My 23-year-old idea is to do a good job in my work seriously and steadfastly. But separate from life, treat work as work, and do a good job while thinking and laying a solid foundation for life planning.


 


Hanjing, editor, cultural industries.
23 years old, that is last year. 


1. After graduating from university, I broke up with my boyfriend whom I had been talking with for 4 years. I left my beloved hometown and dear friends and went to Shanghai. The wobbly life is over. 
2. Living with parents in Shanghai, they are not used to each other's living habits. The first job was introduced by my cousin. It was very boring and monotonous. It contradicted my major and aspirations. I felt that continuing to do it was a waste of time, so I resigned half a year later. 
3. I found a job in a magazine, but gave up for some reasons. 
4. Unemployed. Then I worked in my mother's restaurant. In my spare time, I wrote TV drama scripts. After writing several episodes, the director was not satisfied and revised it many times. It took half a year. In the end, I only took 1,500 yuan. 


Later, I ended my amateur screenwriting work, and also ended my part-time job in a restaurant, and found a job as a website editor, until now. 


So at the age of 23, I was basically in the most difficult stage of my life. Everything has to start again, everything is uncertain, everything is full of unknowns, but you can let yourself create it. I never regret that I made so many wrong decisions in that year. On the contrary, I am very grateful to God for allowing me to experience so many things, and now I think it is very meaningful.


 


Mituan
did two things at the age of 23, graduated safely and worked smoothly.


 


Zuo Yi, the ignorant is fearless
23岁，才毕业两年，处于浪费青春期，在一个研究所上班，整天没什么事做，上班下班吃饭，然后漫无目的的走在街上看美女，收拾停当，准备从重庆飞深圳，开始了真正的事业发展。


 


杨惠姣，将要做产品策划
明年23岁，明年研究生毕业，明年会去一个知名的互联网公司做产品。 
找工作的时候，别人问我，觉得最挫败的一次是什么事情。我想了想，觉得实在是没有。 
从大学开始到现在，一切都很顺利，我甚至没有做过太多的努力，得高额的奖学金，获得出国比赛的机会，找到好的实习，找到一份自己喜欢并且待遇颇丰的工作，在自己喜欢的城市生活，有很爱的也很爱我的男朋友，还有一群好朋友。生活的太美满。 
找到工作之后，越来越懒，越来越浮躁，忘记了努力，忘记了要认真的生活，整日关注购物。看到了上面了答案，觉得自己很惭愧。不能再挥霍自己的幸运啦。努力起来，做最好的自己。


 


荀承伟，成长中的少年
刚好23岁，刚毕业，一穷二白，离家在外，人生低谷，顺便现在还在找新工作 
—————————————— 
而且，女友去读研，年初刚分手，但愿现在是我的人生最低谷吧，真不知道以后回头看现在是什么感觉。 。


 


敦斯基，不要问我从哪里来
23岁才刚上研究生。看到ls好多23岁已经研究生毕业的筒子，感到鸭梨好大。。。 
彼时刚来到帝都，以为读研将获得真才实学、前途将平坦无比~~非常天真可爱的说。 
后来就毕业。投入到跟梦一点都不相干的实际生活去。


 


陈健，我在这说的话，只代表我能看到的东西的?
毕业，意气风发，无比2B


 


幼稚的弗兰克，想要文艺的IT宅@Microsoft
23岁是今年。在一个国际知名IT企业找到一份工作，即将毕业，和心爱的女人分手。人格分裂+自我否定ing。 
未来是怎样，不知道，但我会努力加油一步一步前进的。要变得更强，才能把握自己的命运。


 


csryan，C/C++, assembly language on hp, usb ?
毕设、旅游、毕业、工作，目前基本适应了工作把


 


戴瑞克，技工。
08年，23岁，毕业，赖校3个月，期间各种找工作，最终在一位老师的推荐下，从青岛去了魔都，一座没有任何熟人的城市。期间工作各种不顺利，各种挨骂。最终，坚持了1年3个月，又有些不愉快的事情发生，最终还是选择了离开上海。 
在家休息了3个月吧，筹划和朋友一起创业，最终还是不了了之。再次回到青岛，时间刷刷的过去，没有去找工作，还是幻想和朋友一起折腾点事情，悲催的是看好了很多东西，就是没有决心付诸行动。说话间，又要过年了，而后返青，开始上学期间就想搞的外贸，注册了公司，狂发开发信，偶尔有个询盘的，来回几个邮件就没有消息了，慢慢的热情又木有了，也没有一个成功订单。上班期间的积蓄也逐渐耗空，实在是不能支撑在折腾下去了，于是又在一个同事的介绍下再次换了个城市上班。 
今年，我已经26了，转眼毕业3年。大学同学毕业时大半都去考研，今年他们也毕业了，大家也鲜有联系，还有几个读博去了，毕业就工作的几个人中，婚了的，有孩子的，依然光棍的。26了，依旧一无所有，一直就是单身，最近碰到一个蛮不错的女孩子，正在追，突然压力陡增。当然，压力最大的就是不可免俗的钱的问题，收入实在是少，扣除各种保险后大约还有2800左右，再没有其他收入，一周工作7天，一月休2天，多休就要扣工资，而且是连假期的工资一块扣，也就是说如果休了3天，那么就要扣300而不是100，来面试时候的各种承诺已化作云烟。 
已经26了，确实已不再年轻，也折腾不起了。。。有时候就是看不到什么希望，在这家公司也看不出有多么光明的前途。 
现在突然明白，各种不如意都是自己的选择，或者说是自己的能力造成的，同龄的人，甚至是更年轻的人不是有过的更好的么？即使是在这种不堪的年代。所以，还是不能轻易放弃吧，继续学习英语，继续练习翻译，先找个网络兼职，年后工作在做打算。。。


 


蒋明原，搜索引擎 数据处理 Java
23岁生日前一月，独自一人来京实习。幸有好友相助，在开始的日子里过得不算太苦。从事IT行业，生活可想而知。时至今日，经过两年洗礼，生活方式没发生多大变化，价值观，世界观有所变化。渴望更加艰辛的磨砺。


 


谭安林，潜行的水瓶...
23岁，去年。毕业，杭州工作，出差郑州。一个充满波折的23.......让23归零了，24也快归零了.....向25奋斗吧.


 


Ansonyi，知之为知之，不知知乎之！
23岁，毕业快两年，换过一份工作，状态可以归纳为两个字“迷茫”，后来怎样不敢想，目前在做的还是积累！！！


 


高赛杰，总有人在你打一盘dota的时间内看完一章?
This year happens to be the 23rd. I graduated from an ordinary second-year college in June. Now I put aside all distracting thoughts and prepare for the second postgraduate entrance examination. I rent a house near the school where I am going to take the exam, and stay in this city alone. I hope I can pass the exam this time, otherwise I will have to re-plan my life direction. 
PS: At the age of 23, I will experience the legendary "God's Stick Festival"~~


 


Wang Jie, Resource Exploration Project
En. I am now 23. I am also very confused. Where is the future. ah. I have no idea. Dreams are always out of reach.


 


Practitioner, NULL
is 23 years old, has experienced too much, and is on the road.


 


Hou Junjie, Safety Engineer, Safety Evaluator
Just graduated for one year, he is full of hope for life, and the future seems to be in a mess. It turns out that reality has a rough road and nothing can be achieved. I only decided on my work direction when I was 25 years old, and I have gone a long way.


 


Li Chunlu, where there is me, there will be
hope 
I am a senior this year, and I am temporarily confused. 
When I first entered school, I joined the Dream Grass Cycling Association. During my freshman year, I worked hard to participate in expedition activities. 
I will never forget the cycling activity and expedition from Suzhou to Beijing during the freshman summer vacation. 
In my sophomore year, I participated in the management of clubs and the organization of activities, and got entangled with my girlfriend. Anyway, public and private affairs were mixed together. It was a dark day. 
Until the third year, the work of the club was over and handed over to the newcomers. Broke up with girlfriend. After that, it will be a protracted recovery. . . . . In my junior year, I decided to look forward to the future and live for myself. 
In the past few months of my senior year, I submitted two resumes and had one interview. I also began to consider some issues that I had avoided before. In a short period of confusion, everything will be fine. Tian Yuqi, a 23-year-old


 


entrepreneur , I am engaged in plan reform in a military factory on the hill opposite Tianzi Peak in Zhangjiajie.



 


Liu Tianyu, always reflect on yourself, don't lose your way. Simple life, do?
23, not far away, as long as you grasp yourself now, I think 23 will not be so confused, life is short, live every day happily.


 


Liu Linan, about .me/litchiliu, record life, Zhihu 70?
23 next year, I think I should travel around the world, relying on my own efforts.


 


Poetry rhyme, believe in Buddha, believe in reincarnation, believe in cause and effect.
In my senior year, I was about to face the situation of being unemployed after graduation. I spent a year preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, tossing myself and my family, and wasting money. In the end, I found that I had tossed everything, so I didn’t bother studying, and I had fifty days left to take the postgraduate entrance examination. No, I moved out of the school and rented with others without persuasion. I was a good friend because the house was very unpleasant, and the rented house cost a lot of money. Ask yourself whether you are good or not. 
My family gave me a way out and asked me to study for a graduate student with good exams, but I refused because of my dreams, hopes, and so on. 
I think about this and that every day but never take action. I feel that I have been scrapped. I am confused and anxious about the future. I am afraid of failure, afraid of being laughed at by others, and afraid of disappointing my family. 
Depression relapses, I always feel that I can't live, the pressure is too much, hair loss, insomnia, and skinny, my family looks distressed, but I know this is what I asked for, and I deserve it. 
I hope that I can't escape from here, I hope everything will be fine next year, I hope that my 23-year-old can proudly say that my persistence is right, and I have worked hard to achieve phased success. 
Come on, now we can only go forward.


 


Wu Yan, SJTU CSer, FDU NLPer, IRer, DMer
is exactly 23 years old, "go with the flow" to study tobacco and alcohol, and devote most of his time to the laboratory every day;


I have a little knowledge of the research field, and have published two or three domestic and foreign papers with the boss. The future path is gradually clear, and the anxiety about time is getting heavier and heavier. I enjoy the hotbed of school, but I know that I should join the society a year ago.


I am still not satisfied with my current personality, and many low-level obsessions still remain, but the biggest progress is to slowly learn to admit and accept the "crippled" self, and then tell myself: take your time, children, time and experience will change. Let you grow and perfect your personality.


 


The anonymous user
was 23 years old and in the early middle 


of the year, he resigned from the backstage job of the original securities company. His girlfriend's company moved to Beijing. By chance, he joined his girlfriend's company as an internal auditer after being appreciated by the company's chairman. 


A few months ago, I was sent by the company to a newly established branch to deploy the OA system, and I was in Xichang for a month. I spent the Mid-Autumn Festival with my girlfriend in Chengdu, went to Dujiangyan for a visit, and had a party with my college buddies in Chengdu. 


Now I am preparing for the CIA exam..


 


Anonymous user
I am 23 (imaginary age) and a senior in college. Signed, ready for 6th grade.


 


Zhao Tianze, an atypical programmer, iOS Dev. The year of entrepreneurship.
I am 23 this year, I just graduated, and I am starting a business. Not accepting the constraints of work, I know that sooner or later I will succeed.


 


She Zhuxiang, a visual designer who doesn't understand interaction is not a good product manager.
I will graduate at the age of 23 next year. 
I imagined what I was doing 5 years later, so what should I do from now~ 


The school recruitment in October was successively despised by Tencent (written test), Baidu (one side), and Thunder (HR side). 
In November, I interviewed an Internet start-up company and got an offer. The environment is good, the culture is very open, and the leader is very easy-going. 
Prepare to go out of school in December, to feel, to learn, to experience, to practice, to pursue


 


thinkind,
23 years old is a vague year, it is better to define it as the year of college graduation. 
I left home and was assigned to work in a small, boring town. 
Nothing, not a low point. 
Then I changed cities, and then another city. 
Now living in a medium-sized city is basically considered a settlement. 
Buy a house, get married, decorate, settle down. 
Life is mostly dull, and work is boring. 
I am 28 now. Thinking about pursuing dreams, life is brilliant. 
I don't want to be mediocre anymore. 


=== Supplementary dividing line === 


I pooled my money to buy another house. 
Continue to be a house slave. 
In addition to the monthly payment, only living expenses are left every month. 
It feels very painful to have some spare money on hand but no reliable investment channels. 
Now it is back to the age of living on a tight schedule every month.


 


Zhang Dongdong, who wins without fighting, is very grateful.
In his junior year, he opened a clothing store with a friend and his business was stable. He broke up with his girlfriend once. He met a successful person, which hit him hard. He started to go to the library. Reading, the heart is very tired, there are many things.


 


holajane, unemployed
, at the age of 23, did not experience the trough, walked out of the confusion of just graduating, now has no job but has a lot of offers, intends to do what he likes Zhang Chen, likes computers, pays attention to


 


the Internet, half-hearted?
age! Has been working for a year, resigned! Struggling on the road of DotNet and Python!


 


Zhou Ying, a beautiful girl from Yuanbu Longdong.
I was 23 last year and was drifting near Zhongguancun, Beijing. I lived in a shared house for 11 people. I ate pancakes and steamed buns. I basked in the sun and wind of Beijing. This year I am 24 and returned to my hometown Chengdu. , to start a business, very hard, but very happy


 


Chen Sizhi, an apprentice photographer, is not interested.
23 years old, I don't know if it is this year or next year, I am confused. Smoking cigarettes that are getting worse day by day, living with a modest salary, moonlight, thinking about how to live a hard life, sitting every day with things that I am not good at, don’t like, or don’t want to be good at, talking about a girlfriend, I feel a bit wasted time. How should I go tomorrow? Let’s continue with the pain. Thought of telling you.


 


Anonymous User
I am 23 years old this year, graduated last year, and came to Shenzhen to do international trade. I always have an upper-middle level of performance. I am confused and want to make money. .


 


Ah Zang, flowers will bloom again, and people will never be young again.
Labor Day will be 23 next year, and I will graduate in June this year, so the time is too damn fast. In the first 3 months before I was about to graduate, I was despised and "stimulated" by my mother every day, so I randomly submitted resumes on the Internet. As a result, I went to a company for an interview inexplicably, and then started to work inexplicably.


I still remember that during the interview, I asked three questions and asked me for it. Later, I realized that there is a reason for asking one question and three questions. As for work, although it sounds a little advanced (at least in my eyes at the time, the term was considered a small advanced), that is: web editor!!! To be honest, I didn’t think too far and didn’t


think too much at the time, so that I’ve been confused until now It feels like soy sauce. Of course, I haven’t learned nothing. At least I have some knowledge about certain aspects of industry knowledge and some operations. Sleeping, eating, and playing. It’s my fault that my stomach is empty.)


When I first saw the title of this question, I thought it was very interesting, and after patiently reading everyone’s answers, I suddenly felt like I wanted to beat myself . Now we are in the tangled period of whether to change jobs. . . . .


Because there are weekends and working hours are free, so I still have plenty of time, but I still want to spend time working hard to learn a major. The sad thing is that I don't know where my interests lie until now, and I am equally entangled in what to learn. . . .


But now it’s not as muddled as it used to be. There is a momentum in my heart that is slowly burning, looking forward to next year’s 23 and getting rid of this 222222222222222. . . . . (Suddenly feel that I am really old, and all the time has been wasted by myself, go go go...)


 


Mei Xiaojiu, those people who praised your true temperament, maybe they are?
23 years old, infinitely close to death, waiting for the judgment process More torturous than the verdict itself, also changed some minds, thanks for the change at 23 years old. Live a life worthy of yourself.


 


Shuying, above survival, below life.
I just passed my 23rd birthday a few days ago. This year, I can use one sentence to describe "I guessed the beginning, but I didn't guess the end". I took the postgraduate entrance examination full of confidence, thinking that I could contribute something to China's food safety cause, and then failed by one point. I endured tears for a long time, but I still believe that fate will have its own reason for such an arrangement. In the summer, I came to Beijing from Xi’an to start my postgraduate life, another major, and I feel like I have to endure humiliation, but I like my current life very much, and being busy can make me feel my own value. Still believe in the future, believe in dreams. Life in Beijing is different from what I imagined. My friends all have their own lives, and the only thing I can rely on is myself. At this time next year, it is time to look for a job. At the age of 23, I am destined to experience a lot of frustration and confusion. I am waiting to face the wind and rain. I hope that many years later, when I recalled that I was 23 years old, I can be like everyone upstairs, and I will not regret it, I will not regret it. come on.


 


oliviamatsuda, graduate student, OST, novice in American TV series & British TV series,
 


just turned 23 years old, master's student, working overtime for next week's report, 
working on projects in the studio on weekdays, watching Japanese TV series, American TV series, anime and otaku in the dormitory on weekends 
, I usually go out to try delicious food. It should be said that going out is basically related to eating = = 
I don’t have a boyfriend, although I think I want to find 


someone who will graduate next year, boyfriend or something, work or something.. I don’t want to think about it, it’s too short Xing


 


Zhe wanderer, investigative addiction
当时有点焦虑和迷茫，在KTV里面唱23岁得九局下半转呀转，我把帽子反戴还期待有大逆转..... 
如今在KTV里面唱：32岁得九局下半转呀转，我把帽子反戴还期待有大逆转.....


 


匿名用户
刚好23岁才过，毕业出来一年了，去年年初六踌躇满志的就离家和同学三个去福州，之前以为是做销售的，去了才发现公司很小，而且刚去只能做售后服务，跟班出差，实习1800一月，做了两个月，越发觉得呆不下去，离家太远，孤独没朋友。果断辞职去上海，去找工作，后来发现很中意的一家企业必须要毕业证书（我七月毕业证才下来）。这时刚好堂哥包工头，工地上赶工期急要人，然后就帮他打临时工，酒店建设里面消防安装，那段时间每天都很累，但是确实今年最充实的一段时间！


后来突然爷爷中风住院，回家，家里人都没时间，所以在家陪爷爷一个多月至出院，然后7月去拿毕业证，听说朋友在学校这边做的很赚钱，利润很高，（做超市零售软件之类的），然后就一起做，刚开始一直就在帮忙，陆续接到点小活，挣钱不多但总以为算是创业可以学到很多东西，家人让我放弃，我却总是下不了决心，总觉得在这边认识很多有钱老板，以后会有好的发展。可是最近发现朋友赌钱输钱，他还是那么好赌，在外欠很多钱了！而且很多工程款都不知去哪了，我投资的钱还没拿到！快过年了，想想这一年来基本上算是白混了！这样下去真不行了！


最近待业在家，又想投资开店，可是资金还是个问题，又不想去找工作，总觉得自己不适合给别人打工，总想着自己出来创业！


感情方面，认识了她，很合拍。但是异地恋，我工作又不稳定！我总是拖延，没在意她，后来，我主动要求分手。但是到现在还是很想念她，最觉得对不起她！


这样的23岁算是够惨的了和很多人比起来。


 


蔡胤，软件工程师 applefans 目前主要的工作?
23岁 7年前的事了 在大学里 每天睡觉 上课 下课 自习 准备考研 就这样 一直过到了毕业以后来了北京。。。。。 大学很平淡 可能人生最精彩的是来到北京以后， 从小公司打工编程 一直到现在在上市公司独当一面，干的是自己喜欢做的事。目前正在寻求下一轮精彩生活的切入点，来一次创业，来一次背着背包的远途旅行 等等


 


宫江雷，技术人员
23岁，正在上研究生一年级，有点惊喜，还有点自信，觉得自己能够处理好学习与兼职的关系，结果最后一败涂地，导师找我谈话，给我倒了杯水，跟我聊聊天，最后说了一句：关于学习的事情，我不多说，你自己看着办哈。我紧张了，说谢谢老师，结果临走时，老师说：把这杯水喝了，别浪费。我那个感动啊，稀里哗啦的，第二年迎头赶上，也算是对得起老师，对得起自己。


 


匿名用户
23岁本科毕业，放弃了本校的保研机会，自己心仪的学校由于种种原因未考上，毕业前跟前男友分手了，暑假每天窝在家里考虑自己的出路，看着妈妈妹妹整天为生活费发愁，偶尔看看奥运会调整下，然后一个人去了很远很远的wz当老师，真正的举目无亲，不认识一个人，闲暇时还要准备再一次的考研笔试。现在回想那段日子，真的很心疼自己... 
目前研究生即将毕业，签了一个自己从来没想过能够进去的IT巨头，和现在的男友感情稳定，家里经济也越来越好。相信明天会更好


 


大强，一个迫于生计而沦落到互联网做产品的编剧.
明年才23岁,希望我能一如既往地保持我的道德观和价值观,去更多的创业公司看看,遇到更多有意思的聪明人和傻逼,攒更多的故事,以后能写小说.


 


丘岳维，学生 BUPT
今年23，大四了，刚找到工作


 


李杨，会计专业
23. Just graduated, sold moon cakes for 10 days,, and then sold vegetables for a month and a half,,, and now I am collecting money,,, I am very troubled every day,,, I don’t know when I will be transferred to finance,, what plan do I think now It’s all nonsense,,, let’s study the professional exam first,,

Guo Xiaoshuai, I just turned 22 a few days ago when I was studying, traveling, music, and filming
, and I will be 23 next year. I just graduated this year, and my job is uncertain. It has given me a lot of burdens. My friends often say that you have to give up something when you are alone on the road, or you will be too tired and lose your way. It will get better slowly, I believe everything will be fine,,,,,


Ah Wen, ignorant, stumbling, going forward
23 years old, now. Research two. 
The two-year postgraduate study made me feel very frustrated. I didn’t learn much from my supervisor, but I got along well with a young associate professor in the lectures. If I knew enough at that time, I would definitely choose her as my supervisor. It feels like a waste, a year passed without passion for learning. 
Fortunately, I found out what I really like to do when I was looking for a job. I had a clear goal to strive for. Although the result may not be good, I still continue to struggle. Cheer yourself up. 
-------------------------------------------------- ---------------------------------------------- 
Modify it. 
I am working on my first job, it is very hard, I have learned a lot and I am very happy. 
Although it is different from the previous idea, it is still acceptable.



Annie Zhu, a girl who is good at reconciling contradictions. Qualitative market research back
23 years old, is lost, lost but full of energy, so choose to explore. Picking a job that seemed the most open to me to explore was qualitative market research. Then just work hard and try to find yourself.


Wang Wei, surprise longing for gratitude
I'm 23 years old, it looks like I'm only 22 years old, I just graduated this year, and I'm having trouble finding a job. I graduated from a second-rate university with three colleges. Every time I am urging to go to work or find a job, but I have been deadlocked for a while because of my high-sightedness and low-handedness. I want to continue my major and do my best, but it is difficult. If you want to do what you want, you can do what you want to do if you like it. What a joy to do! I'm sorry, it seems that I got the question wrong!


Shao Junxiong, a college student, is working on a car rental network, and loves to ride a bicycle!
I am still studying at university, and go shopping on Taobao, Zhihu, and Douban every day. Work hard and think about some messy problems every day!


qijie, product management
, is 23 after the Chinese New Year. After graduating for half a year, he works as a product specialist in a state-owned enterprise. His salary is not as high as that of his girlfriend who works in Wenzhou. I don't know whether I should suffer or be grateful. The normal state of life is positive and confident. In fact, the future is unknown. I have been thinking whether my life lacks excitement and is too ordinary, but I haven't found the courage to change. I don't know if I should risk my job and find my girlfriend, or let my girlfriend come to me. In this tough third-tier city, I don't know what to give her. I hope that the year of 23-24 will change. Wang Xin, 23 years old, is a Ph.D candidate

in breeding special economic animals , and graduated from a bachelor's degree. I didn't get a scholarship, I didn't get an outstanding graduate, I didn't join the party, I didn't have a driver's license, I didn't pass the sixth grade, I didn't get into the graduate school, and I didn't have a boyfriend. By the way, on the diploma: Animal Science, Bachelor of Agriculture. Leonardo, I want to buy sweet-scented osmanthus and carry wine, but it's not the same, young man swims. I was 23 with my college girlfriend, she was in grad school, I was in grad school and  then I came here and broke up with her  Now she's married and I'm single Flying, Linux SA/OP, forever beta just working the other day I passed my 21st birthday on the job, and now I am doing an internship in a small "foreign company" in Beijing. I am full of longing for the 23-year-old me... 














Now... a little miss my parents...



Anonymous User
is on his way to turning 24. After graduating for more than a year, I worked as an administrative clerk in a private company that is not too big but not too small. All my values ​​have changed a lot this year. Understand that society is different from school, and relatives are different from parents. At the age of 23, I went to a city more than 2,000 kilometers away from home, and I was doing a small job that was not too busy. I used to think that this was the life I wanted, until I saw a number about how many times I could see my parents in this life, and I had the idea of ​​working hard to take them over as soon as possible. This year, I saw the ruthless verbal attacks between my brothers and sisters, and I realized that many things don't need to be explained, as long as I have a clear conscience. The things I can't change I put my hope in faith. This year I met a man who was ten years older than me. I couldn’t get along with him in my own way. I treated myself as a child and wanted to be favored by him, but I was wrong. This man will change my love in the future manner. Getting along with him, let me know that I can only treat myself well in the future. In short, 23 years old is a year when I am in a bad state in all aspects, but I will work hard, accept what cannot be changed, and change what I can change.


Liu Jun, a pseudo-otaku, has been looking for dreams!
The 23-year-old who is struggling, the 23-year-old who is confused, the

22-year-old graduated from university, found a job equivalent to after-sales, went to the scene every day, worked for more than half a year, found countless reasons for himself, and then quit the job The 1W I earned was spent, and I started looking for a job again. Now a company is doing high-voltage research and development. During this period, I have been thinking about what I want. Unfortunately, I don’t know what I want. I understand that only thinking without action is not enough. Now I go to work every day and go back to the place where I live. I will pick up the books and continue to study. Let’s call it study. In fact, I just don’t know what to do and find something for myself. But now I have A direction, work hard in this direction! Hope to look back and appreciate the experience in the future!

Regarding love, I feel like I can only say that I like it but not talk about it. Maybe I only know it after I have loved it. I have been clamoring to find a girlfriend, but unfortunately I have not acted for a long time. Maybe it is just a physical need!


Ma Zimin, Guang.com is now trying to answer the questions
I'm fantasizing about, or rather, what I'm going to do when I'm twenty-three. I hope that it is related to the Internet. Now I am trying to master some html and css, and I am going to learn javascript to make a wish. When I am twenty-three years old, these three are all at my fingertips. Oh,


Wang Chong, Dream Chaser
just passed his 23rd birthday. He graduated from an ace military academy in China with the first grade in his major. Surprised by the leaders and regretted by his comrades, I chose not to be a military officer to retire from active service and go abroad to study as a graduate student. Not long after that, my grandfather became seriously ill and passed away. I was fortunate to be by my side to serve him through the last part of his life. Next, I will study for the IELTS test by myself, cook by myself, watch my former friends have a smooth journey, comfort myself through the most difficult time, wait for the retirement procedures to be completed, and wait for the school's offer. Waiting and reflecting in countless lonely nights, and also matured in the process. Fortunately, I have a good girlfriend who can help me through the trough even though she is not around. 
I am about to start my own way of studying in a foreign country, a new starting point, a new life, and I will work hard to grasp it. Xiong Fangfang, 23 years old


with little rationality and little tangle , has worked in the civil service industry for a year and is tired of it.
Looking for ways to realize the dream in my heart, hope not to be overthrown by reality, and stick to it.


Yan Yulian, a student, is about to turn around~
I am 21 this year, not yet 23. But I look forward to the arrival of this 23-year-old. Not surprisingly, at the age of 23, I should still be working in the first company. I am about to graduate and I am about to step into work. I look forward to the continuation of my good luck and to have a different and wonderful youth.


Lu Shuyang, Eighth Hokage: Karma
Born in 1989, senior year. Haha, I feel that I am very strong now, and I may be very tired after going to practice in a few days. I discussed this issue with my old classmates before. For young people, the gap between ideal and reality is inevitable. There is nothing to complain about. Cultivate yourself well and have a big heart, nothing can knock you down.


Yang Yang, a common man
23 I just graduated and worked in a private coffee shop for 2 and a half months. I didn’t have any money. To be honest, I still couldn’t bear the hardship (except for the boss, so I basically did everything, and the time was 11 hours a day. ) chose to leave. In fact, I am also very confused. I really don’t know where to go. I studied finance, but I don’t know anything about finance, and I don’t know how to find a job. A month ago, I stumbled on Zhihu by chance and fell in love with it. Due to the limited level, I only read few answers. I found a lot of good things on Zhihu. I started to learn self-management. I started to read a lot of books and tried to find a direction, but I was still a little confused. I hope to find a job, start well, and live hard. Go after what you want, and be able to help some people in need.


Chun Ju, who loves writing, loves life, has a literary and romantic heart, and is
23 years old. She graduated from a bachelor's degree and passed the postgraduate entrance examination. The love that has been talked for more than four years is over. I was alone in the graduate school that I chose for love. The end of love made me mature a lot. I spent most of my one-year graduate life in the library~ Now I am in the second year of graduate school. I am a little confused about the future, and I still have longing~ Li Chen


, Unknowingly,
I just turned 23 in September...a turbulent age... in the second year of a


graduate


student, I broke up with my girlfriend after blowing out the candles, sent my ex-girlfriend to France, and then went back to the sewage plant alone. In the experimental base, during the period, relying on the remaining will in the brain to resist the influence of depression, read books when you can hold on, sleep when you can’t hold on, and survive the half hour after getting up early and before going to bed late, you can basically guarantee a day’s sleep stabilize the mood. When you are depressed, it is easy to think wildly, and you will become world-weary when you think about it. I can only desperately look for books to read, as spiritual food, forcing the brain not to think about those meaningless and chaotic problems. It turns out that the more I look at the problems, the more I am devoured by different problems every day. The difference is that after reading the book, thinking can become systematic and rational. I don’t know what will happen in the future, maybe from one extreme to another, at least for now in a period of equilibrium.


Later, when I moved back to school, my communication with my classmates increased, and the occasional small outburst of depression was nothing to worry about. I saw a psychiatrist once in the middle, because I felt that what she said was unreasonable, and forced me to take a brain scan worth 1,000 yuan. Straight out the door, MD you are sick and I am sick?


At present, I rely on myself to read psychology-related books and write to sort out my thoughts. There is no sign of depression reoccurrence, and the deep-rooted fear is still there. I still need self-confidence and practice to face my subconscious.


Gastric ulcer broke out in October, and I had a gastroscopy, and experienced the worrying feeling of the 2.0 surreal version.


I have procrastination. Except for the weekly exercise, I can’t persist in other big and small things. I spend two-thirds of my time in environmental protection forums, Zhihu, Douban, and Guohu every day. Experiments and papers are infinitely postponed. Knowing that it is very troublesome Big, the more you procrastinate, the more lazy you become, the more lazy you procrastinate, trouble.


I am a very diligent person, and I never thought that the word lazy can be used on myself.


Cui Kai, a brick mover.
I just turned 19, and there are still four years before I am twenty-three. I recall the past two years. I have been through a lot. 
After dropping out of high school,  he
went to a vocational high school, 
a technical secondary school, and 
worked in a government department. (The experience of the dog blood cheating father, I didn’t get a penny salary for three months, and I even paid it backwards) 
I have worked in a private company. 
I have attended a junior college, (I am a full-time student at TV University and will graduate soon) 
and have done online earning part-time. (doesn't make any money) 
这些都没坚持下来，别人都觉得我很失败，干什么都干不好，但我并不觉得我失败。我只是没找到我的方向。那些都不是我向往的地方，我一直喜欢互联网，初中想去北京学计算机。家人没同意，一直反对。然后一直自己瞎折腾。一开始的学黑客。到后来学网站建设。后来接触了网赚，了解了网络营销，又学习了seo。然后从中文的seo 转向了英文seo的学习。发现这才是我要坚持的方向，期间走过多少弯路，吃过多少苦。熬过多少夜。只有自己心里清楚。我没有后悔我的选择，我坚信我的努力，能达到我心中所想要的理想。明年我就要开始我的创业了，外贸电商方向，不管成不成功。我都要在互联网这条道路上一直走下去。 


希望我23岁的时候，自己的事业能够进展顺利。 
希望父母，爷爷 奶奶 身体健康。有个不错的女朋友。 
然后和女朋友一起到处旅行。 


2011再见！2012加油！！




张怡微，小说作者
去年23。没干嘛。,读研二，出了一个长篇，不是很满意。第一次成为作协签约作家，很有压力。分了手，且半年后他竟然就结婚了。第一次到台湾，大喜大悲，拿了时报文学奖，但台湾室友因车祸过世，又匆忙参加一场纯台语的葬礼。五味杂陈。年末在做一个短篇集。24岁刚来时出版了第五本书。


李诗曼，forrst.me/Mantou 我是蓝仑
23岁，正是我现在年纪，毕业一年，辞了工作，工资很低，虽然现在也不高。


大学读的是工业设计，工作是平面设计，但是在23岁这年我决心投入到我大学时候就很喜欢的网页设计行列。我争取做出不同的设计来，极力避免走中华田园风格。

我混迹于国外各个设计类网站，学习老外的理念，混到现在，不痛不痒，平淡无奇。

还好我有个比我大的女朋友照顾我，很失败啊，这么大的男人居然还要别人照顾，我决定在23岁这年结婚，我的23岁还剩半年，我要继续学习，继续取得成就，虽然我在圈内并不出名，也有圈内老牛直接的告诉我我不适合设计，甚至在之前被一家圈内很知名的创业公司炒鱿鱼，我没打算放弃，我觉得坚持就会有结果。



王曦，基础心理学实验设计控~ 音乐爱好者 奋?
23岁，大学毕业那年，考研，结束了和本科男老师两年的肉欲纠缠（我也BTW一下，我也是男的），考研失利，下定决定在24岁那年考。 
重要的是在23岁那年我知道了不稳定、爱情的本质（不敢说全部都懂了，至少懂了很多很多）等诸多问题。依仗自己还算有一点男色开始和不同的男人上床，开始兴奋，夜夜笙歌，到后来空虚寂寞。 
觉得23是一个转折点，从不经世事到混沌初开，今年26岁，3年过去了，荒唐过、颓废过、恶毒过、受伤过，中间经历过几个男人，发现自己已经不怎么相信男人了，不知道是好事情还是坏事情。 
感谢23这个转折，研究生毕业，在一家还算有名的网络公司就职，只是好像那年以后变成爱无能了~



胡迪超，大四 日本京都大学
现在22岁半。 
23岁半毕业。 
对于我来说23岁是从学校到社会的分界线。 
Let it rock!!



马毅，活出自我。。。 新浪微博：?
去年23岁 
毕业一年半，换了三份工作，失恋，身体出了好些小毛病。大部分时间处于急躁，焦虑状态。 


在大学浑浑噩噩地混了4年，打游戏，网恋，喝酒，高数挂了三年，最后也是在一帮哥们的“帮助”下才勉强通过。然后10年踏入社会，无一技之长，觉得自己适合做销售或者贸易，结果多番周折，最后还是听从父母的建议进了一家台企。在里面纠结地待了一年，没有压力，工作也不繁重，大部分是在处理邮件，写汇报，还有跟设备打一些交道。然而更多的却是茫然和对未来的恐慌，也找不到有共同语言的人，于是裸辞，拿了点小存款在松江租了个套房，期间还去报了个英孚网络课程，7800，比较坑爹。 
然后违背自己不再进工厂的诺言，进了一家知名手机制造企业做技术员Leader，本想好好做出一番成绩。却发现跟环境格格不入，工程师形同虚设，老技术员认为我没有资格还加以防备，因为没有人指导，做出的一些文档也错漏百出，再加之领导管理方式粗暴，于是寻求离职。（当然真的很不冷静，也没有仔细去理清各种关系）。 
接着年底去了一家IT外包公司，外派在某民族骄傲通讯企业。前景还不错，我们小组就三个人，每天义务加班到晚上10点只为了尽快上手，做出成绩。 然后突遭对方撤项目，大概是价钱谈不拢，于是只能再次踏上求职道路，期间，女朋友也因为学业和她父母反对的关系和我渐行渐远。 
现在在一家小公司，工作很繁杂，但是学到很多东西。 也在反思2011年的我为什么那么浮躁，那么容易冲动。 2012年，需要好好沉淀。。。 打好基础。



胡敏，英专混混，生于天朝~~
11年23岁， 
1.大学毕业， 
没吃散伙饭，没有眼泪，就这么毕业了，4年本科该拿到的证书都拿到了，因为没有在那4年里狠狠地2一回，所以有些遗憾。 
2.找工作，跳了3次槽（中型民企--大型外企--创业型私企），现在干这一份看似没啥前途的工作。有找工作时的盲目与无助，也有放下一切follow my heart 的冲动，然而我知道，现在来说这样太过奢侈。 
3.周围的婶婶叔叔张咯相亲，不过没有相中，亲戚们也唠叨着我自己也老大不小，该谈谈恋爱咯 
4.想出国留学/工作，所以好好沉淀努力，靠自己的力量达成愿望，不想再靠父母 
5.努力学习，把祖国的大好河山走遍，加油吧 
6.没有勇气去帝都北漂或者南下上海， 朋友说你会遗憾的，现在留在父母身边却时常想着离开，抱怨着现实并期待将来 


23岁，梦依然还在，现实却在摇摆，加油加油，希望青春的2 还在。


李伟，热爱linux与开源精神
突然发现自己过年之后就是23了，大三，很迷茫，不知道未来的方向，作为自己计算机行业的人员，没有足够的耐心去些代码，总是写一半就浪费了，没有足够的毅力的坚持，创过业，没有成功，也不算失败，还在继续努力，总觉得自己现在前不着村，后不着店的感觉，自己的脚落不了实地，想努力，没有一个确定的方向



邓靖，程序员
今年刚刚开始我的23岁，希望一切都好吧。 
N年后我再来回答这个问题



lions，IT、软件工程、智能电视软件开发
刚刚24岁本命年，回想23岁刚刚过去的这一年， 
做了几个小项目，中规中矩地完成了任务，转正考核得了个A； 
技术方面继续积累； 
这一年依旧单身，过着平凡充实的生活； 
拿到了华为的offer，考虑一番决定放弃； 
I don’t want to continue working in Shenzhen, I’m too far away from home, and I’m a little tired


Zhang Junfeng, programmer
I just passed the Chinese New Year, and I just passed my 23 years old. 
Last year, at the age of 23, I graduated from university. 
I failed the postgraduate entrance examination at the beginning of the year, looked for a job, and didn't plan to go to any big city, so I stayed in Harbin. Although compared with classmates, the salary is a bit depressed, but I endured it. I have always been too impetuous, so I hope to learn something solidly in the company. 
Then I started my internship after May 1st, and officially started working after graduation. 
Thanks to the company's environment, I integrated very smoothly. After half a year of work, I probably have some goals for my future development direction. This is the main harvest.


Xue Chunjuan, heartless, idle, homestead rot [recent study?
23 last year, graduated more than half a year ago. Working in a technology company in Beijing, the salary and benefits are good. Will live well. Life is going well, which is my greatest blessing. I hope that I can always have such a good attitude in a few years and continue to live a good life!

Li Ziyue, a college student who has just graduated, is eager to make progress and is extremely bookworm.
In 1989, this year can be said to be 24 years old. I got my graduation certificate in July 2010, and I always felt that I was different from the people around me. I didn't want to do a job just to get money, just to have money. Then he came to a strange coastal city alone to pursue the life he wanted. After running in the talent market for a few days, I inexplicably did the sales job that I hated the most. I didn't want to come into contact with the hottest e-commerce, and fortunately found that this is also my favorite industry. However, the company's products are not complete. Although it is an e-commerce company, it is actually the same as other Internet companies and has no special features. The entire company is also always in turmoil, with fierce personnel struggles. I work hard every day, and I have no money in my pocket after eating. Then it is to learn sales and e-commerce knowledge. Then I just went back this year, feeling ashamed and ashamed of my family and girlfriend, although they are very supportive. But I know that I am not as hard as I imagined. ashamed. Every day I want to learn e-commerce by myself, but I don’t know where to start, so I just look at everything. At a loss. A classmate like me also gave up his stable job to find the life he wanted, but this time when he went back during the Chinese New Year, he was also short of money. He told me last night that he didn’t want to chase dreams that he didn’t even know. Important, he wants to make money. shock. Today I asked myself one day, how to get on the road, what do you still insist on in a job without money, but I don’t know how to do other things, at most I just eat my youth. Unwilling. At a loss, he will be forced to ask me about my plans for this year when I go back tonight. However, I firmly believe that e-commerce is a sunrise industry, and I must stick to it! It will find its way, it will!


Zhang Yafei, a nominal college student who is about to bid farewell to his student life
, will be 22 years old in a few days. He has recently started to try to find a job, but he still rejects the job search in his heart. Splurge without hesitation at such a splendid age. How should a female college student who has no advantages and is not a famous undergraduate undergraduate should live a wonderful life according to her own ideas? This will be my 23-year-old problem. But I still hope to keep thinking about this issue before I am 25, and I must not be worn out by the real society.


Anonymous User
Born in February 1989, I will be 23 years old in 5 days. According to the traditional calculation in the south, I was 23 years old last year in the Year of the Rabbit. At the beginning of 11, my mother was diagnosed with a pulmonary hemangioma, which coincided with the final exam of the junior year. On that snowy morning in Hangzhou, I received a call from my cousin, saying that my mother had an operation the next day and blood should be needed. My cousin is a small businessman who knows how to calculate. He advised me to go to a blood bank to donate blood immediately in order to save hundreds of dollars for the family (it is said that immediate family members can get some money back if they use blood, but the details are not very clear, and it was useless in the end. arrive). I had to brave the heavy snow and ran to the provincial blood center to donate 200cc. When I came back, I remembered that my girlfriend was still suffering from menstruation, and I went to the supermarket to buy red dates by bike in the snow... I went back to the dormitory to sleep, feeling very uncomfortable all over my body. 
When it was winter vacation, I saw the situation at home. Sad and anxious, I thought that my girlfriend might suffer because of me in the future, so I mentioned the breakup on SNS. Although I got back together at the beginning of school, it obviously laid a hidden danger for the future. 
Since then, my choices have always seemed so tragic and helpless. 
Due to my major and a second-rate school, my internship was tricked into moving dishes to a listed 5-star hotel in Xiaoshan. Thinking about wasting nearly half a year of precious time like that, I went back to school with a few classmates in spite of the objections of the school instructor, and almost got punished. About the end of March, I started preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination with my girlfriend, but within a few months I gave up again. Because there seems to be something wrong with the mother at home, objectively, I have to find a job with better salary and stability when I graduate from undergraduate. From the beginning of April to May, there are also some problems in the emotional aspect. Because you are young, you can't let the ups and downs of things affect your mood, and even affect your young love. Occasionally during the period, I "blamed" her in many ways, and most of the time it was "indifferent" as she said. In this way, in early May, I broke up with her painfully. This memory is really painful, because the smile and coldness changed so quickly, to be continued.


Cai Wei, freelancer
今年23了，觉得越来越彷徨了。去年7月头脑一热，放弃了自己法学专业，放弃了复习了差不多半年的司法考试。和朋友一起开了一家电脑店。开之前，觉得自己开这个店能够有所作为。之前也非常的有热情。这个行业本来竞争就很大，或者自己还非常的嫩。以前做什么都是觉得理所应当的，后来越来越是觉得自己被利用了。接着彷徨和情绪就来了。从去年年底，这种情绪就越来越深了。我想离开了，但是觉得有很多的东西束缚着我。友情这一关，之前自己承诺的要做两年，血本无归，团队的去向，这一切都成了我无法立刻下决定的阻力。但是现在这种状况确实远远的背离我当初的愿望。我也知道在这样留在这里，无疑对自己来说是有害而无利的。明天无聊的看店，上网，无目的的行事。这不是我要的人生。我想走了。但是我不知道我的下一站在哪，我也想有个明确的目标。哪个城市能够收留我呢，我能做些什么呢？离开后，很大一个问题是，我能拿回多少钱。虽说2-3万块在现在来说不是什么大数目，但是也是我现在非常紧缺的。投入了3万多，想拿回2万的，看来可能1万都不一定有的拿呢。 
离开吧，跟随你的心吧。我确实很想做自己想做的。但是自己很是没有勇气，难不成，这就是我的优柔寡断吗？ 
我想出去闯荡一下，有哪位前辈愿意指点一下吗？



SHIEH，????????
23岁, 大二, 疯狂的强 奸 百度, 三个月赚了4w多RMB的 Google Adsense. 过着每天睡醒就泡西餐厅吃牛扒喝下午茶, 晚上通宵打传奇, 凌晨睡觉, 睡醒继续西餐厅ing.. 重复了大半年...

后来参加了省软件设计大赛, 高校杯的,, 挂名出思路而已..

23岁, 年轻真好!
现在快29了, 毕业到现在一直做自己感兴趣的SEO, Web Design. 现在是 SEM Manager. 乐此不疲中. 有一个谈了差不多10年的女朋友, 房子买了, 今年看看买部车吧, 然后准备领个证.

谭法，回答问题也是一种思考的过程。
22岁，正在实习，正如问者，一无所有，一穷二白，一事无成，但还好并非一无是处。目前正处于被欺负的阶段，看眼色行事，领导老员工让干啥就干啥，马不停蹄的去做，生怕给人留下偷懒的印象。加紧学习和锻炼，如果听到人说：这小伙子挺棒的！我会很高兴！ 
希望23岁时能驾驭当前工作，结束光棍生涯。


杜玮，特长不明，缺点很多。 该死的泡芙的剪辑
下个月25岁。 
当初在21-23的期间，在年龄上有一种高不成低不就的感觉，因为在18左右的时候就一直期望能快点到20岁，而过了20岁还一直觉得自己很年轻，但是某种程度上又觉得自己已经该要慢慢成熟一些了，所以总是介于和人比年轻却又偶尔感叹已经不是少年了的纠结心理上。 
22岁过了4分之3的时候，因为22岁以及之前发生一切，终于再也忍受不了要那样和自己最爱的男朋友在一起互相伤害，于是彻底分开，第一次开始自己一个人住，营造了一个自己的小窝，带loft，并在快要到23岁之前，在小窝里置备了小沙发，地毯，总之是自己喜欢的一个环境，大体颜色在黑和灰。睡在loft上的床垫上，能听到楼上的走路声音打电话声音，还有一两次ooxx的节奏撞击音。然后开始拼死拼活的用打工时间填满自己，这样不孤独。23岁之前我们好几个人跟着店长一起把工作辞掉，于是自己开始在一家两个中国人开的小居酒屋打工，位于歌舞伎町，然后又找了一份可以在白天打工的咖啡店，学会了做咖啡，烤面包及好吃的吐司。工作安稳后，在之前说的店长的介绍下，去实现了考虑了好几年的事情，在胸前纹了燕尾蝶，于是心情大变好。接下来的半年都一直在努力打工，而接下来的一整年，也就是我的四年级，基本维持在每周去一次学校，结果出席率和成绩大大下降。而每周一次去的那天便是周四，是课程最多的一天，基本上周四要上课到块9点，所以周四在去上学的前提下会把晚上的工调成休息，然后为了第二天能准时去上课，于是经常在周三晚上一直面对电脑，看美剧看电影的一直到第二天早上该上学的时间。而到了夏天，我又开始各种玩，虽然一样天天打工，但一周有2，3天都会和人去喝酒，对了这时候有三份工，虽然其中一份一周只有1,2天去而已，然后时常会在早晨的6,7点才回家。期间前后养了两只仓鼠，第一只死了，第二只逃掉。夏末之前，在打工时不慎摔倒，左手虎口割破，去缝了三针，对一直没有身体大碍的我来说，是个小打击，于是咖啡店的工作在此时被我嘎然停止，由于手的伤势，也由于那时的情绪很不稳定，好像压抑了很久。然后在年底11月开始，更是在周六开始通宵打工，好像生活只有打工一样，那时把歌舞伎町当成了家，每天晚上回去，玩电脑到3,4点，然后睡到第二天下午3,4点去打工，是我最能睡得一年。在2010快过完的时候，开始考虑自己毕业后的事情，是回国，还是呆在日本。然后在元旦瞒着父母飞回北京，呆了十天，又飞回去。结果导致我回国心切，于是在24岁之前的2,3个月我都一直在纠结毕业后的归属。好在学校很好通过，于是交了份“最喜欢的五句话及理由”的题目之后，顺利毕业，却在毕业典礼那天，遭遇最大地震，所幸自己所在的地方只有5.8级左右，所以在毕业仪式的酒店呆了24小时后步行到有地铁运行的车站，终于在第二天中午到达东京新宿，深感“终于回到了家”。从此人生观有所改变，地震一个月后，彻底回国。 
Now maybe I have set some life goals for myself, but I am a casual person after all, so I may move towards the goal when I have a chance, but maybe someday I will have new hobbies again subverted.


 


Chen Hong, I can’t introduce you in a word


. I am 23 years old today. My previous birthdays were very happy, but now I am not


 


saharabear, slacker,
20 years old, and I have just started to grow up .


 


Jin Xiaoguang, a newcomer in web technology, came to learn
. Sigh how fast time flies. In the future, I can no longer use my young age as an excuse, and I must take responsibility. Now I am working hard every day to make money; I usually read a lot. Keep a diary every day, write down what you do every day, and avoid wasting time. 
Hehe, I can no longer be cute all day long


 


Zhang Zhongjie, on the road, welcome B2C SEO friends to exchange
23-year-old college graduates Father passed away from cancer and understood a lot of truths that I have not understood in 23 years Shanghai is engaged in SEO and data analysis and other work, married and have children, everything is fine.


 


Wang Qian, a cranky person, a person out of vulgar interests
Let me talk about the present first. As a senior student, I left school and went to Guangzhou for an internship in July last year. I found all the internship units by myself. Some classmates who are freer than me have already found a house, so I squeezed with them, and 4 people can live in a room of 20 square meters. In July and August, the weather in Guangzhou is really hot. When I step on high heels and go out to find a job, sometimes I take them off and hold them in my hand when I am really tired from walking. After walking around outside and returning home, there are black and white stripes on the feet, which is very obvious. When I found a job, I started to go to work. I doubted the meaning of life all day long. I always felt that I shouldn’t work here. I wanted to travel, even if it was a poor trip, but I didn’t have the courage. Every day is very uncomfortable and unhappy. Two months later, I changed a job, and after a few days, I started to think about it. I realized that this was a problem with my mentality. I persisted for another two months, and finally one day I suddenly figured it out in the bathroom of the office and started to love work. Hope this state can continue. 
现在22，,23岁就在不远的未来。


 


卢铮，市场营销
23岁，即将毕业，不知道该往哪个方向



刘立平，关注新媒体、新闻，扯淡人士
年底的时候我也好好写写我的23岁。




一臻见血，想运筹帷幄来着
@23岁 二十四岁时生日在过来写吧~


 


谌斌，圈，觉得恨，离不
23，热恋中。 
现在，热恋中。


 


高登伟，软件技术专业毕业生 GEEK道路前进者一?
23岁 我先想到的是 咦 实岁还是虚岁 
同事说出来混 要报虚岁 
咦 那不就是今年吗...我签了一份轻松的工作三年 主要是为了有宽裕的时间做自己想要做的事情 
我是个程序员出身的美工设计 除了工作 我还跟朋友合伙做项目 还找了兼职 生活除了没有妹子 一切美好


 


豆豆喷，一起打游戏的美好时光已不在
23岁折折腾腾，大学毕业，职业开始。每天的想法几乎都会变，没有男朋友的第23年，工作的第一年，挣钱没有存款的第一年。


卡比，game designer
现在还是22 但不知道22 23的区别 于是也写写把 今年大学毕业 然后要保研继续读书三年 然后现在在一个创业的互联网公司实习 虽然没有做自己最想的写code 但是也感觉学习到了很多 其实现在也很迷茫 到底未来要做什么 打算实习到5月 6月买好票去台湾 7月打算几个同伙骑车去西藏作为毕业旅行 然后 9月准备回来上课 期间打算思考下 到底未来的规划


 


陈小军，在校学生，交互设计、用户研究~~
在高中复读了一年，不然23岁的我也应该大学毕业了，但是现在还在学校。 
23那年，我组织的设计团队接了一些设计项目，但是由于缺少经验与专业能力不足，导致所有的设计项目都早早结束。同时在这样的一个过程中，觉得在选择团队人员时，要选择有一定魄力，不要什么事情都要自己给意见的。不久团队解散，我呢？开始思考未来的学业、工作等问题，而在那时选择了考研，考的学校对于学本专业的童鞋们都有点意外。 
既然个人决定考研了，但是父母亲不同意，因为他们可能没有那个能力来提供我研究生的费用，但是经过一系列的工作，不管是经济上的还是心理等其他方面的。 
7月份做了考研的方向决定，考X学校的Y专业，在经过一系列的思考与信息收集，我开始了算是忙碌而有不忙碌却带有点焦虑的考研生活。 
考研的过程中，有5个算是志同道和的研友，8月的一个月，我们基本上都在一起学习，去学习的自习室。而转眼的9月份开始了，由于各种原因，我们几个研友在一起去自习室的机会渐渐少了。但我们都知道其他人都在用不同的方式努力着。9月低，桂林阳朔毕业旅游，这是个美妙的5天，我们去桂林与阳朔兜了一圈又回来了，期间翘了某两位老湿的课。 
10、11、12月份陆续有童鞋找到了工作了，而我也在家人的压力下，在12月份找了个貌似还不错的工作，但是由于要考研，就没有签合同，同时也没有去那边实习。 
第二年1月份，我参加了研究生的入学考试，2月份，去了交互设计委员会实习，说是实习与做毕业设计，我们笑着去了，但是3个星期过后，我们有哭着回来了，我们被坑了。 
在考研完不久，有个公司要我去实习，我推辞了，但是现在，我是一个在努力找工作与做毕业设计的焦虑人儿。 
4月份初，我参加X学校的复试，复试前，我知道这应该是去做炮灰的了，10个复试招收2个，而我只是排名第九，这不是坑爹吗？ 
现在已经24了，研究生没考上，调剂的机会也没用，工作没着落，毕业设计也拖着没什么进展，但是17号中期答辩了，要是这两天不弄成点东西，那么毕业都可能是个问题啊。 
所以，现在是我迷茫与焦虑的时期。要面对很多的............


 


黄倩君，大三学生
现在的我21岁，大三学生，下学期即将实习，正在迷茫当中。 
很好奇，23岁的我，会是什么样子的我。


郭同学，浙江工商大学学生
离23岁还有两年，希望是个美好的年华。

石瑞，努力学习翻译ing。
23岁已经过去大半年了 今年考研武大未果 昨天得知结果 忍着眼泪给关心过我的人发短信 多少算有个交代 今天仍然凌乱中 自认为复习的很用功 也信心满满 想过很多考上了要干的事 学吉他学法语去旅游找妹纸之类的 可能想过十万遍 但没考上这个结果可能想了连十遍都没有 所以结果一出来有点儿慌乱 先接着学翻译吧 一条道走到黑了 是否二战还在考虑 挺无奈的 
结果出来的时候的第一个念头和唯一一个念头就是：我要回家。


罗韧，通信运营商小兵一名、历史科幻自由行爱好者
23岁，研一，遇到非常好的老师，可以平等地讨论和争辩，一生的幸运; 
还没从一场死亡的恐惧中走出来；面临另一场死亡的威胁。 
学了实变函数，觉得很有意思.没学会matlab，后来论文模拟计算找人帮忙了，遗憾~ 
简单的生活，简单的恐惧，简单的快乐和烦恼。

He Da, whose career is finance, is more interested in science and technology.
That was in 2010. After the Spring Festival, at the beginning of March, I just passed my 23rd birthday. The next day, he was dispatched to Guizhou by the company headquarters as the so-called financial director. At that time, I had only been in the company for 8 months. If counting the length of service, it is estimated that I was the financial staff who was dispatched the fastest. 
The registered capital is 50 million, and the two financial personnel, the cashier and I, are extremely busy. 
Insomnia for several nights. 
Stay up all night to produce the first real financial statement in my life. First tax return. Run national tax, land tax. 
Discuss financing with the bank with the boss. Issue the first silver ticket. 
There are not enough VAT invoices, and various customers are standing outside the window waiting for me to issue an invoice. Then, upgrade to the million yuan version within a month. 
First gift. The amount does not count as a bribe. 
By the time of the World Cup, it was already more than enough. 
The round-trip between Changsha and Guiyang is almost once a month. 
Then was assigned an accountant, freed from chores. 
I am single at the age of 23, and I met friends such as Fatty, haha. 
Present: I returned to Changsha after finishing my assignment last year. I have been eating the old things I learned when I was 23 years old and before the age of 23, and I didn’t learn any specific new things, which made me think about changing jobs. Or prepare for a test.

Cai Kailong is 23 years old in the financial analysis position of a communication company
. . . It was last year, this year is the year of birth, so fast. 
When I was graduating at the age of 22, I made an appointment with my friends when I would see them. . . But until now, I haven’t seen any of them 
. After reading the messages from everyone in the building, I feel very deeply. This world is very fucked up, so we have to work harder. 
For the people and things you care about. .

Zhang Ren
At the age of 23 last year, he graduated to Sina and officially became a programmer. I think now is my low point. I have no motivation at work. I don’t continue to learn every day when I know that I still have to work hard. Looking back on my previous efforts, I don’t feel this way during the hard work. I think I may be numb , needs to be changed. 
In love, the girl I pursued is the kind of person who has a lot of experience in being pursued by others. She asked me for help with peace of mind, and then politely refused me. I planned to give up. 
I am getting more and more nerdy, more and more literary, and I will go to a coffee shop to serve dishes part-time in a few days. I just thought about it and signed up. I hope that life can slowly move forward in the direction I like. 
My 23 years have just passed, the future has not yet begun, I have no reason to believe in myself, the trough is only temporary, everyone has a bright future.

Mai Tian, ​​a young woman on Douban who loves to travel,
has read many stories of 23-year-olds. Let me also join in the fun and talk about mine. 
I am 23 years old, right now, a second-year graduate student of an unpopular major in illegal studies in a political and legal college, and I still have more than a year of student life. The motivation for choosing the postgraduate entrance examination was very simple. I didn’t know what I could do. It was not a great school, and I didn’t have any good internship experience. Everyone was going to take the civil service exam. I didn’t want to take this path. So let's take the postgraduate entrance examination and let me spend 3 years thinking about what I can do. 
从09年开始跑了不少地方，基本上每年能去上十个城市，爱上了在路上的感觉。现在在某家旅行类互联网公司实习。做内容运营。实习前对内容运营一无所知，觉得到了旅行类的公司是遵从了内心那颗不安分的心。从去年11月份开始到现在，实习快半年，工作很杂乱琐碎，大到策划发活动小到快递奖品等等事情都要做。我跟同学或朋友说，我在XXX实习，他们第一反应是，很适合我。其实公司属性和工作内容完全是两码事。说来好笑，身在旅行类的公司，但实习以来我的旅行次数骤减，因为被工作束缚着，责任心告诉我不能因为自己想玩儿而怠慢了工作。目前遇到一点小瓶颈，觉得工作没大突破。我也不确定这是不是我喜欢和想要的工作和生活。认真思考是不是在六月份合同期到后还要继续留在这儿。之前的想法是，在读研期间多换几家公司实习多试着做几个岗位，看看自己到底喜欢什么适合什么。 
这是我的23岁和迷思。希望能在7月前找到答案。

卢德满，默默无闻的网站编辑，不会技术，爱折腾?
还没有到23周岁 不过也快了吧 等到了在来这里放话 
立此为证

Fang Zhiyi Yuri, young interaction designer, BD. Love the Internet. 
There is still a long time away from 23, and I am currently graduating. Work for a company I like. If you plan to meet the conditions in the future, apply for an on-the-job graduate student. Specialize in the Chinese road and future of travel hotels. In terms of feelings, there is a good object. She doesn't care that I don't have a car or a house now. In the future, I will learn more and do something. Before 25, I will not save money too deliberately. Want to travel more with people you like ~ Expand your knowledge and mind.

Xuan Mo, Financial Mathematics
I didn’t know about Zhihu until I saw this article on campus. After watching many people's 23 years old, I found that any time can be a turning point of fate, and I found that human beings' ability to resist setbacks and potential are extremely powerful, and I began to believe in myself. 23ing, graduate student is about to graduate, I am struggling online for Ph.D., I don’t know if I can get a scholarship to continue my studies. I feel that I have found a direction I like, but I can't calm down to study recently. I feel that there are many things to do but I don't know how to start and give myself many excuses. During the Easter holiday, I traveled to several cities with my classmates and communicated with some people. Feeling worthless and doing nothing well, wondering where the urge to submit the application came from a month ago. I am slowly adjusting, I still believe that everything will get better, and I still believe that I can work harder.


Xu Pengzhe, Zhihu user 12430
graduated last year. He was just 23 years old in February. He has worked in an Internet company in Beijing for almost two years (including the internship), and everything is going well. Fortunately, he met a good leader. He is also a teacher and a friend. . It's just that Yali is not small, and there is almost no day without overtime. But I don't complain, and sometimes I enjoy the process, although sometimes I work overtime until I collapse. . You should work hard when you are young, and hope that at the age of 23, your dreams can set sail. Love is a thing, look for it slowly, don't be in a hurry


Elvis Jia, like full of love
I am 23 years old this year, have a regular job, and a person who loves each other. 
I can say that I am lucky. I love this job and meet all kinds of people. I will be angry or happy or helpless. 
小时候，我只爱妈妈，(楚楚街http://www.chuchujie.com特约编辑供稿)叛逆期我两个都不爱，曾经我爱我的初恋，现在我最爱自己也爱我的父母，而我的男友，我希望我是爱他的。 
明年就23周岁了，我不知道会发生什么，也许还是会跟现在一样悠哉哉地度过，也许我又进入了另一个阶段。 
我想要很多很多爱，但是也发现在获取爱的同时也增长了我的阴暗面，我不知道会不会有一天，面具掉下来，丑陋的我曝光于人前，希望那一天离我还很远很远。


Iris Zhou，英语翻译
离23岁还有半年，开始工作也快2年了。 
大三到大四那年暑假开始实习。 
一年的实习中换了5次工作，因为一直在寻找自己到底要做什么。 
因为实习，没时间回学习做毕业设计，最后答辩的时候差点挂掉。 

去年毕业，开始从事自己比较感兴趣的翻译工作。 
吃住在家，周末练车，上口译课。 
赚了一点点钱，马上就花光，因为觉得没有后顾之忧。 
今年，父母离婚。 
家里不再给我提供经济支持。一个人搬出来跟人合租。 
每天下班挤公交，再走路回家。 
到家后要自己买菜做饭，然后打扫卫生倒垃圾（室友不怎么打扫）。 
然后打开电脑，开始做兼职。一般做到10点或12点，收拾一下房间，睡觉。 
有时候觉得自己越来越像个机器人，甚至希望自己是机器人，不用吃饭，不用喝水上厕所。 

现在正在准备5月份的考试。 
周末的课程还在继续，但是停课了一个月，开始有些松懈了。 
Some people thought I was working two jobs too hard. However, this is the only way to maintain a decent life, and it is also very happy to spend your own money to enjoy life. 
Next year, I don't know if I will go to the postgraduate entrance examination. 
Thanks to the past 2 years, I have learned a lot and let me find my direction. 
At the age of 23, I hope to go one step further towards my dream.