Every year on February 3rd and 4th, it is a very dull two days for most people, but it is a very difficult two days in the minds of graduate students. It is the fruit of a year of hard work. People can't sleep at night, anxiously waiting for the results of this year, but you need to know that everything is impossible to be perfect, not to mention the examination of talent selection like this, there will always be someone who will win, along with Some people are destined to lose. Today is No. 6. Maybe you have come out of the sadness, or you are still immersed in sadness, or the moment you see your first test results, you will cry With a full face, you feel that this year is finally not in vain, and then immediately notify your family, boyfriend/girlfriend, relatives, etc., so that they can spend this New Year as happy as you. And those who fail the postgraduate entrance examination, this new year, maybe they don't want to spend their whole life, but what I want to tell you is that for postgraduate students, every step you take counts, even if you fail on this road, it is not It means that you will be so down in the future.
Under the Chinese education system, the college entrance examination and postgraduate entrance examination should be a problem that plagues most students. Many people want to change their hometown or their own destiny through the college entrance examination. When you enter the university, you will feel that all the subjects you study are the same. It is very basic. It is really rare to really practice in society. After graduation, you will only do some basic jobs, and the salary is very low. Not to mention changing your hometown, even if you change yourself in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, there are problems, so you think Advancement may be your only path. After all, you are not a god, so you chose the path of postgraduate entrance examination. During the college entrance examination, there will be many people to help you, your classmates, your teachers, your parents, there will be someone to supervise you all the time, reminding you that they will be by your side, preparing for the exam with you day and night, while postgraduate entrance examination , it's your battle alone, except for the encouragement of your parents, your beliefs, the rest is ridicule, you still take the postgraduate entrance examination, we have all found a job, I will go to work in Shanghai tomorrow, etc., and then you will have various Doubt yourself, why do I have to take the postgraduate entrance examination, what should I do if I can't pass the entrance examination, what should I do if I can't find a good job, and finally
after two or three days of ideological struggle,
you still insist on your beliefs and walk on this road, because You feel that you must have a dream, to realize it, through trials and tribulations.
This year, you didn't care about anything unrelated to the postgraduate entrance examination, gave up all social interactions, lived a three-point and one-line life all day, shuttled between the library, the cafeteria, and the dormitory, what you see every day is not Zhang Yu is Zhu Wei, or Xiao Lao. Suddenly you feel that the three years of college are the most fulfilling time. You will feel that what you learn in a day is almost what you learn in a week in freshman and second year. I regret that why I didn't study hard in my freshman year and sophomore year. Now I can relax. You will encounter a lot of knowledge points that you have never seen, or knowledge points you are not familiar with. You slowly chew on them and say in your heart, who didn’t come here like this, but interdisciplinary classmates, or even worse , I am not familiar with professional courses at all, I only start reading books very early, take notes bit by bit, and nibble on three or four completely unfamiliar textbooks, just for a belief, want to get rid of this boring life, they say ordinary is precious, But who is willing to give up everything for the ordinary, but just grit his teeth and don't want to live an ordinary life.
As time goes by, all the students around have found jobs and completed their graduation thesis, but you are still in the dead library, nibbling on incomprehensible knowledge, you start to waver again, you don’t want to persist, and you start to adjust your mentality again, Force yourself to persevere. Gradually, you feel that it doesn't matter. Now that you have reached this stage, you should study hard. After all, you cannot lose.
When the day of the exam finally arrived, you cried when you came out of the exam room. You were an adult, but you still couldn't control yourself. You felt that the struggle for sleepless nights this year was in vain. On the road, you don't want to talk to anyone, and you don't leave your mobile phone in your hand. At this time,
If you don’t have a mobile phone, you will be afraid that someone will call you and ask you how you did in the exam. When asked about you, you would say that it was okay. At that time, you had a smile on your face, and the college entrance examination seemed to be unimportant to you. At this time, after three years of hard work, you have gradually matured. , It's so hard to say if you didn't do well in the test.
On the day of the results,
even at twelve o’clock in the evening, everything was
quiet, and
you were still looking forward to a glimmer of hope, staring at the web page, refreshing the URL countless times, and at the moment when the results came out, you might cry or Weeping with joy.
But what I want to say is that every step you take counts and is precious. After a few years, when you look back on this year, you will be moved to tears. You used to insist on your own because of your dreams. After a year, you were ridiculed and left out, but you still did not give up, you will remember countless days and nights, you still used a pen to count high numbers, and every morning you held the words of love, recited it over and over again, and brushed the real questions countless times. ,simulation.
Even so, you still lose, or you win.
If you lose, no matter whether you choose World War II or employment, follow your heart. After all, if you are in World War II this year, I don’t know if you have strong courage and determination. If you are employed, you also need to learn. As a fresh graduate student, if you are unhappy and succeed in the postgraduate entrance examination, you also have a lot of ways to go, facing a series of annoying things such as papers and jobs, so it is not easy.
Everyone has their own way to go, no matter which one you need to take care of, education is only an improvement for yourself, what you get in postgraduate entrance examination is depth, and work is breadth. Learning in breadth makes up for depth, and working in depth makes breadth.
So, don't be sad, just move on.
—Bless the 2018 postgraduates, and best wishes to the 2019 strugglers.
2018.2.6