As we all know, the life of 996 in IT is not universal. The reason why I often talk about this topic is because something happened yesterday, and my wife broke out. The way things, but aroused me some thoughts! The following is the circle of friends sent by my wife and the WeChat message to me. Under the picture, don't laugh
The whole background is:
Our company has received a major customer since March 2020, but the functions that have never been done before, plus I have to charge myself, and occasionally toss with small projects I like, so it is basically 696 (6 o'clock) for a year now. Starting from home / going home at 9:00 / 6 days a week), and my daughter was born on 2020/09/17, so I feel that I have squeezed my sleep, rest and entertainment time a lot, but I still feel that my time is not enough, I didn't take care of my family, I didn't fulfill my responsibilities as a husband and a father. Now my daughter is 6 months old, and I feel calcium deficiency (I don't have a good rest at night, and sometimes my arms and legs are uncomfortable and wake up), so I have the first One picture, my wife thinks I don't care, and then he is in a bad mood and has a second picture!
After I was rubbing hard last night, I promised that my wife was finally not so negative. The method is:
1. No overtime this Saturday
2. Time schedule:
Take the kids to the mall on Saturday morning and buy supplies for kids
Take my wife shopping on Saturday afternoon, shopping for clothes
Zhou Tian took my wife to climb the mountain and have a farm banquet!
With a picture of my daughter, I really look more and more rare:
My frustration:
In fact, I also know that work is for a better life. This kind of 996 even working longer hours is completely putting the cart before the horse, but there is really no way!
My starting point is a good one, I just want to add a little more income to my family
I work hard for my family, but I can't balance the two. If I sacrifice my job to take care of my family, then my salary may not change, but my amateur income may be cut in half, but if I am like now The same job, I really have no life. When I leave in the morning, the baby is still asleep, and when I go back in the evening, the baby is asleep again. I only have one day to accompany the child on weekdays. It is no exaggeration to say that the baby is so good at recognizing people now that I won't let me hug him. , I cry! !
how to change
In fact, I haven't figured out how to change it myself, and it's very contradictory, so I want to hear if you have such doubts, how to coordinate family and work?
If you have any opinions, you can leave a message to me! !