"In fact, I don’t know when I started. I like simple life more and more. Maybe it’s because I feel a little tired from a complicated life. People don’t need much. The more simplified I feel, the happier, because I don’t need to spend a lot of time taking care of some. Matter. I have a lot of time to think about."
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Simplifying my life makes me happier,
The prosperous life has never been so good
Simplifying life does not mean negativity. Simplification is wisdom. For a long time, I thought that if I had something, I would be happier. For example, if I had a big house, I would be happier. If I had a car, Will be happier, if I live abroad I will be happier, etc.
But when I really had it, I didn’t feel how happy I was. The ability of material things to improve happiness was limited. After I had more material, my life became more complicated, and it took a lot to maintain this complexity. Great energy.
Hotels and cafes are actually the same, just a house, and you can go occasionally, but if you go often, you feel better at home. Of course I am not very rich, and may not be convincing to some students. But I think the happier thing for people is family harmony.
The love of family and friends, caring for each other, these loving emotional support is what makes me happier. I cherish more than those cold buildings and some things.
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The result of simplifying life is
I love life itself more
I don't need to spend a lot of energy to maintain a balance of wealth. I can spend more time doing more meaningful things, doing things I like, such as reading, writing, helping others and so on. After eating a lot of food in the restaurant outside, I still feel that the food at home is better.
I don’t know if everyone feels the same. I spend a lot of time at home preparing a delicious meal for my family. When I see that my family is eating very fragrant, I feel so happy. The happiness is deeper than buying an Apple notebook.
After simplifying life, I prefer life itself, the small details in life, these details make me love life more. Of course, I will also work very seriously, which is not conflicting, but the reason for work is because I love work, and it is a pursuit to achieve the best.
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I can count on nothing,
I just like to simply complete my mission
For me, what I am thinking about now is what I want to do, and I feel that the prosperity that the world pursues is actually just a kind of value. For humans, more values are artificially defined, things that everyone likes, such as success, money, etc.
There are certain historical reasons for this. Of course, I also agree that money can make people handy, but if you just pursue money itself, this is just a universal value, but it is not the only value. The most meaningful and valuable to a person must be the ability to love others.
When we can really learn to love others in this world full of evil but still a lot of good. And pass on your love to others. Let those who are hurt in the heart feel love, so that they can cheer up and live a life full of hope. This is a valuable life.
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to simplify is to self-discipline,
The more simplified, the more self-disciplined, the happier
We don't need much, but we want too much. There are many things that are useless to us, but we can't help buying some unused goods. As a result, there are so many things in the house that the storage room can't fit.
In fact, to satisfy our selfish desires, such as presumptuous eating, or buying some electronic products, clothes, etc. These only satisfy temporary desires. If this continues for a long time, not only will it lose money, but it will also be bad for the body. The food outside is not too clean. It is unhappy in the long run.
The more we can restrain our lips, the more we can restrain our behaviors, thoughts, and words, we can get high-level satisfaction after self-discipline. This satisfaction is not a loss, but a long-term, plain, but deep satisfaction. In the long run, although we have not gained anything materially, we are happy spiritually.
The world is as evil and evil as it is, and as good as it is, we can choose what kind of life we can live, a simple life, a life of ordinaryness, helping others, helping ourselves, taking our own responsibilities, and Try to live in harmony with everyone, love them, and love yourself. This is a successful life.