To put it simply, this is the story of a college student who quit his job during the probationary period at a snack bar and did not have any wages, and then recovered his wages.//In my timeline, it was about 30 minutes in total, 15 minutes to understand the common sense of the law, take notes, what do I want To resolve the negotiation, 15min actually participate in their mediation.
The cause of the incident:
One afternoon on January 22nd, 2021, I went to the milk tea shop to send a courier to xxx, and then took out the number and sat opposite a junior high school girl. I read the book for a while and heard countless sighs, I couldn’t stand it. I took a curious look at her book. It turned out to be a five-year college entrance examination and three-year simulation paper. Then she sighed a few times and then left. I continued to watch for a while. Some gai children were talking outside, which affected I planned to transfer to the library to continue my studies, so after saying goodbye to the milk tea brother, he walked on the road to the library. During the period, I ran into my mother and saw a girl talking to my mother. I went to my mother. Say hello, and then ask what she is doing. Mom said: "This girl is working in the probationary period of xx shop, and she quit her job, and the boss doesn't pay her" (it may be that this girl sees my mom is a city manager, come to consult my mom, how to solve it My mother didn’t understand this matter very well, it might be because she didn’t want to be troublesome, maybe she was powerless), and then after the girl left and said a few words with her mother, I went to the library and sat in the library. After watching the count of the phone, I suddenly thought that no matter whether this matter can be solved by me or not, I should understand a little bit. After all, this matter may happen to myself, or it may happen to the people I care about. I started searching "during use" How to do dismissal, how to recover wages, how to defend rights according to law" article and Bilibili's video.
Then typed a draft on the paper,
This is the draft made at the time, which may be blurred. I rewrite it.
Then I went to the library to learn how to talk about it, how to convince the employer (that is, the boss and an uncle). I thought that if it succeeds, dopamine and adrenaline will be secreted at once. I am happy. Then if it fails, it will be very difficult. Embarrassing, the boss may say to care about your ass, you go and tell, I am not afraid of such scenes, but no matter what, a sophomore girl came back to find a more difficult part-time job, encountered this kind of thing, as a fresh graduate and Contemporary college students (to ease the atmosphere), goose..., let's go.
So when I arrived at the store, the weather was sunny in the afternoon. Let me attach a picture. I forgot to take a picture at the time. I remembered to take a picture when I was doing things at night. This is the shop on the left.
Location of the crime: At the intersection of Xiaoxiaokou and Heping Road. Time of the crime: around 5:00 pm. Persons in the case: Sophomore girl and her mother, uncle of the shop owner and their employees
The cause of the matter: I have already talked about it above, so I won't repeat it.
Solution: ①Legal common sense ②Conciliation with affection and reason.
Result: everyone is happy (personally thinks to a large extent)
Detailed description: Before I arrived, I thought that the girl was still there, so I ran for nothing, and I didn’t know which shop was at the time. Then I saw a group of people around, I saw the girl’s mother, aunt and the boss uncle It was too arguable. I first stepped forward and listened to the content of their quarrel. Auntie stood in front of the uncle’s shop, clamoring for her rights, and had some angry words (all you understand), so no matter what, I used the first aid to support the aunt. She patted her sleeves and said, Auntie can solve it, I prepared it, and can go through the formal channel. Aunt seems to be still on the start, and then the girl came to persuade her mother that his mother is a city manager. I just asked. Then the aunt came down, they were still arguing, and then I asked the girl to take care of her mother, I took my uncle aside, and did not make a harsh expression, but calmly said to the uncle, and said something to appease the uncle. (Probably the content is, the uncle first calmed down, understand, the aunt is also in anger, my daughter was wronged, the mother is not distressed, understand, the uncle’s brows seem to slowly lowered, I took my hat and Mask plus this color-changing glasses [Sunglasses] Buff bonus, a little bonus), and then talked to my uncle about the content of the notes I just made (very old-fashioned [picture content]), and then said, this matter You don’t have any reason, balabala, telling your uncle that you don’t want your children to encounter this kind of thing outside, right, you don’t have much to give the front to others, so as not to waste more time with these things. Really get it up, the store's suspension of business is the best time of the New Year, isn't your rent loss, and it affects the reputation of the store. Then the uncle gave the money to the girl, and the girl stamped a red stamp on a resignation form, and the matter was over.
After the end, the girl added me to WeChat and said that she wanted to invite me to dinner. She must not refuse. She also took the paper back and collected it. Hehe, I’m a little happy, but I won’t go because it’s also hard-earned money. , And I just uttered when it was time to speak, and that’s all. I have also gained something, such as the importance of common sense of law. When encountering problems, don’t always use the thinking of “convincing people with reason” to solve them. Sometimes both parties Speaking of this "reason", it gradually shifted to the topic. The importance of cultivating legal thinking is still necessary, and it is also quite interesting. My own legal half-pot is only something that Baidu has, and it comes in handy. If you help people, why not do it, and think about bad results, but once in your life, do something memorable. In fact, uncle is not a bad person. I would imagine that uncle is my father, and I am using people here. When people suddenly quit their job, there will be some emotional problems. I will think about it from the perspective of a girl’s mother. If my cub is wronged, he must be a cub. There is also the generation of our father’s generation with low education level. (At least our small city is like this), when encountering things, it is easy to use emotions and often cannot solve problems well. I also thought of what Teacher Luo Xiang said, this world is often not a duel of good and evil, it is often good Showdown with goodness. Uncles and aunts are all very well, and this is how emotionally they are.
This girl is a sophomore student and is studying in other provinces. I still suggest that in the sophomore year, apart from the special need to work part-time to make money, she should think about how to improve herself and do some things that interest her. Four years of university is very precious. Don’t spend time. Spend the time and money your parents invest in you to do some uneconomical things (look at it dialectically, not one-sided, not absolute, specific things are analyzed in detail)
So: suggest, summarize, reflect, gain
Think twice before doing some things, consider issues from other people’s perspectives from multiple perspectives, and think that common sense of law is very important, and you must have the awareness of legal rights protection. Don’t move out the legal provisions rigidly, and speak it warmly. After all, everyone It's not as bad as I imagined. Mostly, the heart with warmth lives in the left atrium , and the dialogue with Old Chen made me deeply reflect on myself. There are some things that I still have to strive for by myself. People need a process.
By the way, attach some job hunting experience questions, it is useful to do one at most one minute.
