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Strictly speaking, I only know two rich second generations, and I only know them purely without too much contact.
The first one, I have forgotten his name. It is a colleague of mine when I was working in Suzhou, who was tall and thin.
At first, I was kind of wondering that every time my buddies went out for dinner with us, they would always leave a little earlier. When we finished our meal and went to checkout, we realized that the buddy left early and went to help us pay for the meal.
The meals are not expensive, they are all home-cooked meals. But this kind of behavior still made us embarrassed. At the same time, I felt his friendliness, generosity, and decentness. Therefore, a few times later, I also found many reasons to leave for a while in advance to silently pay the money.
For a long time, I didn't know that he was a rich second generation. It was not until some time after he left his job that he heard his colleagues say, "His family opened a factory and he went back to inherit the family business."
After listening to it, I was a little surprised, why is the rich second generation so invisible? Are they all so low-key? The key is to get along very friendly. If I knew it, I would have more relationships with him, haha. To be honest, I can't tell from my buddy's clothes, looks, and habits that he is a rich second-generation programmer.
The second one is the one I came across recently, so let's call him Xiao Zhang for now.
Xiao Zhang's father didn't know how to find my boss. The two parties signed an agreement to jointly develop a mall software. Xiao Zhang's father paid the money, and the boss's employee, I, was responsible for technology development.
To be honest, this little money is too little to match the identity of the rich generation of Xiao Zhang's father. If I talked directly with him about the money, the price would have to be at least 1.5 times higher. I don't know what the boss thought, so I betrayed my cheap labor.
In the process of business communication, Xiao Zhang and I met several times and we had a pleasant chat. After all, the ages are not much different (how many years = five). Xiao Zhang is thin, about 105 kg.
I was wondering, is there a lack of food and clothing in the rich second-generation family? How come they are as thin as my former rich second-generation colleagues? How can I have the same weight as I was five years ago, and how can I be as frugal as I am?
Xiao Zhang wanted to bypass my boss and cooperate with me on a new project, so he drove his Audi A8L and took me to his company for a tour, mainly to learn about their business and products in advance.
A whole floor, nearly 1,000 square meters, all owned by his family (buy it directly), with a design room, an exhibition hall, a coffee shop, a living room, a director’s office, and a massage room. In short, Chinese and Western A full set of services, very tall.
For the new project, Xiao Zhang really inherited his dad's good qualities, and his ideas were as good as those of his dad, and he didn't want to spend too much money. I could hear the tone. For this reason, I also jokingly said, "You are a big business and you are willing to buy a floor in the industry. Why can't you pay more for software development?"
Xiao Zhang smiled slightly and replied, "The budget is tight. At this stage, business is not easy to do. I lost a lot of money in the previous few months, so I want to quickly revitalize this market."
It seems that software development is a feeling that you can do it with your hands. Most business bosses probably have this kind of stereotype and don't know how to come to a conclusion.
Of course, except for project cooperation. Xiao Zhang gave me the feeling that he has the background of the rich second generation, but not the arrogance of the rich second generation, he is very humble, and there is no feeling of being superior in conversation, and his father, the rich generation, still feels very similar to me. Big difference.
His dad talked like that kind of very traditional boss style, "Let me tell you, little brother, we have been in this industry for 15 or 6 years. It can be said that there is only one of us in Luoyang, and we even have branches in many parts of the country. Beijing, Chengdu, Xi'an, Zhengzhou, if our cooperation this time is very happy, I will give you a big red envelope at the end of the year."
Sometimes, I have to admit that "the poorer the poorer, the richer the richer", there is a certain truth, adults, don't be disgusted with this sentence.
My sister, who was born in a rural family like ours, should work harder or better, but from her, she can’t tell at all. She is headstrong, doesn’t study well, and pursues material things. It hurts to brush the vibrato into her brain every day. .
Thinking of it, I also had such a time. Yesterday I chatted with Ao Bing (just 24 years old). He said he stopped playing games when he was sophomore. How about me? Before the age of 26, I often played games late at night.
The gap between anyone may be widening infinitely from the beginning. Although I have done better than many of my peers, there is still a big gap compared with truly outstanding people-I didn't realize it many years ago, and I was always a bit blind and confident.
Maybe I'm too harsh, and I can't see the shining point I want to see from my sister's body, so I am very worried about her future.
What about Xiao Zhang? My impression was that he worked hard, thoughtful, and organized. He would not be generous just because his family had money. When discussing projects with me, he was merciless when he should lower prices. But he also made me feel full of sincerity, without the feeling of "playing, not playing."
For such a person, there is no need to worry about his future.
Many friends may ask me curiously, "What is Xiao Zhang's daily life like?"
I can only say that this is beyond my imagination. During the meal, he showed me several apps on the phone, and put them in a folder named Efficiency. Of course, it was the last page. One of them is called Tantan, you know what I mean?
He also introduced me to the difference between these apps by the way-as for what kind of difference, I have now forgotten, and even the names of the other apps have been completely forgotten.
Xiao Zhang lives very frugally. He does not smoke or drink. He says that his monthly living expenses are five to six thousand yuan-for a rich second generation, I think it is really frugal because he is going to talk about business and see many customers. , Got meaning!
During the chat, Xiao Zhang strongly expressed that he envied my current state of life. This makes me angry, a rich second generation, envy me the life of an ordinary programmer? It's really a teenager who doesn't know how to feel sad.
Some people say that the rich second generation scum, the rich second generation does not need to work hard, the rich second generation likes to "make magic" (make money disappear), the rich second generation likes to show off, I can only say that it is only a part of the rich second generation, it does not mean All, this is not to say that I am defending the rich second generation-I don't have the leisure time.
I just want to remind my friends that there are many people working hard in the world, including those who are better than you and talented. In other words, only when you make yourself a competitive person can you attract the attention of others and let them actively seek cooperation with you.
In other words, if I have not published technical books, if I have not gained some influence from blogging, then there is no possibility of cooperating with Xiao Zhang, or even the possibility of communication.
People always seek better partners. Only when you have the value that no one else has, can you complete the counterattack. Even if you cannot counterattack, you can guarantee that you will not fall behind.
Put aside those worldly eyes, put aside the prickly eyes, treat a person with a normal heart, treat one thing, don't blindly diss, it will not be good for people or yourself.
There are some people who like diss in the blog garden. Every time I post an article, no matter what I post, there are always people who like to squirt. I used to think that Blog Garden is a very sentimental blog site, but it turned out to be the opposite. Recently, it gave me a bad impression.
Technical people, I think it’s better to be more calm, tolerant, optimistic, and peaceful. After all, we are the trendies of this era and should not be so hostile.
Speaking of the rich second generation, I feel that people are scumbags, not good; when it comes to those with low academic qualifications, they look down on them, which is not good; when it comes to trained people, they are scumbags, not good.
I am now 30 years old, but I always feel that life has just begun. I learned to tolerate, to persevere, to face myself, to get along with others, to be pious, and to develop in a low-key manner. So I found that I was excellent around me There are more and more people, and life becomes more enjoyable.
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