Enjoy solitude

When people believe that a person has quirks, behavior always some that are different, most will not go to learn more, to explore, but standing in the distance of this "loner" find fault, finds fault. People rush to the front of the sentenced person, then labeled, so that his identity to obtain a rationalization from their own hearts, to cover disturbed by their own lack of patience and lack of awareness embarrassment caused. Obviously, such a labeling behavior is too superficial and subjective. Herd of human habits, do not ask why the brain is lazy, because for most people, they think of itself, it is a luxury.

Still in school, every weekend I will be back to the old house. There is not only my childhood, and also the land of my soul sustenance. Standing room has two chairs, a time to sit alone at his desk, put on another visit when no one, stacked on top of some books; and so someone came, he gave the book removed, wipe the table with the usual small squares of cloth gently pat, then ask a friend to sit down. When people think and work always alone, whether or not someone around, is no exception. When a person truly persistent in pursuit of the ideal time, will not remember how lonely in the end. Because often accompanied by loneliness, seems to have forget it exists, it is not accustomed to it?

The so-called lonely, if it is due to the introverted and narrow-minded, it is often due to the extraordinary and lofty. If always sigh for their solitude, so that there is no good quality and enough will to resist alone. If there are people always say you are lonely, even bear to see you so, can not wait to take you out of trouble, the reason may be your body's perseverance, intelligent, indifferent and pure so that only you alone even in the shadow of the situation can calm face!

Too pretty beautiful people often have emotional loneliness, too good smart people who often lonely spiritual, because the they are difficult to find a suitable partner. But why is people tend to live in groups, so it is unbearable loneliness of the long-term suffering. Some people in order to get rid of loneliness, then to seek comfort and sensory stimulation, carpe diem, ie succeeded that worry. And some people in order to get rid of loneliness troubled, then to pursue enrichment and detached, trying to tread a heart longing for the temple. Human nature dictates, probably the same, and the process and the outcome was very different. The former lonely and sink, which is lonely and sublimation!

Whenever there is dinner, presided over whether their own or a friend's dinner, sitting at the table, even the table full of delicacies nectar, warm hospitality, but eating atmosphere lacking sincerity and truth, indeed fill the stomach, but still feel hungry Lulu. In fact, some people would rather boring do not want to loneliness, can not help but brag noisy at night called fair-weather friends; some people would rather lonely do not want boring, buried in a book until late rain has not already been aware windowsill James moisten. Because loneliness is boring for some people, for some people it is just lonely lonely. Lonely and boring people always feel that life flavorless, unknowingly waste of time, a long time for mediocrity. Lonely but to sit tight doors to people just feel a bit lonely, still obsessed with landscape scenery of spring, all alone, a handmade book, nor grief of Time goes by. You ask him happiness is not happiness, he said simply: I'm not alone. You said he was happy Ye Hao, lonely people can be self-sufficient from the music, which can be considered a blessing it.

Those willing to lonely walker, and more due to their own inner filling, do not deliberately go to interact with others to maintain the sense of presence, it will not sell ourselves short time to ask yourself the beginning of the heart, they always focussed on the landscape, like the aroma of spring flavored liqueur environment, loner, unrestrained and uninhibited always go hand with them, and there is free and easy life quality.

There is also a lonely injured, because hurt in life, you need a quiet place and then to shut himself up alone licking injury. In order not to suffer the same injury again, or do not want to touch the old scar, relive the original pain, thus closing his own, he went to the lonely. Such people, need a sincere friendship or because of pure love burning fire to dry their wet heart. In this way into the lonely, like a year-round beach huts windows and doors closed, lack of maintenance, no repairs, seemed deserted depressed, so that occasionally come here people chill gray, it can not break into the cabin. In fact, the huts inside the sofa bed is still clean, soft, dare to come in the man-is able to share a sense of warmth and pleasant. However, before that really need the help of others, but also need their own strength, to open ourselves up to moisture and rain blowing in the wind, and the sun according to Xu.

Everyone has given life to a unique interpretation of rights, even if only to be able to justify themselves, others did not need to go to the discretion whether or not it logical self-consistent. The meaning of life is to hope that the process of life is to constantly build hope, something to look forward to, have faith. To big to say, may be the way to the red carpet, the stars of the sea; little to say, it can be all the way Passion flower, singing fish late. Each have their own wonderful, each have their own well-being. Qian in "Fortress Besieged" in wrote: "There are only two people, such as a bunch of grapes hand a person pick the best to eat, and a man who best for last as usual to eat first. people should be optimistic, because he eat one every leftover grapes are the best; the second should be pessimistic, because he ate every one leftover grapes are the worst but the fact is just the opposite, reasons. is the second person there is hope, people only remember the first. " When I saw this passage of time, heart shocked, glad that they belong to the second person. Once the people have to look forward, there will be a beacon enduring power and guidance of the road. As "Walden" Thoreau wrote the author: If you are day and night to meet them with joy, and live like the same sweet fragrance of flowers, then life will be more flexible, brighter, more immortal. This is your success.

You can feel lonely unique charm is an ability. Treat lonely, lonely will be kind to you.