Question：
I really want to control myself, there are many important things knowing that it is very important but often do not take action, and do anything efficiency is very low, total brain like a loophole, tell me how to enjoy rather than struggle. I live every day like state, slept late in the morning and up late, then wash wash almost 10 o'clock, 10 o'clock start doing things not too late, ah, this time the brain will tell me all the eating 10:00 too late lunch in the afternoon to do, and then I ate lunch in the afternoon watching TV do brain said this also OK ah, watching the afternoon, said the brain can not do ah, do tomorrow also, always go after pushing.
I do not want to do this every day and want to do nothing unexamined goof up ≥﹏≤
In the end how to control myself, and then implement them really, really high efficiency to complete a project, I was really upset ≥﹏≤
Answer：
I exactly two years ago, at that time I was just a sophomore, in fact, already consumes a freshman year in this way, fewer college courses, the arrival of the computer, always want to play from time to time, often at a loss after the boot, not Gansha know, go with the flow play LOL, when people are playing around, I liked it, but that would be interested in entering the game only like it, do not open the computer you not want to play four quarters late will sleep, so I have gradually become daily routine sleep at night two points, from ten in the morning, wash after half past ten, not Gan is not embarrassed of time thinking about breakfast too late for lunch and too early, then endured Italy will play hungry computer, is to look at the post, video or something. Class to sleep, go to Internet cafes class together, roll up to the dark back bedroom, often 9:00 to eat dinner.
This went on for a month I actually had the alert, state of mind at that time the whole person is very sluggish, stuffy head, sometimes a person does not want to play the game alone, according to point want to eat, early hours, listen carefully in class, end of period not hanging branches. I think this was normal, but even if I have this awareness, I still lethargy to over two years.
Because you want to change their vigilance, compared to inertia, inertia, always fail to beat, combined with assimilation surroundings (at that time around the human condition and I am almost), impulsively want to practice their own life plan, a few days after the anti will feel too significant unexpected in the surrounding background, they feel alone and instead give up.
He began to tell stories.
Changing opportunity occurred in junior, that I almost gave in, have to accept their own piece of the way.
It was not the subject of a classmate and another tie a piece of collaborating laboratories reservation system, I call him Q, I told him the first impression is very deep, his mental outlook is very good, tall and straight, face clean, the whole face exudes Chaoyang temperament, eyes very God, the rationale for a plate-inch head. This is quite rare in computer science, and the students around me are not the same. A few days later found that he had contact with a very powerful feature is the speed of a decision very quickly, our group was six people, uneven level, he and a sister were the best medium I and two other people, there is a school slag, but at first we did not know each other is the end, the teacher gave two weeks, we get together to discuss the first two days to discuss, at the end of the next day, he spoke up, say excuse me when you made me head of it, I was a little surprised, but in fact, his ability is enough, we did not wait for an opening and then he immediately began assigning tasks, design and code he and the sister in charge of the system, the three of us to do the introduction and needs analysis, then let him learn slag do not come tomorrow, next week to sign a word, I thought it would be embarrassing to learn slag face, but people are happy to go. . .
Here you can see him deeper level of ability. First, a person of vision, two days to get along, he was able to judge everyone's ability and personality. Second, assign tasks according to their abilities, the ability of large anti difficult, the ability of small anti-Yi, can not afford to not carry. Third, very confident, aware of their ability to achieve the purpose, do it decisively.
Done the subject, I asked him to eat a meal, because it is very interested to pay his friend, he was very talkative, can say a lot of fun, very unique insights on current events. The more deep and communicate with him, the more I have a strong resonance, or rather self-ming, think he is the kind of person I want to be the ideal.
Talk about some of the details get along, he also played LOL, we open the black, he said that playing two games, will not play the third game, he was better than me technology will play a very Hi, but the time is up, he immediately put down the mouse will stand up and ready to go. I usually play two games might have been delayed, he will not, he will immediately disconnect when dealing with things at the end of the node, he will come out of their emotions, is not dragging its feet. And I myself will be substituted into the game, always in the mood.
After becoming friends, I feel I have got a lot of influence, such as playing games calm, things are no longer excessively bureaucratic, but he always felt kind of clear and invigorating realm also badly, these questions embarrassed and he said at the beginning, because I was actually him as an idol show, and there are times not intend to bring, he told me himself these habits are not born, but his father was a military officer, from primary school tutor very harsh rule a lot, he wants to reach the goal, get yourself think want, you can not step on mine, so preparations to establish in advance, must act decisively until high school graduation, these habits have been dipped in blood, has become a part of himself.
Looking back to see this friendship, he did not get involved in my life, our interaction is more like a gentleman indifferent to the turn, but my life had a huge impact, then I started in junior year, implemented a new the rest plans, get up, go to bed on time, running out every day. Read during "off Sheli" book for restraint concept items correspond to all aspects of life are in fact applicable, restraint friends, customary restraint, demands restraint, so much better than no practice restrictions. At least until we enter society, this habit will help us not lose the sense of proportion when from the Department.
In the final, I want to say, sometimes people will be like as bogged down into a comfort zone, standing in circles cozy and hopeless, Batui want to come out and will be stuck inertia, inertia being dragged back again. You may also want to meet a friend I met with the same world you go out of the loop, but it really will not know coming out of the circle is a paper tiger, I have always been holding you back yourself, and take you away out people who never lend a helping hand , those who make up the story of his own brain, nothing deceive yourself.
Any form of salvation is self-salvation.
In Sao So, you think that's right, at any time it is right, do not doubt yourself in every moment, this is the most important thing.
Now, make a plan, put aside those useless, to execute it, do not be afraid of a lonely, lonely hustle and bustle of the more aggressive people. I want to see, soon moving.
给你们解释下这篇回答的大概意思。
一个弱者与一堆弱者群居，潜意识里知道自己是弱者，但弱在他身边是普遍现象，所以不能认清“弱”到底有多不好，能给自己具体带来什么害处，这些他是混沌的。他以为弱只是弱而已，并不会给自己的人生造成什么不可挽回的损失。
没有全面清晰的认识，所以没有坚定耐心的行动。
固然有点恶心，但也无可厚非，这样他习惯了，沿着惯性往下走，他遇到了一个强者，强者展示了他外化的行为，这种行为极具理性的美感，震慑了弱者，强者在偶然中讲述了他内化的渊源。
综上，弱者发现了强弱之分的关键【惯性】
他发现强者的惯性会让强者更强，他的身体与意志将会把他送往一个更符合他身份的地方。弱者的惯性让弱者更弱，如此下去他将变成暧昧、怯懦和琐碎的混世者。
这是两条不同的路，如果不刹停就会走一辈子的路，由此弱者意志坚决的刹停了自己，并向另一个方向使力，缓慢而坚决地推动自己向前，直到有一天这道力产生了惯性。
这是我能简化的极限了，望各位能看懂，有人问具体怎么坚持，坚持就是坚持，本身很枯燥，没有方法的。
