I have been with my boyfriend for half a year, and he pursued me. At that time, I was not very satisfied with his appearance, but after getting along with him, I found that he has a very good personality and was very happy with him, so I agreed.
In the first three months of being together, the relationship has been good, and then we moved in together. The first month was very sweet, although there were quarrels, but it did not affect the relationship, but later I found that he was very possessive, and his temper was very immature, every time he communicated with him, he could not understand me, and his attitude was very tough , I don't like him that much anymore. I am very emotional and anxious every day, thinking that it will be painful to be separated from him, so I cry all the time, and I have been immersed in negative emotions for the past month.
Later, we decided to live separately, but we would still meet during the day. For a while, I felt the feeling of being in love came back, and for a while, I was very anxious and didn't want to go on with him. I felt very disgusted, very entangled and painful. I don't know how to deal with my two extreme emotions. I am worried that I will regret it after breaking up. I am afraid that it is just a staged feeling, not that I really don't like this person. How to do it?
As the saying goes: getting along is easy and living together is difficult. Two people living together will quarrel because of life trivialities and emotions. The man is very possessive and has a bad temper, which comes from his inferiority complex and fear of losing you.
Currently living separately, I will return to the original feeling of being in love after a while, which means that we have released each other.
Here it is suggested to insist on living separately from each other, so that the other party can have a deeper understanding of each other's temperament and living habits. At the same time, you should rationally decompose his strengths and weaknesses, and discuss with him where each other's problems lie and how to solve each other's problems.