A fan friend sent me a message:
Brother Meng, I would like to ask how to choose the next three offers. My family and I have different opinions. I am Xiaoshuo from Shuangfei. I prefer the atmosphere of the university, so I applied for the job. It is a private one with three copies, and the second copy is completely out of reach. Business in Nanjing, the treatment is not bad. Byte is on the front line, but I am afraid that I will not be able to buy a house.
If it was put a few years ago, I would not hesitate to let you choose byte!
But after getting married, especially after having a family, this choice is really important!
Let me tell you something that happened recently:
My partner went to the emergency room!
But I was still writing the code, and when I received a call from my dad, I immediately went to the hospital at a normal speed, and then 120 was also sent to the hospital very quickly.
It really scared me to death.
Why did you suddenly faint?
Recently, the pressure of scientific research is quite high, and I have been working overtime to do some work. The subject was in the hospital, and there was still a meeting in their laboratory, so I asked for leave with her supervisor.
In my first few years on the job, I witnessed a co-worker take down three times. Working in a major Internet company, the salary is really high, and the work pressure is really high.
Why do Internet companies have to work overtime?
Seize the market! For the market, whoever can launch the product in the first time is the king, and the second place can only drink soup.
I'm not trying to create anxiety for everyone, but it's so important to pay attention to your body and exercise regularly. My partner basically does not have any exercise at ordinary times, just sitting in the laboratory for a whole day.
In addition to joining some excellent circles to learn, we must also understand ourselves, enjoy solitude, and be our own friends.
Many times, many people ask me for my opinion, but my opinion may not be suitable for you. You know yourself better than me. I think starting a business is good, and it is far more cost-effective than going to work, but most people will scold me when I say that starting a business is good, and it is indeed not suitable for many people.
so:
If you like to struggle and strive to change your destiny, then go to an Internet company, a big factory, or the front line, where there are really many opportunities. Young people really need to struggle a lot, don’t be afraid of making mistakes, if you don’t struggle when you are young, do you want to break through when you are older?
If you prefer stability, banks should be more stable. The happiness index of second-tier cities is also higher.
And don't think about buying a house at the beginning, learning more is the kingly way, and there will be more possibilities in the future. 5 years after I graduated, my salary has doubled by 5 times.
It is not recommended to go to school after graduation, especially private ones. Many junior colleges and third-party schools really go at any time. The key is that there is no help for their careers, and they are suitable for people who lie down and retire. Last year, I interviewed a Java teacher from three colleges with a salary of 10k. I plan to earn more money later, capitalize my age, and go again!
However, it is still recommended that most young people must choose positions with some technical content when they are young, such as development, and try not to choose testing and operation and maintenance.
If you don't suffer hardships in the early stages of your career, you will suffer several times in the second half of your life.
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Hello, I'm Xiaomeng, a 10-year development veteran, the boss of a small workshop, a coder, supervisor, and product manager. Likes freedom, hates intrigue in the workplace. My idol is Jobs. I chose the computer industry 10 years ago because of my love. It is now in its thirties, although it is not as simple as pursuing technology at the beginning, but I still love it. Technology changes the world, and knowledge changes destiny is my unchanging belief. Learning, thinking, and changing with changing times are my weapons. If I think something is worth doing, I will stick to it for at least 5 years. A year after I graduated, I got my mortgage, my car, everything, so I was free. I don't like to follow the rules and the life that is arranged. I like to toss when I was in college, and I still do now. I am lonely most of the time, I also like to be lonely, I am not very gregarious, and I survived the entrepreneurship. I don't know what the future will be like, but I will still pursue passionate life and things. I believe in the power of persistence. If you can persist in one thing, you can really beat 99% of people. Follow me and chat about technology, career, life and fun things together.
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