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Have you heard this nursery rhyme "Wah Ya Dig" recently? The beautiful teacher sings with the innocent children. How beautiful and innocent, and on a certain sound, almost all the comments are adults ( Children may not be able to get a mobile phone or know how to comment), so what can we think about the explosion of this nursery rhyme and those of us developers who are running around for our lives?
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Anxiety at school
In fact, as a human being, anxiety exists from time to time, even when we are in school. The final exam is about to come, but there are still a lot of homework that I haven’t reviewed, so I grind my guns, and once I pass the exam, I can start a happy semester life again; I want to confess my love to my classmates, but I’m worried that I still have nothing now, and I’m still spending money on my parents I want to study hard, and after graduation, I will find the beauty of the past when I am well-off; seeing the seniors have graduated, I also start to worry about whether it is public examination, whether to improve my education, or to find a job, and I am still not sure about it; Seeing that I am about to graduate, because I grew up under my parents and the ivory tower for a long time, I am at a loss for a moment. I feel that there are still so many happy things to do and so much to learn.
There is a lot of anxiety, but time keeps passing like running water. After all, the student life is short, and the most familiar face on campus is just a feeling. No matter how much anxiety you have, no matter whether your anxiety can be relieved, there will eventually be One day, you must leave the teacher, go to the society, and struggle.
I dig and dig and dig in the big campus, planting small seeds and hoping to bloom beautiful flowers. Leaving school to dig and dig and dig, hoping to work hard to find that beautiful one.
anxiety in the workplace
Soon after arriving at the workplace and taking part in work, there will always be some disgusting colleagues who don’t follow the routine and don’t want to play friendly and harmonious; there will always be some annoying leaders who feel that you are not doing enough and that your efficiency is not enough. Not high enough, thinking that you don’t know how to think; there are always some interviewers who want to grasp what you don’t know, and then torture them violently; there are always some people who don’t like your resume, think that you are not experienced enough, and think that your education is not good enough ;There are always so many people in the subway on the way to work, you can’t get on when you want to get on, and you can’t get off when you want to get off; it’s already 8:50 when you take the bus, and he just stays there and doesn’t move. ;It's almost summer, and I always have to sweat when I go to the company, but I have to start the morning meeting; it's already 6.30 in the afternoon, and there are always those unreliable people who arrange the meeting and tell you to go to dinner early, pay attention Body; slowly, you will always receive the teaching of your parents, find a partner early, and start a family early; there will always be those blind date partners who tell you that you are very good, but not suitable.
I dug and dug and dug in the big workplace, planting big seeds and hoping to bloom the flowers of the year-end bonus. Digging and digging outside the toilet, the colleagues squatting inside can't splash a little water for half an hour.
Thirty year old anxiety
In the twinkling of an eye, I just graduated in my last zodiac year and found a good job. I feel that I am so young and work so hard. If I give myself a little time, I will definitely be able to excel in Wubi. But slowly, colleagues around me started posting wedding photos, baby photos, and kindergarten photos. My cousin’s children who are three years older than me in my hometown are all in high school, and I’m still going out early and returning late every day. I didn’t even add WX to my partner for three days; I used to think that I could be excellent in Wubi, but I changed jobs from one company to another. In the end, I was the first to insist on becoming a leader in a company. It was still the wandering newcomer who went to listen to the command of a team leader who was younger than himself; Nuoda’s Beijing was already in his thirties, and it was time to get married and buy a house, but he found that he was still struggling, so he took the money he had saved for several years I went to Beijing to buy a set, and I finally had my own nest for the time being; seeing that my child should go to school, I found that even if I bought a house in Beijing, the child would not be able to settle down after all, and I would still have to go back to my hometown after the college entrance examination, but I would send the child back. Accompanying the children to grow up, whether to go or stay has become another anxiety; I work hard every day, work overtime, and the news of layoffs keeps coming quarter after quarter, worrying that it will be my turn, I am not ready, my own What should I do with the loan? How should the family live? My parents are getting older year by year, but I still don’t have as much food and clothing as I imagined, and I have a successful career. I imagined that I was excellent in Wubi, but when I was in my thirties, I was still typing in ordinary pinyin, and I made mistakes from time to time. Still press the Backspace key a few times.
I dug and dug and dug among many people, hoping to plant hard-working seeds and bloom strong flowers. I dug and dug and dug on the top of my head, and the remaining hair was like a fallen flower.
Do things have to make sense?
Having said so much, it's not about selling anxiety, it's just that these anxieties, no matter whether they land on their own heads or not, as the general public, anxiety will always find us from time to time, trying to blur our way forward. Slowly, life is faced with more and more things, there are always some lingering things, you don't say it, you don't want it, you can't meet it temporarily, but he is always there.
Sometimes I think, what is the meaning of life? I will eventually retire. The code I wrote may not exist for a few years and will disappear with the company's deregistration. I am so busy every day, and the first day is not over yet. The next day's alarm clock has already planted the flowers of timed tasks. Then you just say, does this dig, dig, dig, this innocent nursery rhyme make any sense? I think it is also meaningful. The teacher takes the children to sing, which is part of her job. So is it meaningful for us to watch the video and move our hands involuntarily together? Maybe there is, with the music, with the innocence, with the short time, we are caught in it, and the pressure is relieved.
But in today’s fast-paced world, many things have become things that have no memory. You may put down your phone and start working, but you have already forgotten that on the weekend, you saw a video of a teacher digging with children. Only colleagues tell you about it. , you just happily said together, yes yes yes, I saw it too, very good. After being happy, soon, I have to get back to work. Therefore, many things may not be meaningful. They just make you happy and liberate your mood. Even if you forget it later, this may be its own meaning again, a momentary meaning, a short-term meaning. , a meaning that has no meaning to us ordinary people.
life still has to go on
Wow digging may be just a small episode in our life, he let us experience the beauty brought by innocence again, and brought a short pause to our current fast-paced life. But my own life must continue after all. The teacher leads the children to sing, that is the life of the teacher, and the babies follow the teacher to learn, that is the life of the babies, and this teacher has influenced so many ordinary people. Bring us joy, she has actually gone beyond the ordinary meaning of life.
And our life still has to go on, we can choose to take a short break, but progress is still the main theme, don't let yourself be too old when you should be working, don't let yourself start to grow old when you should be youthful, go toward Focus on the ultimate, continue to walk towards the peak, even if you can't reach that place in the end, at least when you are 40 years old, you will thank yourself when you look at your 30-year-old self, instead of complaining that your 30-year-old self did not work hard.