What should a single female programmer in her 30s do?

  

        Lately I've been very depressed and distracted at work. Thinking about being in my thirties, but still single now, and thinking of finding a similar marriage, I can’t say much about it, at least I have a mild temperament and know how to be hot and cold, but in the end it didn’t work out, I know the reason. I am a person who sees things very clearly, and has a straight personality. If I have something to say, I say it directly. I don’t know how to tactfully. I am a little less gentle. I calm down and think about the reason why I can't find a partner, and if I can change it, be gentle in speaking, be patient in doing things, speak more euphemistically, and be more beautiful. no femininity

       I have always wanted to go to Tibet. I first heard that Tibet is where a classmate from high school works. Later, I searched for Tibet on the Internet. After searching Tibet on the Internet, I realized that Tibet is such a beautiful place. I can't say it's a ALICE friend, just an outdoor group of friends who climbed mountains together on weekends) I agreed to go to Tibet together, and I was really excited. It took a long time to find out some clues for a very strange bug, and I was in a good mood. Usually, I was reluctant to spend money on the jackets and trousers, but then the team leader said that they had come to do business and couldn’t go there. I was really disappointed, so he promised us that we would go there in the summer of 2015. I think everyone I guessed the result, but I didn’t go there. Whenever I heard the word Tibet or heard about Tibet, I couldn’t help but quit my job and go on a trip. But there were many reasons to restrict myself from going, but The reason for not leaving is not because of work. I can find another job after I run out of work. It is a lot of money to go to Tibet, but in the past few years, I have saved enough for my work to go to Tibet. The main reason is that I can’t meet my companions. The scenery of the journey is very important. But more importantly, there are people who share the good times with you. Although you can't set out, you can browse other people's Tibetan biographies, beautiful scenery, and simple human feelings on the Internet.

       Finally, in 2016, I quit my job and went to Xining by train with my four partners. I plan to take the train from Xining to Lhasa, Qinghai, and Chaka Salt Lake. It is really beautiful. I travel with my partners. It seemed to add to this joy, but God always seemed to love to joke with me. The two partners had serious reactions, and they had to return to the familiar city after Xining. I have to say that the few days I traveled were the best days for me in nearly 30 years. I was kind, patient, and had an unusual sense of optimism about people and things. I knew that this was the person I should be.

       This year is already 2017, and it’s summer again. The idea of ​​going to Tibet is getting stronger and stronger in my mind. However, I am also 28 years old. My fellow classmates around me have children, but I don’t have a boyfriend yet. , I went to work in my hometown Shijiazhuang from the bustling Beijing. I was still drifting at a stable age. At the age of 28, I seem to be afraid of quitting my job willfully, because I have worked for six years, but I am just like an ordinary programmer. I copy and paste code that looks similar every day, and I don’t learn any new technology. It seems that my value does not increase as much as my working years.

       The idea of ​​going to Tibet is so strong that there seems to be a little hesitation in the days when I don't go. I go to Tibet to see the places where my high school classmates have stayed, to see the beautiful scenery there, to experience the hard environment there and to live hard in the hard environment. People who want to get rid of that trace of melancholy in their hearts and become a person who can bring people happiness.

       Hesitated...

 

 

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