When I was just eating, the ramen owner had a few words with me. Since I often go to his restaurant to eat, I think I am relatively familiar. PS: I am a northerner, and I have a soft spot for noodles. The boss asked me if I was working overtime. I was confused at the time. I remember that I said before that I was a student. Maybe the boss has too many people every day. I guess I forgot. I said that I am still a student. He said, oh, I still I thought you were working. After all, there are more people working here. Except for Saturdays and Sundays, most of them are office workers. Well, then he told me that you students should have no pressure, you can just read books every day, I said, it’s okay, anyway, the pressure of entering the society will become greater.
Afterwards, I chatted with the boss for a while. After all, they are all from the north, and there are topics to talk about. He said, my son will come over tomorrow, it's fine, I said, let him come over to play, the boss said, no, I'll call him over Do me a favor, he is in high school now, and his studies are not good. He is not a material for study. I forced him to come here. At that time, I was stunned and didn't know what to say. Should I persuade the boss to let his son continue to study? Maybe his son has already got in the car, or has been driving for a long time. In the end, I persuaded the boss to let him study. After all, it’s good to learn something. Why do you come out so early? Even if you don’t study well, it’s good to be nurtured in school. You don’t have to read books. He also has to practice his mind, learn to be a man, etc., let him read it, and finally the boss sighed, "Forget it, come and help me and make more money."
I know that no matter how I try to persuade it will be fruitless, because most of the Hui people generally don't value education, and doing a business is the final choice in their opinion. It's already very good to go to high school. I have contacted before, Before graduating from junior high school, he began to enter the society. On the contrary, in our place, we attach great importance to education. My parents have always instilled in me the idea of reading, no matter what, reading is the first, and their work content will never let you participate, but hope that through reading , to get a bigger platform, stable, better job, higher salary, maybe this is their only hope for us.
On the way back from riding a bicycle, I kept thinking about what my future would be like, whether I would live a 9-to-5 life, or take the civil service exam, and spend my whole life mediocre, or do a small business by myself to earn some living expenses ; Or start their own business and live with a dream; or they are engaged in other jobs. 9 to 5 probably doesn’t exist. I’m already very grateful that code farmers don’t work overtime for a long time. I admit that in all positions except finance, code farmers have the highest salary. If they are engaged in AI, it will be even higher, but It's also very tiring, and then again, no line is easy and relaxed. Sometimes I feel like it's still early, I'm still studying, and I always have small fantasies about the future. But it turned out that time passed quickly, and I had to take graduation photos before I could react, and I was about to graduate.
Is it stress-free to be a student? Well, it's usually very comfortable, ask two friends for a few drinks, have a meal or something, or talk about a girlfriend, live a sweet life with no end, or fight for something that interests you. What if we live like this all the time, why try? Open a shop like a ramen owner, isn't it bad to do some business? But can you endure a ten-year life that has been monotonous and repetitive?
I believe that everyone will find a job after graduation, but the difference is that some people are doing what they are interested in and are happy all day long, while some people are doing tedious jobs that they hate, complaining about the world; some people Entering the top 500, doing decent things, going in and out of high-end places, some live in third- and fourth-tier cities, get angry in small companies all day, hold meager wages, and worry about; or some are uneasy about life, in order to Keep fighting for your own business.
Yesterday, a senior asked me something. She said that she didn't like their majors, because there is no room for advancement in the future, and the salary will only be four or five thousand if they die. She doesn't want to live such a monotonous life. She reviewed for a year last year, but was not admitted to graduate school due to insufficient preparation for the exam. Now facing her career, she doesn't know whether to go to work or insist on postgraduate entrance examination. If she works, she doesn't like that major, and she has no confidence in postgraduate entrance examination. But she liked IT very much and wanted to work in this field in the future. At that time, I advised her why she had to go to IT. It was very tiring. Besides, she was still a liberal arts student and couldn't bear it. She was determined to do this.
有时候我在想，当我走入社会的那一刻，我是属于哪一种，是抱怨者，还是有梦想的活着。我一直不觉得这是鸡汤，真的很现实，也许很多人在大学期间大学期间过着神仙级别的生活完全体验不到，但当你去社会上真正求职的时候，你就会体会到了，你会觉得这很现实，自己没有自主权，是因为自己没有真正努力罢了。
即使我们付出了努力，没有得到相应的回报，但我们依然是不后悔的，如果真是这样，那就再付出双倍的努力，直到有一天，符合我们心中的生活！我们本来就一无所有，为什么要放弃，不坚持下去呢。
未来,在我们的眼里,它应是美好的,甜蜜的,幸福的。
它是理想的代名词,是信念的灯火,是黎明的曙光。
每一天，都加油!