"What are the most important characteristics in our work? Sometimes we receive a job that we have never done before, and feel a lot of pressure and worry about whether we can complete it. There are many places to communicate with our boss, At the same level, with subordinates. We often say something, but others don’t understand and cannot get what we want to convey. What should we do at this time?"
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all work abilities
Confidence is the most important ability
In many cases, we can't solve some jobs ourselves, not because of how complicated the job itself is, but because of our lack of confidence, and we judge ourselves that we are not capable of achieving it, or we are not sure whether it can be done. This is the reason for confidence.
When we have firm confidence in our work, we will do the job very well, no matter how complicated the job is, as long as we are convinced that we can do it, we will definitely complete the job.
How to cultivate confidence? First of all, we must have a correct view of work. In fact, the completion of all work is not easy. We are already mentally prepared to accept the volatility in work. All work is like this. Simple work may only be a few small tasks. The volatility hindrance can be completed.
The more complex the job, the greater the volatility to experience, the longer the time, and the more frequency. The complexity of some jobs may require us to experience huge obstacles one after another, in various forms.
Solve one difficulty, come up with a bigger one, solve one, come one again, keep solving, keep having new problems. But they are all stages. In fact, life is such a continuous process. First of all, we must have this understanding of all the work to be done.
Don’t be happy when you solve a problem. Tell yourself, “It’s not over yet. There are still many interesting difficulties waiting for us.” Or you can ask yourself more interestingly, “Will the problem be solved completely after the problem is solved?”, A little expectation is also an interesting way to entertain yourself.
If there are still problems, "Oh, the volatility hasn't ended yet, let's continue." With this understanding, you can look at work problems objectively. This is actually a kind of rule, and our approach to the problem is also a methodology. This is one aspect of enhancing confidence.
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All problems will be solved eventually
It’s just a matter of time, we have to believe this
We don't have the slightest doubt about our ability to solve problems. In fact, we are all convinced that our work problems will be solved. It is only a matter of time. It's just that we want to pursue how to solve problems faster and with better quality.
So every time we solve a problem, it is an opportunity for self-summary. We have to make a self-summary every day to see what aspects we can do well in solving the problem today, how we can do better, what are shortcomings, and how to improve Own deficiencies.
This habit of summarizing every day is a very interesting behavior and a feast of thinking. This is also one of the ways to improve the effectiveness and efficiency of self-solving problems.
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Don’t be afraid of changes and unknowns,
Actively enjoy the change, seek change
Everyone knows that the eternal and unchanging thing in this world is change. When we reach the comfort zone in a certain environment, at this time, do not aim at enjoying this comfort. We have to enjoy change, and unstable life is the main theme of this world.
The more free life is, the more unstable it is, but if we are in an unstable state for a long time, we will get used to it. In fact, instability is real stability. If we reach the level of a comfort zone in a location, we must actively break this comfort zone to a disturbed zone or even a panic zone.
Active choice of anxiety and panic is the key. We are not passively selected, but actively choose, which is related to our self-recognition and positioning in life. What kind of life do we want to live. What kind of life we think is a meaningful and valuable life.
We always break our comfort zone. When we reach the comfort zone, we break, and when we reach the comfort zone, we break. Not to pursue a stable and comfortable life, but to enjoy the process from uncomfortable to comfortable. Enjoy this In the process, I got the knowledge of the world.
In this way, self-growth, self-breakthrough, and cognition are constantly improved. After many such breaks, unbalanced and balanced, a real sense of stability will be produced, and a truly happy life will be achieved. This kind of happiness in life Sense is generated because of the awareness of this world.
It is true happiness. So we are not pursuing instability, we are enjoying the process from instability to stability. And the brand-new cognitive enhancements produced in the process of continuous breaking. This kind of improvement of cognition and pattern is the most fun life experience.
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After we have experienced many breaking experiences
Will generate real confidence
Many people enjoy the process of breaking the comfort zone from an unbalanced state to a balanced state. Because of their own experience, every time they break, they will gradually return to their comfort zone, and they will have real confidence. Because it has gone through more tests and has accumulated more methods and ideas to solve problems.
They have a model for solving their own problems. When the universal model of this model is very powerful, and they have verified the universality of this model through various difficulties and tests, real confidence will be generated at this time.
Respond to all forms of suffering with the immutability and principle of the underlying model. May everyone find and continue to strengthen their confidence. So as to become a generalist at work efficiently solving problems.