Today I climbed up and chatted with everyone about how curiosity and interest were stifled. Why did you choose this topic? The main reason is that most of the people who pay attention to Xiaolu are students, and they are basically self-taught programming. The general academic qualifications are relatively low (high academic qualifications are also available, but only a small number of people), including Everyone knows my own situation.
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Some people will say that low academic qualifications are not a problem of personal ability. If you are unable to pass the test, you can't get into a good school. Who can be blamed? I think there is nothing wrong with this sentence. Also, the lower the education level, the more inferior is sometimes. Just like me, when others asked about academic performance, they always answered that their academic performance was not good, how can I drop the dishes~, anyway, all kinds of excuses. Sometimes when I reflect on myself, I usually attribute this reason to my own problems.
Later, I gradually discovered that it didn't seem that I didn't work hard. At the time of high school, you were the first one to get up. It was you who did not secretly return to the dormitory to do the questions in the classroom at noon, and it was you who asked the teacher to have your desk and desk parallel (to prevent dozing in class). In the end, The college entrance examination is not that bear-like.
After I arrived at university, I was always confused by a question left over from high school. You, like others, have one nose and two eyes, but you can't do it yourself? I am particularly puzzled, where is the problem?
When I was in college, I was really stimulated by some environmental and human factors. Four years later, I wanted to understand. I spent four years trying to answer this question. Looking back on my nine years of study experience, yes, because curiosity and interest have been stifled in the bud.
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Family level-was strangled in the bud.
To be honest with everyone, Xiaolu has been educated in the best private school in the small county since he was a child. I grew up bare-bottomed in the countryside. My parents were farmers and I didn’t know a few big characters, but the people of that generation had never been exposed to a good education and endured hardships for a lifetime, so I thought in my mind, even if I’m tired, let my children accept the best. Education, no matter how much money is spent.
Just simply recall when we were in elementary school. At that time, many people liked to play, and I was the same, and I was full of curiosity and interest in all kinds of things. For example, various sports or activities, always actively participate, and can achieve a certain ranking through hard work, not to mention how happy it is.
I recalled that this innocence did not last long. At that time, private schools had many interest classes, such as erhu, piano, guitar, martial arts, etc. At first I was very interested in guitar and erhu, but after going home and discussing it with my parents, my parents didn’t agree, because musical instruments are too expensive, a few hundred yuan, which is a big expense, and the only interest in the flames is realized. The cold water extinguished.
I can only participate in some interest classes that do not cost money, such as painting and martial arts. I was very impressed with painting at the time. Although my works were among the best at the time, all the brushes and dyes were borrowed by my classmates. Thinking about it now, actually Very sad, but for some reason, I gave up this interest again.
The only hobby that allows me to keep going is martial arts. After six or seven years of persistence, the reason why I can persist for so long is because this hobby does not require much money. Later, because of the junior high school experimental class, the study pressure was too great. Had to give up this interest.
Here is a kind of "paradox". Since parents are allowed to receive the best education, they cannot develop interest and explore their curiosity as they wish, so they can only focus on learning those textbooks.
The parents of the generation want us to be good, but they don’t know whether they are doing it right, so they can only impose certain conditions on us. Even if we think about it now, this is understandable, and they cannot be blamed for their mistakes. After all, they are the people who love us the most.
In fact, at this time, our interest and curiosity are slowly being "strangled" in the initial stage.
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Educational level-unknowingly strengthen the lethality.
We went to junior high school, went to high school, and began to be exposed to more knowledge. But this knowledge is "indoctrinating." No one tells you what is the use of learning it in the future. No one thinks about what your interests are. No one satisfies your curiosity. On the contrary, it kills you more. Curiosity and interest.
After three years of junior high school and three years of high school, many people's changes and gaps have widened. I gradually became addicted to games, gradually became disinterested in learning, and had no curiosity about the world. Others said that you are what I am, and I don’t have the strength to refute. Some teachers look down on such students with low grades.
The subjects we were exposed to, such as mathematics, Chinese, chemistry, physics, etc., were boring and boring from the podium, and we just crammed our minds. It is stuffed with headaches, stuffed into it to make yourself have various irritable and bad emotions, stuffed into fights and other phenomena.
All kinds of disciplines, you have no chance to breathe and refute. When you have the urge and thoughts that you don’t want to go to school, you are always suppressed by the fear of your parents and teachers, which makes you "such as fear" and you dare not not. Go to school and finish school.
Traditional education is best at questioning tactics, and you are done with the questions. After finishing one by one, everyone becomes a ruthless question-making machine . I still don’t know what questions I did at the beginning, how much influence it has on me now, and how helpful it is now, how many questions can I even remember now? I remember that every time the class meeting is held, the head teacher will say that after the college entrance examination, it will be easy to go to university.
We pour things into our minds day after day, but we don’t know what these can do in the future? No one teaches you how to question, no one teaches you how to reflect, and no one teaches you how to ask questions.
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The social level-is completely restricted.
After n years, we were fortunate that we finally went to university, and the university teachers started telling us again that we must pass the postgraduate entrance examination. It’s good to pass the postgraduate entrance examination. If you don’t pass the postgraduate entrance examination, you can regret it.
This is my personal experience in a university class. This is what a teacher who was admitted to graduate school said in a class of three schools. At that time, I also deliberately observed the reactions of other students in the class, but there was no objection. . I am more and more aware of the seriousness of traditional education.
Most of the students' reactions under the podium were those who should be playing with mobile phones. Those who should listen to it were there, without refuting or questioning, reflecting and thinking, just accept what the teacher said without filtering. , Isn't this the way most students are. Even sitting in the back row, I can only say something uncomfortable in my heart.
When we started to enter society, we wanted to be an ordinary person in peace and stability, but we didn't know what real wealth is and what the nature of money is, because the school didn't teach us these things at all.
Many people no longer pursue stability and stability, but gradually become eager for quick success and instant benefits, thinking about the myth of getting rich overnight, which makes it easy for those online scammers to succeed.
We gradually lose our "judgment", we will not "question", we will not "think", we will not see the "essence" of things, our brains are gradually corroded, and our "will power" is gradually lost. Blindly following the crowd , the Internet amplifies this result and effect, and many people have become online mobs (commonly known as trolls).
At last
Some people are lucky. After gradually realizing these problems, they realize that it is not so easy, so many people give up again. Because this kind of change is too difficult, I have been accustomed to this way of studying for more than ten years . I am used to getting answers without thinking. You can get rich without hard work, and you can get social status without hard work.
Our curiosity and interest have been stifled a little bit in this way. Even now, many people don't know what their interests are, but what makes money is their own interest. With a pessimistic attitude, we walked hard in life, stopped and stopped, and looked back, we still look the same, without a trace of change.
I still remember the scenes of the high school English teacher "sarcasm" and "ridiculed" me, and I still remember her appearance. Now I should thank her from the bottom of my heart, because without her, I don't know where I got the motivation to explore all this in the first place.
I am even more convinced that the future is still possible, and we must be more optimistic in the face of difficulties. Our post-90s generation are all grown-ups and still young. We can learn whatever we want to learn without restraint.
Remember one sentence, we are still young now, young is capital, young is our only capital! mutual encouragement! ! !