Grandpa took you and your sister alone. Because of the epidemic, you have not yet started school. In the past few days, my mother always received a complaint call from grandpa when she went to work. The day before yesterday (2020-04-28) the evening after her mother got off work , I was listening to my grandpa talking about your various "bads", my mother was also a quick temper, and she exploded in an instant, so she almost wanted to beat you, but grandpa stopped the beating again, and the fire in my mother's stomach did not vent. After the performance review of Dad in the evening, it was almost 11 o'clock in the evening. I came home and found that you were asleep in the room alone. At the time, I was still thinking, why fell asleep alone in the room today. As a result, when my father pushed the door of mother's room, he found that mother had locked the door angrily. Dad understood the above things after understanding;
Dad is also a little anxious at work, but after experiencing 3.25, this time his heart is much stronger than before. Anything can be faced positively. In the future, you may encounter grievances and setbacks in your life or work. , When encountering difficulties, Dad wants to say to you in the future: "Difficulties are not terrible, but fear of difficulties is really terrible. Come on, you are the best!";
Maybe it’s really because my sister came to this world, and the family paid much less attention and care to you. Everything is no longer centered on you. Last night (2020-04-30, tomorrow is May Day holiday) When my dad washes your feet again, I ask you: "Xirui, do you feel that after having a sister, your mother cares less about you?" You nodded affirmatively, and I said, "How much is missing? ", you stretched out your thumb and index finger and said, "It's so much less" (a big scale), then grandpa, you also made a big scale, and then I said dad? When you come back, my father is missing a little bit, and I feel very comforted; then I asked how to score? You gave both grandpa and mother a zero point. When it was my turn to give me a score, you said that my dad was not a zero point (because my dad also beat you when he lost his temper and you deducted a point, but it was not deducted as a zero point^_^ );
This morning (2020-05-01) I told you on the sofa in the living room to stop irritating grandpa. Then I told you that grandpa is over 70 years old. Stop irritating grandpa. What if grandpa dies? Your childlike answer was "It's okay." When I heard you so indifferent, my heart shook a bit. Fortunately, the words later calmed my heart. I continued to listen to you: "Grandpa is dead. When you all go to work, when I grow up, I drove the car by myself, I went to the soil to find my grandpa, and then took it home, and then gave my grandpa a medicine, and then my grandpa came alive", then I Ask: "You still love grandpa, don't you?", your eyes filled with affirmative nod and replied: "Well, yes";
Now you still don’t understand what is loss, what is death, hope that when that day really comes, you can be strong;
Death is an essential part of our life，We and you must learn to accept it as a fact.